DallasAg 94 said:
aggie93 said:
He's set to graduate in 3 and a half years and in his field will likely make 6 figures right out of school. He is taking 22 hours with a 4.0 and also has an occassional weekend job working on a charter fishing boat as he is an excellent fisherman with an outstanding work ethic.
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Of course I'm sure you and your kids are a lot more squared away at 19 though so I'd love to hear your recommendations on how I can do a better job raising him.
SO, your son has 1 semester under his belt and you are bragging about a 4.0?!
And by History pro-1900... are you talking about Hist 105, required by almost every degree?
I call BS on him taking 22 hrs in anything that gets 6 figures. Maybe if he is a SCOM major and plans to go to Law school... or maybe he works for daddy?!
Give it up... he is a Freshman, like 1 completed semester?! Major?
Technically he is an Academic Sophomore and will order his Ring next year but yes he is finishing his first full year and depending on how the next few days go he is tracking to keep his 4.0. His Major is Maritime Transportation, the highest paying Major in the State of Texas. He sure as hell isn't going to work for me and I have no family in that industry.
Is he perfect? Hell no, he's got his knucklehead moments like any kid but he does make me proud and if he keeps working as hard as he is he will have some great opportunities. He's very lucky to have found a profession he is passionate about and has the drive to work towards his goals. I'm sure he will make mistakes as well, that's part of being a human. The only reason I am "bragging" is because it was inferred my son was immature and unable to function without me and I pointed out how incorrect that is, he's one of the most self reliant kids I know for his age.
I also think it is a bizarre comment that having a strong relationship with my son where he trusts my opinions is a bad thing, in the end he gets to make his own choices but I will never apologize for supporting him and offering advice. I am glad he feels I am someone he can come to on some things to discuss.
No doubt there are always other kids who are doing better at this or that but they haven't had to overcome having a Dad like me.
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