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How is 14 year old boy being raped (not hooking up) by 31 year old woman better than 14 year old girl being raped (again, not hooking up) by 31 year old man?

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Folks generally have a different view depending on who was doing the penetrating.

And another one…

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11833975/California-elementary-school-teacher-charged-sexually-abusing-child-age-14.html

She was San Diego Teacher of the Year in 2022 lol.

I can't believe anyone has to even explain this but...

Girls who have been banged by a teacher and/or slept around with a bunch of different dudes and have a high body count are not desired as marriage partners. This has always been the case and will always be the case.

Whereas it's irrelevant for boys.

That, plus the possibility of pregnancy are why the two situations are different and will always be viewed as different.

Urban Ag said:

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CDUB98 said:

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Urban Ag said:

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Are you implying I would think otherwise?

If I found out a grown ass woman had been having sex with one of my teen sons I wouldn't be high fiving junior, I'd want her arrested and sent to prison.

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While you said you disagreed at the end of your post, you did seem a bit squishy on how society views it.

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It's an observation. It is a fact that of pretty recently (2004 to 2012) an ABC/Disney Network television series on primetime, loved by millions of Americans (mostly suburban white women), featured a character that was a grown ass married women who was having sex with teenager enrolled at the local high school. There was no considerable outrage and again, we are talking about a series who's primary viewership was adult females.

This board's responses, sarcastic or not, should also show that a lot men do not seem all that fussed that a teenage boy might get lucky with an adult female.

There is nothing squishy about my views on it. The same standards should be applied regardless.

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I have three boys and two girls and my views on this are the same as yours. Any adult grooming or assaulting any of them would need protection from me. They all deserve far better than that.

That said, I do tend to make the South Park joke when I hear these stories because the joke itself is funny. But that episode was a commentary on how stupid it is that we have different societal standards depending on who does the assaulting.

Serotonin said:

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I can't believe anyone has to even explain this but...

Girls who have been banged by a teacher and/or slept around with a bunch of different dudes and have a high body count are not desired as marriage partners. This has always been the case and will always be the case.

Whereas it's irrelevant for boys.

That, plus the possibility of pregnancy are why the two situations are different and will always be viewed as different.

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This. Wether we like it or not, reality of the sexes dictates why this is colloquially thought of differently.

Legally both situations should be treated the same.

Hope that helps.

Yep, 100%.

Serotonin said:

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I can't believe anyone has to even explain this but...

Girls who have been banged by a teacher and/or slept around with a bunch of different dudes and have a high body count are not desired as marriage partners. This has always been the case and will always be the case.

Whereas it's irrelevant for boys.

That, plus the possibility of pregnancy are why the two situations are different and will always be viewed as different.

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Goaltending for female groomers? You do you I guess.

I dated several HS teachers when I was single. Every one of them knew of fellow teachers sleeping with students (many times a coach).

One noted that every decent sized HS in America it was probably happening.

Some noted various ones that got caught and school and parents swept it under the rug.

bonfarr said:

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And another one…

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11833975/California-elementary-school-teacher-charged-sexually-abusing-child-age-14.html

She was San Diego Teacher of the Year in 2022 lol.

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To some 14 year old boy she sure was!

It's just wrong! All of it's just wrong. I work with youth and have to pass background checks and take specific training on situations to avoid every two years.

Teenage girls love to run up and hug you. I know they mean nothing by it, but I turn and hip check all them all.

Never be one on one with the opposite sex, etc...

The men and women that do this stuff have a screw loose to justify this crap in their mind.

Marissa's ex boyfriend was banging her mom on the OC. I can't recall his name.

Nattie said:

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I dated several HS teachers when I was single. Every one of them knew of fellow teachers sleeping with students (many times a coach).

One noted that every decent sized HS in America it was probably happening.

Some noted various ones that got caught and school and parents swept it under the rug.

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I can give you two examples specifically. One from the mid 80s and one in the last few years.

Everyone's married so it's "ok"

Baloney!

I graduated in 90 and our band director used to be chummy with girls in his band and some would eat lunch with him in his office every day. Some of the chaperones confronted him when one cute 11th grader would sit next to him all snuggly on bus rides and he cut it out but 3 months after the girl graduated he moved to another HS and married her a year later.

A few years ago, we had a school teacher (I think something like 5th grade) who was banking high school boys. I think that about all that happened to her was that she lost her job and ended up getting a divorced.

If I remember correctly, she was even banging one of her teenage daughter's boyfriends.

CanyonAg77 said:

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dead said:

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How is 14 year old boy being raped (not hooking up) by 31 year old woman better than 14 year old girl being raped (again, not hooking up) by 31 year old man?

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Just from a physical perspective, the damage to the female organs could be much worse than to a boys.

early in my first few years teaching/coaching fresh out of college I had numerous high school girls flirt with me constantly. The temptation was there I wont deny. Me being 22, them 18. I never did anything, but it is easy to see how stuff like that happens all across the country.


It's the teachers banging middle school kids that is weird and sick.

Navy beans, navy beans, navy beans

TXAGFAN said:

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Serotonin said:

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I can't believe anyone has to even explain this but...

Girls who have been banged by a teacher and/or slept around with a bunch of different dudes and have a high body count are not desired as marriage partners. This has always been the case and will always be the case.

Whereas it's irrelevant for boys.

That, plus the possibility of pregnancy are why the two situations are different and will always be viewed as different.

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Goaltending for female groomers? You do you I guess.

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Flagged for trolling. I think some of us can stomach a poster/response that is a bit slow but this is just being willfully obtuse in order to be inflammatory.

Nattie said:

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I dated several HS teachers when I was single. Every one of them knew of fellow teachers sleeping with students (many times a coach).

One noted that every decent sized HS in America it was probably happening.

Some noted various ones that got caught and school and parents swept it under the rug.

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In my day there was rumors about a coach and some of the girls but never heard any about a female teacher and guys. The teachers at my HS were also remarkably plain with the exception of a decently attractive looking and stacked Aggie grad that all the guys lusted after. Turned out later she is a lesbian.

On a separate note, there were several very attractive HS girls who were 15-16 who were openly dating guys in their mid 20s back in the 80s at my school. We all knew they were having sex and no one did anything or cared. I guess it would have been up to their parents to push the issue and they didn't.

bonfarr said:

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I graduated in 90 and our band director used to be chummy with girls in his band and some would eat lunch with him in his office every day. Some of the chaperones confronted him when one cute 11th grader would sit next to him all snuggly on bus rides and he cut it out but 3 months after the girl graduated he moved to another HS and married her a year later.

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This sounds familiar. Was it in the Houston area?

hgc159 said:

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bonfarr said:

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I graduated in 90 and our band director used to be chummy with girls in his band and some would eat lunch with him in his office every day. Some of the chaperones confronted him when one cute 11th grader would sit next to him all snuggly on bus rides and he cut it out but 3 months after the girl graduated he moved to another HS and married her a year later.

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This sounds familiar. Was it in the Houston area?

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Corpus , and they are still married today and he is a HS Principal now

Does she look like an Emoji to anyone else?

Face- I'll go 6 out of 10
Need to see the rest to make final determination.

A number of years ago, there was a family living near me that had been good friends of my older brother when he was a pilot in Alaska. One night when my brother was visiting, he called them up to invite them to supper. The husband was in Saudi Arabia working on a contract, but the wife and their younger daughter met us for supper at some restaurant in Pasadena.

At the supper, she told us about the preacher at their church and her older daughter. Her and her husband had sent the older daughter to the preacher for weekly counseling beginning when she was about 14 or 15. What she didn't know was that the preacher raped the daughter every time she came in for counseling. The daughter wanted to stop the counseling, but the parents, not knowing what was going on, insisted on it continuing.

This went on until the daughter was about ready to go to college. The mother accidentally picked up the telephone one day to make a call and heard the preacher telling the daughter how much he loved her and how she couldn't go away to college.

She confronted her daughter and that is when the mother found about about the preacher raping their daughter weekly for several years. Suddenly it made sense why the daughter tried so hard to get out of the counseling sessions.

She took it to the church (I don't know why she didn't contact the police) and the church had a meeting of its members to discuss the issue. One thing they found out was that the preacher had been kicked out of his previous congregation for the same thing and the previous congregation didn't have the decency to warn his new congregation about him. Her fellow church members voted to keep the damned preacher.

The supper was just a few days after that vote. She said that she would be leaving the church. She also said that she would never tell her husband about it because she knew that he would kill the preacher. To explain switching churches, she said she would tell him that she found a church she liked better and not divulge the actual reason.

Once he returned, I think it was quite likely that he would see one or more of the other members of that church and would find out. The next time I saw her husband was about a year later. I wondered if he ever found out about it but wasn't about to ask. The husband passed away a bit more than three years ago, but the wife is apparently still alive.

What the hell was she being 'counseled' for that they were so insistent on it continuing?

David Happymountain said:

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As far as lunch ladies go, this has to be a 10, right?!

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Don't see her body, but that's a very fine lunch lady!

bonfarr said:

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She was San Diego Teacher of the Year in 2022.......

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Yes she was, receiving 100% of the male vote from the 8th grade class alone.

JB!98 said:

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Where were these lunch ladies when I was eating square hamburgers and rectangle pizza?

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FIFM.

eric76 said:

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A few years ago, we had a school teacher (I think something like 5th grade) who was banking high school boys. I think that about all that happened to her was that she lost her job and ended up getting a divorced.

If I remember correctly, she was even banging one of her teenage daughter's boyfriends.

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Why'd she get fired? Charged too much interest?

TxTarpon said:

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'You wanna see something?' New Fairfield cafeteria aide charged with sex assault of 14 year old minor Connecticut student & sending nude images https://t.co/HTqZpj2XVr #Andie Rosafort #New Fairfield Middle School

— Scallywagandvagabond (@ScallywagNYC) March 7, 2023

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I didn't know there were catfish in Connecticut

Obviously she took in too many deposits.

So this is the good pedophilia?

Simple solution..... mandate that all school women employees are married and no man/boy will get laid.