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Emotional Support Cobra said:
Any time a woman on social media proclaims themselves to be a strong, powerful woman or other inspirational vague nonsense, I just assume they are going through a divorce and need affirmation.
I am a woman and this garbage drives me nuts. If I need help I will ask for it and that makes me stronger than passively begging for it IMO.
I mean, except opening jars which I 100% need help with.
This! And if not a divorce, their BF just dumped them. They are also probably listening to a few songs by women, over and over again, about being strong and not needing a man, how men are all evil, how she is better than the girl her ex is with now, etc.
If you have to say it, you ain't it.
Yep. Seen this and more many times on social media.
Woman posts a lot about her career and her promotions and her great kids and husband.
Meanwhile, she had a DWI or some other offense that she never took care of. Didn't go to court. Had outstanding warrants. Not very strong or independent or responsible to not handle her legal issues.
Husband gets a side chick. She maybe catches on. She goes out of state to visit one of her kids. Husband *allegedly* calls and tells the cops where she is and that she has outstanding warrants.
He also cancels her cell phone since it is on his plan (not very strong or independent). She can't easily call back to her friends or other family to get help as she was arrested in another state.
Ends up getting extradited back to her hometown/county. Is off the radar in and out of jail or court for a month.
All of her girlfriends post nonstop about how strong she is, how she is better without her drunkard husband, how she needs to find some young guy and screw his brains out for a few weeks to get over her soon-to-be-ex.
Meanwhile the side chick is posting all kinds of photos of her with the first gal's husband and proclaiming how happy they are together.
What ends up happening? Side chick finds out he's married. Dumps him. First gal, who was strong and independent and later in jail for a spell, runs back to him.
They are living happily ever after if you believe their social media posts.
The supportive girlfriends are now supportive that she is doing the best thing for her and her husband and living her own truth and best life and whatever.
It really should be a reality show. Except nobody would believe it.