HI! I noticed people mentioned The Blue Door- its pretty good and they don't allow SMOKING! Like all bars in this town!
The thing in Midland is that you have to be willing to look for things to do :-(
I am apart of Young Professionals of Midland (YPMidland.org) and a few other organziations in town.
I can give you lists of places to eat, drink and try and have a good time too. There is an A&M Club here and the people are fantastic.
Let me know if you need anything! It is a very different dynamic here, and this comes from the "import" in me. Been here about 3 years.