ad*****trapper said:
It just bothers you so much that I like something other than what you do. Have enjoyed sparring. But if you look back my true advice to the op and all that come onto the board wanting to know opinion on which caliber to get, I stand by the fact that you should go find out what you like for yourself. Not take other people's word for it. And if that brings you to a caliber that I don't carry or like then that is fine. The important thing is to go find out for yourself.
It doesn't bother me at all. I have more pistols in calibers other than 9mm than I do pistols in 9mm. I love all my guns, and each for its own reason. I've also said multiple times that he should go shoot both and figure out what he likes best. I simply provided him a ton of fact-based background on why this place is a "9mm echo chamber" as you call it. All that information is why I humbly believe it to be a superior tool than .40 for what he wants; it's that simple.