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So when I review multiple EO pastoral sites that say using contraception is a valid method to space children,
You know better than this. Is a website of a book review anything like dogma? doctrine? Of course the answer is no. Is the opinion of a parish priest on the same level as a canon even a local council? Of course the answer is no.
The teaching hasn't changed. Some people don't agree with it, or don't like it. The tradition on this matter in the RCC and EO is the same. I would suggest that the number of people who do not accept it both among the laity and the clergy(!) is likely similar in both.
The formality of answering a question that was only possible to conceive of in the past 50 years - I'm talking about hormonal birth control - is an unreasonable standard in the history of the church. The church moves slowly, and in the interim, we work from principles and tradition out. Which is why I say it is much more important to affirm that being open to and having children is part of the marriage bed. Everything else flows from there. You'll note that this would also affirm the traditional teaching of the RCC that natural family planning is also not something to be done except in grave circumstances. Here we have probably the actual difference between the two. The RCC tends to emphasize the procreative aspect, and the EO probably tends to emphasize the uniative aspect.
In the meantime, we have pastoral economy which includes guidance from and obedience to our bishop.
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how does that sit with your parish(???) and your bishops views? Are they heretical or something else? And if they are their own pope, how can you be sure that your bishop is right? For example:
I was never under obedience to Metropolitan Ware (memory eternal), but my own bishop. I can only speak for the guidance my parish priest gives, which is what I've described above. That also isn't how "heresy" works, and I think you know that as well. Even if there was a radical departure in teaching, that would be between my bishop and someone else's - and the decision of how to address that, which could lead to a break in communion, is absolutely not my decision to make (thank God!).
As to how can I be sure my bishop is right? I mean, surely you see the irony of this question given the overall topic of conversation?
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if an (insert type) orthodox bishop here in the states decides that the metropolitan he reports to back in the motherland is heretical and splits off, is that splitting communion just a split in communion? Is this church split off just as valid as the church they split off from?
I don't know. Just because you're a bishop doesn't mean you're not under obedience. When it happens, I'll let you know how the bishops handle it.
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Not as a gotcha, but to try to understand your perspective, would you be willing to answer my Peter in the minority hypothetical I posted yesterday?
I don't know what you're referring to here.
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Lastly, you haven't answered, so maybe I haven't asked directly enough: is the new rite of the mass a form that invalidates the sacrament of the Eucharist? If it isn't invalid, is your discomfort with the rite worthy of schism, or something you should advocate on changing form within the church? Or does all of this not really matter since, as a bishop, he has that right and our break in communion isn't really that big of a deal?
You're starting to talk like an RCC with legalese that I'm not sure I know the specific meaning of. I think what you're asking me is - even with the stuff going on post Vatican II / NO is the Holy Spirit still present in your Eucharist? I would say that I do not and will not have an opinion on this. It is so far from being my business or something I could opine on. I certainly hope it is. God is merciful, even to groups in schism.
Taking the approach above, though, let's look at this on a principles basis. Is there a point where something would become unacceptable? Yes. For example, idolatry or sexual immorality being part of the service, or some kind of theological confession that shows a difference in the God we worship. There's a massive area between the 'clear and easy' things and the 'complete unity' things.
I don't think we are on the same page as to schism. Schism isn't the same as a break in communion. Schism is a break in communion plus an active denial of the validity of the other, as evidenced by setting up competing churches against the other. So what made 1054 schism vs break in communion was when (forgive me) Rome began setting up Latin churches in Greek episcopal sees. A break in communion doesn't make two churches. Schism does.
I didn't say a break in communion wasn't a big deal. It is a tear to unity. At the same time, the bishop has the
authority to do that. Whether he has the
right is another matter entirely.
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in this "every bishop is a pope" framework, are you not suggesting that unity is essentially impossible?
Unity is not found in having a single monarchial bishop over all bishops at the top of the hierarchy. Unity is found in the Eucharist, in Christ, which is why the fathers say that the bishop and the laity is the catholic church. I think this is a very great temptation for people in your position.
If I could rephrase your objections here, it seems that you're saying something like "if each bishop has the same authority as the pope, there is risk of chaos and change." Again... there is some irony here, don't you think? Between the two sides of this, east and west, where has there been chaos and change, novelty and schism, new rites and strange teachings? Where has there been unity?
The fact that the Orthodox church operates on consensus is a guard against change, it actually makes it more difficult, not easier. And this is clear by inspection and by history.