We go to Scottsdale every year for two weeks. We have a timeshare at the Four Seasons. Been going for the last 15 years.
Its a great hotel/resort. First class all the way. Smaller than mega resorts, no lazy river, less kids though usually plenty, great for lounging around and relaxing. Nice hiking nearby. Pinnacle peak and browns ranch. Only caveat...it's pretty far north. Not carefree/cave creek far but north Scottsdale. 20 minutes to get to kierland mall area.
I assume you'll have a car. If not, get one. It's mandatory in Phoenix. Everything is really spread around.
really nice restaurants. We love the Chris Bianco pizza places. The Bianco at town and country has amazing pastas too. Casual but really first class food. His pizzas are truly fantastic but his pasta is overlooked. The downtown location has a nice bar in a house next door while you wait for your table. But from the four seasons it's easily 45 min drive.
the fox restaurant group restaurants are fantastic for the price. True food kitchen and flower child are delicious. Kinda hippie or yuppie or yoga like but great.
the mastro restaurants are fantastic and very nice. Steak and seafood very well done.
ive been to taliesin west and I was a little disappointed. If you like music, playing music, you need to go to the musical instrument museum. It's one of a kind. Amazing building, collection of instruments from around the world. Incredible what kind of donors they must have had to build it in freakin Phoenix. Looks like it belongs in New York, la or Chicago. Their cafe is quite good too. Some sort of culinary students train there.
since I live in a city without a Hopdoddy, we went there this last summer too. Great burgers and shakes.
if you like zoos, the Phoenix zoo is also amazing. Huge animal enclosures.
cant tell you much about the clubbing but old town Scottsdale has quite a few. I've seen a lot of young hipsters and college age kids walking around down there on the weekend nights. The W is downtown Scottsdale. Stayed there before also. Too hip for me. Too loud. Etc.
theres a great sushi place that I love. It's called sushi Hiro. Not fancy or hip. In Dumpy strip mall. It's east. Around Shea and 92-93rd just east of the 101. Best crunchy salmon skin rolls I've had. Great mushroom dish.
Enjoy your trip.