bmks270 said:
Kids calling each other "weird" and teasing and bullying for just about any stupid reason kids can think of isn't unique to Florida.
Just happened to us today. My 14 year old got named in a complaint filed by a kid who is an openly gay 8th grader, along with 12 other boys, all who happen to be football players who this kid seems to have an obsession with taunting and antagonizing with gay ***** Said kid spends about as much time in detention as normal class for all kinds of behavior problems already and regularly openly insults teachers and staff. My wife actually works at this school and is well aware of his BS.
SIgh.
I have a gay male cousin that is simply impossible to have any relationship with because of the same BS. He literally cussed the family out at his mother's funeral some 10+ years ago for "reasons" I guess. He faked having HIV for 10 years and then finally came out that he is not in fact dying.
My wife has a gay male cousin that I literally banned from our household at one point for his dramatic BS but has since got his sh** together and is welcome again. But same thing, uber drama all the time but he seems to be maturing (I mean he is almost 50 now).
I've dealt with gay males in the work place for a couple of decades and I would rate them as the single most difficult demographic to manage because literally everything is "about them" and their "lifestyle". Lesbians, by contrast, I have had some drama with but most seem pretty squared away in my experience.
Sorry/not sorry. I was in line management for 20+ years before pulling the ripcord to just run my own business, support my wife in her new career after being a stay at home mom, and manage our investments. Gay dudes were the worst to manage in terms of self inflicted drama. I managed lay offs at a global Fortune 100 and me and my peers would just cringe at the thought of notifying a gay male he was losing his job. It was high drama on steroids.