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People often confuse the foster care problems with adopting newborns. These are VERY different situations.
Ultimately what foster families are doing is fostering kids mostly being taken away from their families, many of which, will fight to take back custody of their child, grandchild, niece, or nephew.
But we want parents to fight for their kids. That's apart of the whole 'take responsibility' bit. But simply put there are millions of parents out there who are unequipped to handle a baby/child. Its hard enough when you have a job, money, safety nets, time, family support, and are not addicted to drugs. The issue is that our courts and government dictate and determine if you are qualified to be a parent. And once you're within the system, the children are used as pawns and leverage by parents, government bureaucrats, and the courts.
Yes, the issues will work their way through the system but in the meantime lots of babies will be washed downstream into the government's foster care system with nary a chance to succeed. And in the upcoming budget talks, the government, CPS, and foster care institutions will have even more power and cries for money.
Are the foster care institutions there to protect the children or to protect itself?