Just found this thread. Lots of good discussion. Side story...Our 6A valedictorian (not my child), former all-state XC runner, female, National Merit Finalist, didn't get into t.u. honors engineering. She's going to A&M with a Brown scholly, Most of our top 10 this year are gonna be Ags....happy day!
Now, for my daughter...she is a National Merit Finalist, and had an eclectic mix of schools all over the country based on the major she wanted. Got into Emory, WashU, UNC, Swarthmore, Rice, Boston U., and several state flagships. At the end of the process, none of the private schools offered to take the annual cost below $50K/year. With 6 kids, and 3 family members in college, we gave them a big "nuh-uh." They can go find some other middle class kid to borrow that money and be saddled with debt into their 40's.
Meanwhile, despite a semester study abroad in Spain, and a summer study abroad in India, she managed to make all-Region XC and all-region Track her senior year, and several D-1 programs started noticing. Really on a whim, she applied to Tulsa when she saw their full ride + stipend for all semi-finalists. And, they happen to be the smallest school in the country that plays D1 football and basketball (2700 undergrads, smaller than Rice and Wake Forest). And, they happen to be very good at running. When we went to visit, and I started looking at the academics, hands-on approach to job placement, the campus, and of course the financial aid, I was pretty impressed. So, she's going to Tulsa, and running D-1 track with a full ride academic scholly.
It was all quite unexpected, and I hope she likes it there, and I'm a little sad that she's not an Aggie, but it does seem that the PSAT (and God) opened a door for her that we would have never even known about.
My advice to everyone who cares about money, CHASE THE MONEY. Every one of these schools that offers incentives for test scores and academic achievement is a good school. Which is to say, none of them will close doors for your child if your child does well there. You can go anywhere you want for grad school if you're near the top of any flagship or 2nd tier state school, or any top 100-200 private school. The sticker price value proposition just isn't there.
Also, for parents who are saving money for grad school, please learn the difference between graduate school and professional school. I think you may be in for a surprise. I have a Ph.D. and never paid a dollar for graduate school.
94chem,
That, sir, was the greatest post in the history of TexAgs. I salute you. -- Dough