Seeking advice: need an implement to spank child with

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Bobby Ewing
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I'm happily trophy wifing for the next couple of years because I don't personally put babies in daycare. Then I will return to my job. I'm not sure how any of that is relevant, though.


Obviously you don't understand the definition of "trophy wife".
Aries
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So you have never worked, right?


Charps, she was too busy trophy wifing, divorcing & trophy wifing again.
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Bird Poo
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Your daughter does not respect you.

Spank her once and witness the surprise and complete 180 she'll do now that she knows who runs the house.
Fonzie Scheme
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The more infrequently I use spanking on my two, the more effective it is. But, they are sensitive types. I was too when I was a kid but am now an insensitive azzhole. Also, don't discount deprivation. If there's something she loves or loves to do, deprive her of it. It worked with my oldest on potty training FAR more than anger or corporal punishment.

Again, the last thing you want to do is take blanket advice from people who don't know your child. You and your spouse know her best and you're dealing with a hybrid of the two of you. Keep that in mind and good luck. Parenting is (at once) the most rewarding, challenging, and exhausting undertaking I have ever encountered.
Ogre09
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I don't use time out or spank. Both are ineffective.


False.
Ogre09
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Also, just use your hand.
AngelAg
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I was never spanked as a child and I turned out just fine.
Uncle Howdy
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Have you ever been spanked as an adult?
BostonAg74
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Spank her once and witness the surprise and complete 180 she'll do now that she knows who runs the house.


Just imagine how surprised she'll look if you pull out her fingernails with a pair of pliers.
BackwardsInBoots
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I've met larsquirrels children. They are delightful. And her collie is also incredibly well behaved.
backintexas2013
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So how did that behavioral change approach work on your first husband squirrel?
YellAgs
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backintexas2013
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Spank her once and witness the surprise and complete 180 she'll do now that she knows who runs the house.




Just imagine how surprised she'll look if you pull out her fingernails with a pair of pliers.


Are you really saying these are on the same level?
Human
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^
Yes he is.
Lungblood
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What a tub of goo
Charpie
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Jacques
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I think the consensus today is that hitting your kid is not the way to do it. You put them in time out and reason with them.

So lock her in a closet and tell her if it happens again you'll not love her anymore and will stop feeding her.

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backintexas2013
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You seem to be enjoying this.
backintexas2013
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I think the consensus today is that hitting your kid is not the way to do it. You put them in time out and reason with them.

So lock her in a closet and tell her if it happens again you'll not love her anymore and will stop feeding her.

[This message has been edited by Jacques (edited 5/24/2014 4:37p).]


Throw in God isn't going to love her either and you got a plan
YellAgs
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You seem to be enjoying this.
she is into bdsm
OriolePete3281
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I've got a 5 cd set on how to discipline your kids from our old pastor in Tennessee. It is really really good advice for even a non Christian.

Jacques
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I think the consensus today is that hitting your kid is not the way to do it. You put them in time out and reason with them.

So lock her in a closet and tell her if it happens again you'll not love her anymore and will stop feeding her.

[This message has been edited by Jacques (edited 5/24/2014 4:37p).]


Throw in God isn't going to love her either and you got a plan


You know, you might be kidding but: has op tried telling her where people that are bad go when they die?
marble rye
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There's even a lovely sing along song about a lake of fire for her to learn.
Charpie
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You seem to be enjoying this.


Nah. It's just funny. You can beat the **** out of a kid and they will still be an ass. Every kid is different. There is no set week as to how to raise them. Which is why I sit back and laugh at those who seem to know what works. I look at me and my siblings. Same parents..same house, etc. I rarely got spanked and I'm ok. My brother was a **** and got hit a lot. Never learned. Everyone is different. As a parent, it's our job to raise our kids to do better than we did. Therefore, every situation is different.
Jacques
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There's even a lovely sing along song about a lake of fire for her to learn.


Or you could sing Jesus loves the little children. But make clear only the ones that aren't little punks.

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wellboriginal
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Mom just grabbed whatever was in arm's reach at the time of the offense. But, she kept a wooden spoon in the car and was deadly accurate with it...even while driving.

Dad never had to use anything but his hand.


Yep.

And when I was dropped off at my favorite cousin's house to spend the weekend, my mom would say "And don't forget, Aunt Sue has my permission to spank you if necessary."

My cousin was hyper and could dream up more schemes to get into trouble than I ever could. But he always made them sound like a fun adventure.

We turned out fine and I rarely ever got spanked because I realized it wasn't worth it to do whatever it was that got me in trouble.

But not acting like an entitled little brat worked in my favor. When I stayed over at family or friend's houses, they always told my parents "I wish my own kid was as well-behaved as yours".

No way would I dream of acting the way I see some kids act today, and no way would I have gotten away with it the way kids today get away with it, especially in public.

You misbehave in a nice restaurant, the whole family leaves and you go home and have cereal or maybe a grilled cheese or pb&j for dinner. And you face the wrath of your siblings for ruining a night out on the town.

Boy could Aunt Sue swing a spatula and a flyswatter.
Jugstore Cowboy
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But there was allwaaaaays luv in Daddeee's haaaaands.
Ogre09
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You seem to be enjoying this.


Nah. It's just funny. You can beat the **** out of a kid and they will still be an ass. Every kid is different. There is no set week as to how to raise them. Which is why I sit back and laugh at those who seem to know what works. I look at me and my siblings. Same parents..same house, etc. I rarely got spanked and I'm ok. My brother was a **** and got hit a lot. Never learned. Everyone is different. As a parent, it's our job to raise our kids to do better than we did. Therefore, every situation is different.


Charpie ftmfw
Uncle Howdy
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Sounds like Charpie is on board with the barbed wire baseball bat
Rexter
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Don't forget to tell your kid it hurts you more than her
Jugstore Cowboy
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Charpie is right. If you knew my brother and me, you'd be surprised we grew up in the same house.
FOUR THIN INCHES
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Spanking is hot
Uncle Howdy
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Charpie is right. If you knew my brother and me, you'd be surprised we grew up in the same house.


With a rare serious answer, the same can be said with my sister and me. Tho my brother and I are basically the same person in a lot of ways
 
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