If a guy is scuzzy enough to fool around on his wife/girlfriend, it doesn't take a tit bar for him to do it.

You're right, "seated", not "seeded". All part of my plan to build you up. You are a smart and beautiful woman, no matter what they say. Words can't bring you down. Now how about we go out for a drink and talk this out?

B-1 83: You are absolutely right! If a guy is gonna cheat, he's gonna do it regardless of the location.

Our relationship is such that honesty is something that is extremely important to the both of us. He's a guy, I'm not stupid, I know he's been to strip clubs in the past with his friends, and I know he will continue to go. He's even taken me a few times, which is just hilarious to me. He's honest with me about it when he goes, and I find that to be one of the best parts of our relationship. He can always tell me when he's going. I'm not thrilled about it of course but it doesn't bother me either. It's not something we would ever fight about. Life's too short and it's not worth it.

amen, B-1-83.

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but if they want to take it to another level it is not every difficult to find dancers that will.

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if they want to cheat, period, it isn't difficult to find a ho to cheat with.

a cheater is a cheater is a cheater, whether it's with a stripper or a dancer or someone from work.

you either have mutual respect and loyalty, or you don't.

Only two reasons to go there, and they better be big!

so why are you responding if it means nothing?

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it's "deep seated", not "seeded", you moron

no one has daddy issues, you just like calling people names. your opinion is of no merit whatsoever.

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Oh, laf laf laf.

Whats this about name-calling?

I think Ninja Babe should write back as Annie and recount the details of the back room in detail.

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• Are you angry at the world and don’t know why?
• Do you inadvertently sabotage relationships or smother those closest to you?
• Do you rarely take risks or step out on faith?
• Is there an undercurrent of anxiety in most tasks you perform?
• Do you struggle to connect with God?
• Do you have little or no self-confidence–or minimal self-worth?

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I think people that have a strong awareness of "deep-seated" issues has plenty of experience with them. Are you longing for Daddy Lasagna boy? I have some neighbors (gay) that would love to take you out for a beer!

Cute that you are fighting Twila's battles for her. 3 beers and you're Errol.

My best thinking would lead me to think that you haven't had a piece of ass in a good number of years.

Eating disorder and fake tits? I'm in.

TC, I agree but some have the impression that strip clubs are safe from guys and girls doing things that women do not think goes on there. You can find a ho anywhere, but some guys are tempted a bit more by them dancing nude in front of them and rubbing on their crotch.Guys that may not make an effort otherwise. Some guys will argue that it is totally innocent and most of the time it is. The original post was about a woman who does not trust her husband, there must be a reason for it. I expect he is one of the ones in the back room getting the h.j.

I've taken girls with me before just so they can see it's not that big of a deal. Men just like naked women. A good man will go get worked up and come home and take care of business with his woman.

We need to see it for real. While women need to read trashy novels or see movies to get their fantasies played out in their minds.

It's all a matter of trust. Either you have it, or you don't. If you don't, then go join your man sometime to demystify the experience. Heck, it's the least you women can do for dragging our butts to couple's showers!

More than you, buddy. I don't have to play the sympathetic best friend card.

sympathetic best friend crap, it has nothing to do with anyone else. you are just a piece of ****, that's all there is to it. you may say you get some, but you know the truth. you're not getting ass acting like that. those of us that actually do get it know how it really works..

Ms Cabana is on the right track wit hthe idea that guys are visual, and like to look at naked chicks.

but let me add that most guys would rather look at their chick naked than the skanks at a strip club. If chicks were more willing to 'entertain' their guy at home, fewer guys would be at strip clubs.

they're usually in a pretty darn good mood when they get home from the strip clubs.

ladies, take advantage of this!

BTW, ragging on some chicks problems, that hasn't done anything to you, makes you a real tough mf. I am impressed, you should be up for Ag of the year.

What has hamster done to you, maroonaggie99?

plenty of crap

it's a mutual respect thing with me, I am respectful until another is not.

I don't know anything at all about Twila. I was making general statements about strippers and girls who fear/resent them. If what I said really struck a nerve with her, then she has serious problems, and should probably quit Texags and immediately seek professional help.

BTW, the "3 beers and sympathy" thing is looking more and more like a Babe Ruth style called shot.

Just don't call her a wallflower. She'll go ape on you.

I don't need anyone to fight for me. I don't consider someone calling me a name on an internet forum a "battle".

Someone asked a question and I answered it. We were discussing something and then someone decided he wanted to call me a slut without even knowing me, then said if I didn't like being called a slut then I have problems.

I can't control what other people do or think, but I can take myself out of this because it's degenerated into something I'm not interested in and because it's already dragged me down lower than I care to go. Name calling is unproductive and pointless.

MaroonAggie is what is known as a "gentleman". I'd explain, but it would be wasted effort here.

I never called you a slut. I implied that you are easily manipulated. Methinks you doth protest too much.

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Keep going, twila. You've almost posted enough info that with 3 beers and a little sympathy you'd be the easiest lay in texags history.

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You didn't imply anything. This was very personal and completely unnecessary. Don't try to act all innocent just because maroonaggie pointed out that you're being a bully. Plus now everyone knows that you're that creepy guy at the end of the bar preying on girls who are sad.

I would only worry if your man admits to having been to the VIP section of Treasure's in Houston.

Again, I'm sorry if you can't see the difference, but that implies that you would be easy to manipulate, not that you are a slut. I'd wager that you are pretty reserved sexually, and far from a slut.

ask around, I'm a wallflower

Leave me out of this. Wallflower was meant as a compliment. You goobs take it to the parking lot.

Cannot believe a perfectly good stripper thread has some to this.

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Strippers tend to make married men dishonor their wives. mrs. proc may let me go, but she wouldn't like it. It's her right not to.

It's ok, proc, wallflower is way better than what Lasagna boy said about me...

And you're right, mrs. proc has every right not to like it, but she trusts you. Not every guy is a cheater, but ones that are, are, and even though strippers do provide an opportunity, they don't make a man change fundamentally.

[This message has been edited by twila (edited 3/23/2004 2:28p).]