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You don't even want to hear about all that he has done and is still on the streets. Like I said he is not dumb

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Uhhh, yes we do..spill the beans.

txags92 said:

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P.U.T.U said:

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On another note how do you stop or trace fake numbers? Him and his roomate will create fake numbers and text from those at night. They have sent stuff to anyone that knows her

And yes he has a roomate who is a convicted domestic abuser

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Sounds like the kind of guy that just needs to disappear.

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We don't openly advertise those services on the OB.

Maybe one day when its all over. Just a weak individual that takes pleasure in causing others pain. I know he is deathly afraid of me for several reasons

BurnetAggie99 said:

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P.U.T.U said:

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If I found a device in the house it would difficult to prove in court that it was him. I am letting the professionals handle this one.

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Roger that I'd also have a restraining order taken out on him as well.

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if you find something in the house, get the police involved. They can at least take fingerprints and maybe track down where it was purchased by the SN on the device (actually the OB would be better, but the police have more power).

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txags92 said:

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P.U.T.U said:

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On another note how do you stop or trace fake numbers? Him and his roomate will create fake numbers and text from those at night. They have sent stuff to anyone that knows her

And yes he has a roomate who is a convicted domestic abuser

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Sounds like the kind of guy that just needs to disappear.

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We don't openly advertise those services on the OB.

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Those are handled via PMs

malenurse said:

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javajaws said:

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txags92 said:

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P.U.T.U said:

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On another note how do you stop or trace fake numbers? Him and his roomate will create fake numbers and text from those at night. They have sent stuff to anyone that knows her

And yes he has a roomate who is a convicted domestic abuser

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Sounds like the kind of guy that just needs to disappear.

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We don't openly advertise those services on the OB.

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Those are handled via PMs

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More like the Torchy's "secret menu".

The OB Triple S service crew is awaiting a call!

Man I hope that juice is worth the squeeze....

It very much is

P.U.T.U said:

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It very much is

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I hereby invoke Rule #1!!

I would leave her asap. Had similar types in my life, but I'm sure you will learn the hard way as I did.

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I feel like this exact thread has been on TA within the last few years.

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I thought exactly this when I first read the thread. It feels like about 6 months ago or so we had this exact same type of thing pop up.

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Plot twist: the thread from 6 months ago was actually the ex-boyfriend. He knew the OP would come here, so he made a thread here first and all of you morons gave him the blueprint for avoiding detection.

Yeah, women who make bad choices with men are rarely worth the squeeze long term.

ontherocks said:

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I would leave her asap. Had similar types in my life, but I'm sure you will learn the hard way as I did.

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Perhaps it's best to call Best Quality Vacuum. When you do call, use the following pass phrase: "I need a dust filter for a Hoover Max extract pressure pro model 60. Can you help me with that?"

You have every right to not answer, I'm just curious on some background of the situation.

You referred to San Antonio as down there. Where do you live? It seems y'all are doing a long-distance thing.

How long have y'all been together?

What's in San Antonio that keeps her from up and moving to where you are? Kids? A good job?

At a minimum, I would think a good security system and a new phone number are in order.

Yeah not answering personel questions and no rule one

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Yeah, women who make bad choices with men are rarely worth the squeeze long term.

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I will disagree.

I gave one a second chance that made a bad choice the first time. That was 30 years ago and 3 little Aggies later. Definitely wouldn't trade her for the ones I had before her either!

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David Happymountain said:

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Yeah, women who make bad choices with men are rarely worth the squeeze long term.

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I will disagree.

I gave one a second chance that made a bad choice the first time. That was 30 years ago and 3 little Aggies later. Definitely wouldn't trade her for the ones I had before her either!

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so maybe yours is in that rare category, meaning you don't really have anything to disagree with.

Watching this thread.

Has all types of weird written all over it

Prayers for those involved if it is as bad as it could be

I say get the screeners in and if they find a camera, make sure and send him butthole shots daily.

Girlfriends are rentals and available anywhere. Return, and reorder.

P.U.T.U said:

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On another note how do you stop or trace fake numbers? Him and his roomate will create fake numbers and text from those at night. They have sent stuff to anyone that knows her

And yes he has a roomate who is a convicted domestic abuser

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so i assume she hasn't changed phone numbers? or has she and they've got her new number?

i know it's a pain, but as serious as youv'e made this sound, she needs to get an all new phone and new phone number

If she is using Apple devices he could also have her Apple ID login info. If so, he would see all iMessages from other iPhones as well as emails. Probably would have access to a lot of other stuff as well. She needs to change all of her passwords.

No Apple products, still has the same phone number but new phone

Rip*91 said:

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David Happymountain said:

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Yeah, women who make bad choices with men are rarely worth the squeeze long term.

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I will disagree.

I gave one a second chance that made a bad choice the first time. That was 30 years ago and 3 little Aggies later. Definitely wouldn't trade her for the ones I had before her either!

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Agreed. Everyone is entitled to a mulligan. I admire the ones that knock it out of the park the first time at bat................I was not so lucky.

P.U.T.U said:

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No Apple products, still has the same phone number but new phone

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If he had cloned her sim from the old one before she changed, I don't think changing just the phone will make a difference.

Ticket to the train station

Texmid said:

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If she is using Apple devices he could also have her Apple ID login info. If so, he would see all iMessages from other iPhones as well as emails. Probably would have access to a lot of other stuff as well. She needs to change all of her passwords.

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Few years ago (2017), a relative was going through an ugly divorce and custody battle, he provided a few "typical" log ins his estranged wife used to a PI company in the Caymans through his lawyer. Within hours they had all of the data her phone was sending, they had texts, web searches, emails, location info and some real-time voice convos. It was scary how much stuff, including log ins to other apps/devices they got. It was IOS and at that time they claimed Android was harder to get info out of, I don't know if that changed or not in recent OS updates with the 2 but at one time at least Apple was basically low hanging fruit for professionals.

None, I repeat NONE of that stuff was legal here in the US or even admissible in court, but it did however allow him to know what her and her paramour's next moves were. Like the OP she became convinced he had "bugged" her and her vehicle.

Everyone lives and communicates electronically today, and we do it under a false sense of security and privacy.

I have no idea what you are talking about, its not like I talk about something and then 5 minutes later I am on Facebook and get an ad for that what I was just talking about...

Right

Check the car too

Is his name Garrett?

Nopers, not Garrett

Just an update from things recently, after speaking with more people it seems unless the police feel there is an immediate danger to someone where they have video evidence the San Antonio law enforcement just kick the can. At a bar we ran into a woman that was obviously being abused and she said she went to the police once and they asked for video evidence despite all of the bruising.

Her ex is still harassing her with fake numbers, not as bad as in the past but saying he drives by her house to see who is there and if she is home. Now on the third detective assigned to the case and they said unless there are dangerous threats the police won't do anything. Considering hiring a lawyer to push things along.

Talked to the mom of the 14 year old girl he molested, she still closes up and does not want to talk to the police. The police did tell the mom since there was not any penetration there is not much they can do on their own without the girl talking to detectives. Apparently rubbing upstairs and downstairs on a minor is okay in this county.

Their child is now in counseling since he says , mine and my kids friends, what happens at his mom house, etc. and this has taken its toll on the kid.

Amicus attorney said the best thing for the child is for the mom to move over 100 miles away, her ex declined this and case is going to court which is dumb on his part, he risk losing everything since the amicus attorney only interviewed 3 people and one was not his daughter that has sexual intent charges on.