queso1 said:
I'm sure there are great Mormons. I've never met one that wasn't incredibly nice and ethical. I just struggle with how they can buy into a religion created by a huckster.
Good theory. It is pretty clear that the dad's homosexual relationship with B was a lot more than one handy he talked about.Texaggie7nine said:
The only other times I have seen parents this negligent and clueless is when the abuser is their significant other, usually a stepdad or boyfriend that isn't the child's bio dad. The mom's love for the abuser clouds any vision to see obvious red flags because they can't stand the thought that their true love might be a bad person. Sometimes the mom even knows about the abuse and still doesn't care because they love their boyfriend or husband more than their own children.
This leads me to believe that both of her parents were practically in love with the guy.
Keep in mind- for the book that was written previous to the documentary they didn't even disclose either of the parents messed around with 'B.' They were definitely hiding stuff. By the time the documentary was made, B was dead, so easier for Dad to say it was a one time thing/limit scope.Bunk Moreland said:
Dad was swapping favors with him too. Don't think for a second the tug job was a 1 time only situation.
IMO dad's decision making changes given that.
Aston04 said:
Side note: Dad is dead now too.
dave94 said:Aston04 said:
Side note: Dad is dead now too.
Oh yeah? Hadn't heard that, when did that happen?
This right here.Aston04 said:Keep in mind- for the book that was written previous to the documentary they didn't even disclose either of the parents messed around with 'B.' They were definitely hiding stuff. By the time the documentary was made, B was dead, so easier for Dad to say it was a one time thing/limit scope.Bunk Moreland said:
Dad was swapping favors with him too. Don't think for a second the tug job was a 1 time only situation.
IMO dad's decision making changes given that.
Lastly, dad was a florist and LDS. Very likely a closet homosexual that the predator sensed and played off of it to get to Jan. Probably, also part of why wife was sexually frustrated too.
Side note: Dad is dead now too.
Sex Panther said:
I finally finished finished this today. Man... wtf
This is like the literal opposite of Taken
That was slightly understandable the time when Jan was missing and the mom was pretty much willing to put up with anything to get her girl back.Quote:
Just listening to those phone recordings...like, the Mom was just casually asking 'B' and Jan if they still wanted to marry each other....WTF?!
If that was the only sign of 'wtf' we had been shown by the parents, then I could agree with your rationalization....but it's not, and I simply don't. Idk if it's cowardice or sheer stupidity, but her parents were 100% complicit. It's all just baffling on so many levels.Texaggie7nine said:That was slightly understandable the time when Jan was missing and the mom was pretty much willing to put up with anything to get her girl back.Quote:
Just listening to those phone recordings...like, the Mom was just casually asking 'B' and Jan if they still wanted to marry each other....WTF?!
When they were idiots and let her go to work for him, the only rational I could work out was that they were afraid if they did not let Jan get her way, then she would run away again with B and never see them again.
Junkhead said: