I think what you meant to say was that the couple who elected to engage in coitus shouldn't have to be responsible for their choices. That whole "hopes and dreams" and "force to be a broodmare" garbage is leftist pablum. Nobody forced anybody to do anything. They chose to do something with a known possible outcome. Now they want "society" to cover their responsibilities.AggiePops said:Welfare of any sort is great in theory to help those truly in need but as you say, taken advantage of far too often because there's a lot of less than honest people who want the easy way out. Any woman who wants to make a claim would need to show true need, not just ask for help. Any girl/woman who doesn't absolutely know who the father is or when she knows but the guy denies it should have a paternity test done to cut down on sperm donors skipping out on responsibilities. Plus many guys likely wouldn't even know. Face it, piling up random hookups is almost like a game for some guys. There are no perfect solutions but that doesn't mean you don't even try.Quote:
What happens a lot of times is that because the government is there to foot the bill, women that know who the father is will claim they do not. In many cases, the woman is living with the father but remain unmarried in order to get the government benefits.
It's a problem with most government cradle-to-grave welfare socialism; rife with abuse and fraud.
We were all young once and many on here still are. Hormones (not to mention, alcohol) can make for bad decisions plus there's also just plain bad luck. Dreams and goals shouldn't have to be abandoned because the revolver chamber that comes up happens to be the one with the live round. If you're going to force a girl/woman to be a broodmare and spend the best part of a year carrying and giving birth to a baby she isn't equipped to best take care of that baby's health and development while pregnant or raise and nurture following birth and doesn't have family to help, then society needs to step up. With consequences for cheaters.
There are a lot of things that can happen before a woman is "forced to be a broodmare". Use protection, take morning after pill. Have 1st trimester abortion, provide child for adoption to a family that wants and can care for the child.
If the woman elects to have and keep the child of an unwanted pregnancy, shouldn't they be able to care for it? If they can't, choose a different option.