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I wonder about those who thought Mary was never to enjoy wedded bliss i.e. the union of man and wife, and thus remaining a virgin throughout out mortality have given any thought to Joseph and what this meant for him. What a great deal this must have been for Joseph never to have been intimate with his wife. I guess you could make the argument that he was the first celibate priest
Holy Tradition, which the Apostles taught, says that Mary was consecrated to God at a young age. When she left the Temple, she was betrothed to a much older man who had children of his own from a previous marriage.
He was her caretaker not her lover. IF you look at the earliest icons of the Nativity, you see Josepj depicted as a white-haired man, sitting off to the side, not in the central portion of the icon where Mary and Jesus are.
He did not expect to have sex with Mary. He knew going in that that was not to be, even though he didn't know about Jesus yet.
That's one of the reasons he was chosen to be the caretaker of Mary and the guardian, or father on earth, of Jesus.
He was known as Joseph the Just. He would have understood perfectly ,in that time and place, that Mary's consecration precluded sexual congress with a man, and what consecration meant.
Finding out that she was pregnant was all the more shocking and hurtful to him. He thought that she had broken her vow to God.
That is what the Apostles taught, but , of course, if you throw out all Holy Tradition passed down by the Apostles and only accept the basic part that ended up in the Gospels,this kind of discussion is what you end up with.
The Bible, after all , is the story of Jesus' life, not Mary's.
As time passed and heresies popped up , it was declared a doctrine to ensure uniformity of belief throughout the universal Church.
[This message has been edited by primrose (edited 7/11/2008 3:36a).]
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