For the OP, I live my life by my own experiences, and I try to do as much research as possible, but from the beginning there has been so many lies and misinformation about this virus, I have given up trying to find any credible data. Like many on here, I have been super hesitant to get the vaccine, but being a bit overweight, I decided JNJ was right for me and my family back in May this year.
No ill effects from the vaccine and happy with my decision. During the 3rd week of August, I was with my cousin who is 37 years old, perfect health other than mild asthma, hunting and fishing buddy, as we were in Georgia getting our feeders running for the upcoming deer season. He and his family are not vaccinated, and I certainly respect his decision. We talked about Covid-19, and I shared a story from a Doctor friend of mine that attends the same Sunday School class as me, and that Doctor indicated (the Sunday before my trip to Georgia) that he had read a few reports that the vaccines and MRNA technology was destroying the weaker strains of the virus, which is good to a point, but has a nasty side effect in that it leaves us with a stronger more nasty strain to deal with if we catch the virus. It was on my mind, since I just heard it and I shared it with my cousin, who said, thanks but the vaccine is not for me or my family, and we left it at that.
Fast forward to September 15th, and I get a short text from my cousins wife, that he has Covid and is feeling pretty sick. They were monitoring his oxygen levels, and they are low 90's, and if they drop into the 80's they are headed to the hospital. The next day they drop to high 80's so the go to the hospital, but the hospital does not admit him, send him home and say this is part of it, bring him back if the Oxygen levels get worse. They do get worse, and he's so weak a day or two later that they call for an ambulance to take him to the hospital. He's been on a BiPAP machine for over two weeks, and they've indicated his lungs are so weak and have some much damage from Covid pneumonia that they are unsure, how they are going to get him off the machine. His wife has been resisting putting him on a ventilator. He's developed sepsis and a UTI, and they've indicated he will be in the hospital through the end of the year at least, and will need help from a pulmonologist and PT to learn to walk again. The part that breaks my heart the most is hearing the stories about times when they try to take him off the BiPAP and he can't breath so he begs for them to put him back on the machine so he can breath. Similar problems when he tries to eat and then catch his breath.
You are trying to make an important decision, so I share this with you for that purpose only. My cousin was resolute with his decision, and even said, if I get CV-19 and I die, then it was God's will, he was comfortable with his decision. I think the missing data point from his decision was, you don't just get CV-19 and die a day or two later. In watching what he is going through, CV-19 slowly suffocates you to death, which, if you believe the vaccine can help prevent that, I think it's something most of us would choose to avoid. There's tremendous financial stress on the family too, so it is a very challenging situation.
Hope this helps.