Agree on all that.
The scale of investment should also be recognized in any comparison, as well the comparative timeline for major aerospace projects such as the 787 etc (which have all grown exponentially longer in the intervening decades being my point).
It's not a 'put down' on Apollo engineers/managers/workers at all to note that starship is already an accomplishment worthy of comparison, not simply on mass to orbit/total pounds of thrust or cost, time to develop etc., but overall. The right leadership team, timing, focus, and investments were critical in both.
We've squabbled about the impact on seagulls/plovers etc. here over just the past week or three, and with our metastasizing government/bureaucracy, it's incredible the success the starship team has reached so far.