Ghosting has become endemic

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jlAG97
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An unfortunate and sad reality that probably has multiple excuses but is still unacceptable. Even established, reputable companies are "participating"

It's one thing to automate screening candidates quickly and narrow down to finalists, at least that (is supposed to) send a quick rejection and lets everyone move on quickly (even though the logic is also suspect but that's another topic)

But the worst is when a small pool of finalists get face to face interviews and then hear nothing for 6 weeks plus, despite attempts at follow up. How hard is it to communicate with a small pool of finalists? "We moved on" or "the position is on hold", etc....or set up the automated rejection at 2AM?

Maybe someone who is/has worked in HR can give me a valid excuse why there isn't follow up with finalists. (Hint: There is none). Maybe it just comes down to laziness, tech, and process above people

Also I think interviewees should ask hard questions about timeframes and internal candidates BEFORE the face to face interview
LogisticianAg
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It's a massive red flag and it shows an utter lack of respect for other people's time.

I had an interview with the CEO of a company yesterday, scheduled and set up by that same CEO. He stood me up. No text, no phone call to reschedule. I don't mind getting rescheduled. For context he runs a multi state footprint doing $100M+.

Needless to say I'm not wasting my time with that loser.

AggieOO
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I was ghosted earlier this year. 200+ applicants. Had two interviews and got down to the final 3. Had several internal references from colleagues. Hiring manager told me I was in the final 3, gave me next steps (including that id talk to some of the team id be joining), and said he'd reach out again soon to schedule. Never heard from him again. I got a generic HR rejection letter 6 months later.
sts7049
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AG
empathy for people has largely disappeared from this process. in our internal recruiting/hiring it's just as bad.
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TdoubleH
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AG
Because everything is about feelings now and not truth. People are cowards.
CalebH
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Experienced this a lot myself in my job search. I had an interview that I did in person that lasted three hours in total, never heard anything back. I also accepted an offer, but then had zero communication for weeks, and when I would get notifications it was only after my third or fourth time reaching out myself to get a response. I gave up 2.5 months after accepting the role.

As a recruiter myself, this new trend hurts me. I understand the discomfort in calling somebody back to let them know that you are not moving forward in their hiring process. It sucks. I have been screamed at over the phone in these conversations. However, that is the recruiter's job. We sign up for that when we take a recruitment position. If you cannot be bothered to at the very least send a text message (though calls are always better) then you should not be in a people facing role like that. Not receiving a personalized phone call/message after an application is one thing, but no follow up when you interview a candidate is unprofessional. Do the job you signed up for.
jlAG97
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It doesn't even have to be a phone call. A quick email or even an automated rejection email is better than nothing.
SJEAg
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AG

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I also accepted an offer, but then had zero communication for weeks, and when I would get notifications it was only after my third or fourth time reaching out myself to get a response. I gave up 2.5 months after accepting the role.

Geez, never heard that one before unless the company was going under or something. That beyond sucks.
infinity ag
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jlAG97 said:

It doesn't even have to be a phone call. A quick email or even an automated rejection email is better than nothing.


Around 9 years ago, I got ghosted by Zillow. I applied, they called me, did 2 rounds of interviews and then... nothing. I emailed and after a week she replied that I was still being considered and then she began to ignore. So I got mad and gave them a bad review on glassdoor. The VP of Recruiting replied and asked me to write to her. I did and provided her with all the conversation history as all emails were through jobvite or one of those sites. The VP lady wrote back to say sorry and the next day, the recruiter reached out to apologize.

I am sure nothing changed and I probably got blacklisted in the process!

agsalaska
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AG
I will forever and always ban anyone from hiring for life if they ghost me.

I will die on that hill.
I don’t say this in a braggedocious way. But it’s true. I’ve been right about everything.

-Donald J Trump
-9/22/2025



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