I figured I'd bring this up for thought, since I don't hear many people actually get deep enough on this issue to have a conversation. I think Ben Shapiro has at least touched on it in some of the interviews I've seen with him (I think one of his Rogan one's specifically).HTownAg98 said:
The issue I have with that statement is not the word abnormal, but choice. For example, I have a nephew, that when he was around 4-5, everyone could tell that he might be gay. He's still quite young, so hasn't come out yet, but we will not be shocked one bit if he comes out as gay. And there's a lot of people that are conservative church going people that have gay children (this case included). You can't tell me it's a choice in all cases.
One of the big issues is the cultural definition of gay / homosexual. When people are shouting at each other you don't get much beyond the words themselves. It's obvious that some people are born with certain tendencies (not just sexual ones either). I don't think anyone who naturally feels attraction to someone of the same gender is committing any kind of sin, that's just how they feel. The sin would be when someone commits the act of having sex with someone of the same gender. That is where the choice part comes in. Having sex before marriage is also a sin(another choice). That should not be supported either. Any actual Christian should be able to say that gay sex is wrong and premarital sex is wrong. That doesn't mean you hate or condemn anybody. That's just one of a multitude of sins that we are capable of committing. We should do our best to help each other not sin (hate the sin, love the sinner). Also, that's not judgement. It's calling out right and wrong. I am not going to actually judge anybody. I have my own sins I wish to be forgiven for, and I hope people would help me to not be sinful (whether they hurt my feelings or not).
So, our culture needs to get on the same page with the definition first. Is a gay person someone who is attracted to people of the same gender, or someone who is having sex with people of the same gender? Their is a difference. People also need to be able understand that not everyone will agree with what they choose to do, and no one should feel pressured to support acts that go against their religious beliefs. I think if we could at least come to this understanding, this would not be near the issue that it is right now.
Also, some people just like to have villain's to take their anger out on. Even if you try to have nuanced discussion there will always be people that just want to shout bigot (social media doesn't help) if you don't outright agree with them.