sharpdressedman said:
I have been told by someone with an Army officer son that infidelity is a serious, continuing problem for both spouses that becomes more frequent and intense when one of them is deployed.
Get Off My Lawn said:
Lust? Maybe. But if you're the senior officers on a boat, I'm guessing it's more of a function of boredom, loneliness, and pent up urge.
The experiment keeps failing - and yet those who cut through Chesterton's fence to interject a token number of women into the military will keep harping otherwise.
Not to get all philosophical on the military board, but these are some things I've been thinking about recently.
Every action has consequences. Sometimes I wonder if our country's involvement in war has had a detrimental long term impact on our society and moral culture. While only a small percentage of this country serves now, a significantly larger percentage served in Korea, Vietnam, and quite a few still served and deployed over the last 20+ years. Sending millions of men overseas, away from wives and girlfriends, away from children, etc. What kind of effect does this have on relationships. Men cheat while overseas, women left behind cheat. Men back home sometimes see women here as easy targets. How many men, besides engaging in infidelity, also engage in prostitutions during deployments, or over seas tours? Anyone who has lived near a large base knows that is a big issue.
Further, regarding interjecting a token number of women in the military, is that really what's happening? Has the current generation of men abdicated their responsibility to serve and protect their country and family? Would we reach recruiting numbers without women? Over 17% of the military is women. Of course these numbers aren't evenly distributed between the branches, and further less distributed between the combat and non-combat arms. I mean it sounds like we could potentially have a more lethal force if more men joined, but they just aren't.
I dunno, it's late and I'm tired. Y'all have a good night.