Reminds me of a coworker. He always wanted a 3 way with the wife and a chick. The wife said that it wasn't her thing. He later learned that their kid's teacher and wife were banging her. OUCH.

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To me, it sounded like a cry for help and suggestions for the family. And proof that they are attempting to save what little thread between them. That is either a really good act, or an attempt to fix what's broken.

But be on your A game, because as said, these SOBs can surpass a private eye.

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I generally like your posts, but sometimes I have no idea WTF you're talking about...

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Kee Kee said:

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To me, it sounded like a cry for help and suggestions for the family. And proof that they are attempting to save what little thread between them. That is either a really good act, or an attempt to fix what's broken.

But be on your A game, because as said, these SOBs can surpass a private eye.

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I generally like your posts, but sometimes I have no idea WTF you're talking about...

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Yep, it's a side effect of my meds. I'll wake up and say wtf.

Agree. I can't imagine going to the church for advice on how my marriage should work. Yet, people do. The couple should've been quite a bit more candid though with him so he could've directed them to a pro.

Having multiple kids under the age of 5 is one of God's best birth control methods.

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AgEng06 said:

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Kee Kee said:

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To me, it sounded like a cry for help and suggestions for the family. And proof that they are attempting to save what little thread between them. That is either a really good act, or an attempt to fix what's broken.

But be on your A game, because as said, these SOBs can surpass a private eye.

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I generally like your posts, but sometimes I have no idea WTF you're talking about...

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Yep, it's a side effect of my meds. I'll wake up and say wtf.

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Ah, I know that feeling. Sometimes I over medicate with something called "ethanol". Happens to the best of us.

I'd bet that this dude was either completely inexperienced before meeting his wife or maybe had gotten laid a few times before. I'd also bet that he had/has watched a lot of porn which made him expect her to act as if she was being exorcised every time he graced her with his peen. When he realized that normal sex isn't like that, resentment started to build up which probably affected their sex life even more.

I'll also go out on a limb and say that he probably has a 2-incher, never goes down on her, and considers 45 seconds an accomplishment.

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Reminds me of a coworker. He always wanted a 3 way with the wife and a chick. The wife said that it wasn't her thing. He later learned that their kid's teacher and wife were banging her. OUCH.

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This didn't happen in San Antonio by any chance?

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GeorgePlimpton said:

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This thread was way more than we deserved today.

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Very True! And to think the guy was gettin some 1-2 times per week, and STILL not happy!

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Some of you aren't getting hot, passionate sex at least twice a week?

You poor souls.

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I'd bet that this dude was either completely inexperienced before meeting his wife or maybe had gotten laid a few times before. I'd also bet that he had/has watched a lot of porn which made him expect her to act as if she was being exorcised every time he graced her with his peen. When he realized that normal sex isn't like that, resentment started to build up which probably affected their sex life even more.

I'll also go out on a limb and say that he probably has a 2-incher, never goes down on her, and considers 45 seconds an accomplishment.

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queso1 said:

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Reminds me of a coworker. He always wanted a 3 way with the wife and a chick. The wife said that it wasn't her thing. He later learned that their kid's teacher and wife were banging her. OUCH.

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This didn't happen in San Antonio by any chance?

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And this is why you don't post **** like this on here. Absolutely epic

Yeah, his expectations on her reaction are probably off. And as far as comparing to the past, hey bud, she's not 19 years old and doesn't get to sleep until noon anymore thanks to the two little asshats upstairs. Every night isn't gong to involve her pretending she's Jenna Jameson while you go balls deep in her ass.

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The OP told them to seek professional counseling at the end of the OP (best move).



Another possiblity here that hasn't been brought up is birth control. Some of those things absolutely kill sex drives in women. We had that issue for a few months, read up on the one she was on, got the doc to switch her to another one and boom......back in business.

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Same. We were definitely back in business, and she definitely got pregnant. Unintentionally.

I feel like we've entered the homestretch toward this thread being locked

I think I could die happy if someone posted something like "do you go to <name of church> in <city?>?" and then OP got deleted.

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I think I could die happy if someone posted something like "do you go to <name of church> in <city?>?" and then OP got deleted.

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Im crying. Please Lord, just let us have this

Boerne isn't that big of a town. I'm sure it will come out eventually.

I'd like to add that her sexual history before him or the marriage is completely irrelevant. Guys, if you don't want your egos hurt, perhaps you shouldn't ask about her intimate details in relationships you had nothing to do with. Her history is none of your business.

Ladies, we guys want a best friend we can lust after and not judge us for our fetishes. Someone we can watch a game with or watch a mood-helping porno with. Someone that can make us look good in front of our friends but someone that won't bust our balls when we feel weak. Be a pal, make us feel like an alpha male on occasion. Sex shouldn't always be a RomCom...give us the RedTube treatment sometimes.

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I'd like to add that her sexual history before him or the marriage is completely irrelevant. Guys, if you don't want your egos hurt, perhaps you shouldn't ask about her intimate details in relationships you had nothing to do with. Her history is none of your business.

Ladies, we guys want a best friend we can lust after and not judge us for our fetishes. Someone we can watch a game with or watch a mood-helping porno with. Someone that can make us look good in front of our friends but someone that won't bust our balls when we feel weak. Be a pal, make us feel like an alpha male on occasion. Sex shouldn't always be a RomCom...give us the RedTube treatment sometimes.

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Disagree when it has come out that she was going hog wild (as it were) during the old days and giving the man she's spending the rest of her life with 25% effort. Boos all around for that! I feel for the guy

If she's 31 and that was when she was 18-19 though, a lot has changed that has little to do with how much one dude revs her engine vs. another.

He shouldn't have cared or known that she was going "hog wild" before the marriage anyway. And why does it matter that she was? Maybe he should learn to figure out what makes her go hog wild now. This is his responsibility, not hers. Actually, it's a team effort. She should let him know what it is and he shouldn't be intimidated by the answer.

Reminds Women marrying for security MRS degree. Many marry then they love but are not in love later in life then have a crisis in their late 20s and early 30s. It's a race to beat their other girlfriends to the alter

Reason #2,657 to marry a virgin.

wbt5845 said:

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Reason #2,657 to marry a virgin.

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Disagree. Many times those are usually conflicted with "The Notebook" syndrome.

I don't think he sought it out..sounds like they were friends first

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He shouldn't have cared or known that she was going "hog wild" before the marriage anyway. And why does it matter that she was? Maybe he should learn to figure out what makes her go hog wild now. This is his responsibility, not hers. Actually, it's a team effort. She should let him know what it is and he shouldn't be intimidated by the answer.

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Pick a lane

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wbt5845 said:

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Reason #2,657 to marry a virgin.

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Disagree. Many times those are usually conflicted with "The Notebook" syndrome.

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Notebook syndrome? WTF is that?

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wbt5845 said:

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Reason #2,657 to marry a virgin.

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Disagree. Many times those are usually conflicted with "The Notebook" syndrome.

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Notebook syndrome? WTF is that?

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Not happy unless you die within hours of each other. So high maintenance.

OK - never heard of that. Not sure if Mrs AiT has that.

Ha! That is awesome!

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No. Not in San Antonio.