tsuag10 said:
RockOn said:
Yes income is decently high, but not crazy. I paid more in federal/FICA taxes than I spent, even after maxing out 401k and HSA.
It's almost structured frugality. If I buy something, then I have to tote it around to the next place and I have only so much I can fit in my car. So it better be worth it. And I don't have time to spend money - work until 3 then head out to trail run, climb a mountain, backcountry ski - all free hobbies.
Let me take a wild guess and say you aren't married and don't have kids....
THIS. And it goes beyond just then spending money or spending money on them.
With a wife, you have to balance where you live with where you both work. That can limit your renting/buying options considerably. In my case, we work 20+ miles apart. There's no way one of us is riding a bike while the other commutes across San Antonio.
Having kids puts you in the same boat. You, generally, want to live in a good school district, and that further limits your options. It also, generally, comes with a higher property tax bill.
Kids also dictate your house size. You can get by on your own or with a wife in a tiny place, but you WILL want, and IMO need, a larger place with kids. You don't want them sleeping in your room, and there will be plenty of times you need more than one bathroom. This further limits your renting/buying options.
You also can't just up and move for a higher paying job on another city, so your ability to climb the ladder or chase money is more limited.
You HAVE to have a car with kids. You're not biking them to a friend's house, or the pediatrician, or daycare, or a myriad of other places.