Fees on Airbnb went crazy during Covid, and it hasn't really gotten better. I also hate the fact that you get sucked in by a nightly rate, only to find the cost sometimes as much as doubles with all the fees. I also won't book any place with a limited cancellation policy (as in, they keep a chunk of money after 48 hours from booking).
I don't find Airbnb to be as useful in the US anymore, particularly for short stays of only a few days.
But internationally, Airbnb has been great. I've used it in Canada, Rome, and Sicily, and have recommended it to friends who have used it in Paris. International rentals typically don't have the outrageous fees, and often have more generous cancellation policies.
The key is research, reading all of the reviews, scouting pictures, etc. It always takes me longer to research and book when I'm using Airbnb.
Edited to add, Airbnb was a GREAT option for us on recent trips to Sedona, AZ and Yosemite. I've used it in Hawaii, too, but that was so many years ago, my experience is prob no longer relevant.
I find it to be more useful in areas where hotels options are limited (especially chain hotels).