fixer said:
one MEEN Ag said:
To go even deeper here this the crux of the declining birth rate. Women chose to compete against men for jobs within a system that rewards women and not men at every turn. From K-12 education to college entrance to job searching and job retention. Women then identify with their job over having a kid/kids or more kids.
This on a societial level creates a feedback loop that the price of everything reflects two incomes buying it. So now a woman has to work unless you take a huge reduction in quality of life.
There is only one metric that tracks with increasing birth rate. Reducing education access for women.
There is one huge metric that tracks with divorce. Job loss. Women also will not marry a man that makes less than them. So as women make more, they get more picky about who they marry.
So women get easier access to the material world in exchange for fewer kids. Men get access to more competition in the material world and less access to women as they are denied societal access to income drivers at every turn.
There is no stopping this train as it drives over the cliff until america is allowed to dwindle in population until enough conservatives reproduce and enough liberals die off that we can rebound birth rate or americans get supplanted by immigrants and there is no america anymore.
Guess which answer is coming.
Truly great post. Thank you for taking the time. This is a fresh perspective although dystopian.
I think most americans would agree if we could just return to the 1990s they would be 'happy again' but you have to ask yourself why the 1990s? And what kept society progressing as opposed to staying in the idyllic? The reason we're having these conversations now is because America thought it would always be "red white and blue, celebrate the fourth of july, American" but society as a whole clearly had no ability to stop cultural progress in its sweet spot. So now we've overshot it but we can't really articulate why and what exactly we've overshot. Which is part of the reason why we overshot 'the good life' in the first place, we struggled to define what made it so good and what should be valued to preserve it.
And realistically, the answer to dystopianism begins with pulling back the curtain on society nearly 400 years in the making. We are living in a world that is now the full measure of secularism. And to understand secularism you have to go back 1500 years to the age at which christendom won the cultural war over paganism throughout europe. There really is only three eras in the parts of the world that matter - paganism, christendom, and the secularism. Each one takes the presuppositions of the previous era and changes them, but not in a blank slate manner.
For example, Christendom explodes. Pagan kings become baptized into...Christian kings. Still a king. Secularism loves the idea of rights bestowed unto man, but the 30 years war destroyed half of europe and killed over 8 million europeans in the name of christian protestant/catholic infighting. So the survivors basically go, 'we have to erase christianity from government because it just leads us to killing each other.' So humans get rights, but they are wishy washy. Kings can exist, but we don't want them to and they are wishy washy. Rights are bestowed by nondescript creator God or no God at all. All men are created equal (but no reason given to why, which is all men are created in the image of God.)
And early secularism was the enlightenment era. Those ideals are what shaped america's founding fathers. So we are coming undone as a society because society is rejecting the concepts of enlightenment thinkers as progress moves us culturally past enlightment. Enlightment gave way to modernity. Hagel. Marx. Flat secularism. No spiritual world. No God. Just atoms, chemical reactions and class struggle. You are free to do whatever you want, the state is the highest authority, there is no moral authority. Open borders. Freedom to chose whatever vice you want. Blank slatism. .
And so here we are in 2025. Its got huge undercurrents of communists, a larger cohort of just materialist, consumer, secularists. And also open borders of every third worlder who really couldn't give two ****s about enlightenment thinkers.
So I say all that to say this. If you want to fix the dystopian society of america. It really only will happen by Americans, in mass, going back to church and start taking their faith seriously. And I hate to break it to a lot of protestants here but there's a reason protestant churches have the same cultural slide that society does. Their histories are formed in the secular era. They can't escape it.
So if you really want to save america, its future success depends on fighting progressivism, which means fighting modernity which means fighting secularism. But the catch is, you have to return american christendom to an expression of christianity that predates america. Secularism is older than america because america is steeped in secular thought from the framers. Returning to 1776 just gets you stuck on this progressivism conveyor belt that shoots you right back to where we are. You've got to return to something more ancient than secularism.
So the realization is two fold. America was always going to end up this way. Because it is a liberal democracy steeped in secularism and so it will follow as secular culture does. And secondly, it is dystopian. It sucks. There will be war in our childrens life as they fight it out. But guess what, the orthodox church I go to, its never been better. Community has never been tighter in my life and also as deep and meaningful. That is the only thing that is making things like modern feminism just melt away. Or love of the nation state. Or making sin and evil stand out against the backdrop of society. The things we all want in america, are actually just devoutly christian things ordering society.
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