Roger350 said:
I also have every generation working for me, and recognize the danger of stereotypes. I have hard workers and below average people in all of them. I don't have any boomers that are the smoking, e-mailing, time wasters you speak of, but to be fair the last one of those I did have took a voluntary retirement package a couple years ago.
I'm going to say my Millenials probably fit the same bell curve every generation fits for performance and dedication. It's easy to let the top 15% and bottom 15% color your opinions. And I'll admit my venting is focused on the bottom 15%.
Again, this person didn't leave for better work life balance. He left for more money. And I've said repeatedly he deserved more but that I couldn't come close to matching it if I wanted to. He poked at the work / life balance on his way out, knowing full well his work / life balance isn't going to improve at his next job because of the education requirements, and the nature of the business. That rubbed me the wrong way because he knew about this aspect of the position before he took it. Had I lied about this when I hired him, or refused to consider and implement changes to improve things then it would be 100% on me. That's not the case here.
You have to listen to your guy... and also understand that work/life balance doesn't just = less hours. It's also flexibility and, most importantly, working when you want to work. I've had heavy daily operation jobs with tight deadlines, times in the month I just can't take off and such. I left overseeing a desk like that recently for a job where I work MORE hours and the work life balance is substantially better in my opinion. If my kids have something during the day, I no longer have to just skip it to get X done in time and stuff like that. I can now put down what I'm doing, enjoy stuff with my family and jump back into work later to finish stuff.
Not meaning to be rude, you seem to be under the illusion that your work hours should be more desirable because you let people know what the deal is beforehand. Noble of you to do so, but if people say they suck... then they suck. Don't take it so personally.