WTF…cancelled for 4 days?!?
I feel your pain. We had to make that drive from NYC to The Woodlands when we got caught up in the SW Christmas meltdown.
To the last poster's point, my BF and I had this same convo at the airport - they have absolutely no incentive to improve, and we suck it up because they already have our money locked up. And they don't even have any incentive to give refunds when they screw up!
If I'm flying AA out of IAH, it's because there is no other option. At least SW was giving United some competition out of IAH, but now that option is gone, too.
We were talking that our best option is probably to avoid any flights with a connection, even if it means driving several hours to our final destination. That won't eliminate all the problems, but it should help.