91AggieLawyer said:
Swollen Thumb said:
Little Rock Ag said:
Gator92 said:
Little Rock Ag said:
We've got a guy at work who is always traveling with his son's baseball team, and they go all over--Arizona, Florida, Texas... He doesn't ask for money, but at the same time, I wonder how much he spends on it, and will it be worth it in the end? I believe much of travel ball is about parents trying to live through their children vicariously and hoping they can push their kids into the major leagues. Baseball is a great game, but it's being ruined for those kids who just want to have fun.
For some, competing at a high level is fun.
Knew it wouldn't be long til muh live vicariously muh...
Sure, I think that is true. But, there is a high cost associated with travel ball, and as the parent, it's their responsibility to consider what is best for the family.
By the way, what major league team does your son play for?
We do this for volleyball. My daughters love it and I can afford it. Any quippy life tips for me?
Yeah, one: if you want them to continue to attend church when they're in college or otherwise out of the house, don't miss now for volleyball. You're enforcing the idea that travel ball is more important and they'll use that going forward.
Not a guarantee either way (they could attend or not attend regardless) but something to consider. At the end of the day, you've got to do what you think is best, but you asked. Just don't ask them in 10 years why they're not going to church.
The point I think you are trying to make, I could be wrong, is the opportunity cost. If that's the case, it's a very good point.
I very much support young people playing sports, especially team sports. But the all consuming reality of it these days has left me a bit jaded. Sports has taken so much time away that I wanted and needed to spend with my sons to help them learn other skills and have other experiences. Again, sports is great, but my kids won't be playing D1 or pro ball. When HS is over, sports is over. There was and remains a significant opportunity cost here.