BCG Disciple said:
aggiedent said:
I'm awfully late to this thread, but what's going on the last few days? This is the second post that is pure insanity. The exact type of issue that would drive the independents/moderates straight over to the Dems in the next election.
The OP makes a point that marriage should be a purely religious ceremony yet wants the government to step in with laws to protect the sanctity of it. Why not fine people for not attending church? Or perhaps add a branch of the legislature that is controlled by religious faiths?
What a staggeringly bad idea.
Dobbs was a MASSIVE victory for originalists and pro lifers. However, religious authoritarians (a term meant specifically for individuals that think their religion should be codified and become the standard for all) also claim the victory and have come out of the wood work trying to strike while the iron is hot. They think all of society has been turned back 50 years because Dobbs overturned terrible precedent.
To a certain extent, I applaud their ideological consistency and their principal driven stance. However, they are a tone deaf and impractical people.
Honestly, I think the ultimate issue is that they truly believe EVERYTHING stems from their religion, or at least religion in general. That's WHY they're tone deaf and impractical and why we have such an asinine OP.
This exchange hits the crux of the problemBAP Enthusiast said:
Yukon Cornelius said:
Nor do I. Like I side it's just something I've wondered and not something to enforce one way or another.
But marriage is an institution established and defined by God which is to manifest the relationship between Jesus and His followers.
So for non believers to participate In that is like vegans wanting to eat food that looks and taste like meat but isn't meat.
I agree with this, none of it makes sense at all. What is the purpose of marriage without religion? At that point it's a civil Union for tax purposes, it doesn't have any real meaning.
For one, this is
a definition of marriage in the first post, but it is treated as
the definition of marriage. There is no room for anything else, past, present, or future. Marriage is not a relationship or commitment between two people that has existed as a practice and institution for no one knows how long and transcends all religious frameworks, but a creation of
this religion that only exists under
their terms, definitions, and rules.
This one is especially laughable as it implies that only Christian marriages are marriages. Everything else is just... Friends with benefits? Even the marriages that happened before Judaism and Christianity?
For two, the response can't fathom a personal commitment between two people to permanently join their lives without a religious basis. What purpose could two people possibly have to get married without religion? It's not like they could love each other and want to join their lives without some deity or dogma to base their shared existence on. This line of reasoning stems from the idea that the concept and practice of marriage is derived from their religious context, not that marriage is a personal commitment between two people that their religion (or any) celebrates and further defines. Marriage as a concept is
theirs, and anything else is something distinctly different, less meaningful, and merely contrived for convenience.
So, here we are at the problem: they believe
people lack the agency and capacity to define their own meaning and purpose and that only religion, preferably theirs, can deliver that. Without religion to tell you how to think and feel, you can't derive those things on your own, and you can function only as a self-serving automaton. They're so caught up in their own beliefs, they can't imagine how anyone could possibly think differently, hence the tone deafness and impracticality.