Not to be pedantic, but no - he published the book in 1963 as a layman and was tonsured a monk in 1966. That's why the book was originally published under the name "Timothy". Kallistos was his name after tonsure. And unless you have access to some written or spoken teaching from him, you don't know what his thoughts were - he doesn't say "this is what I teach about birth control" but instead reports on his view of the status.

I think the problem here is one of the main issues between the RCC and the East. You have a legal tradition, we have a pastoral one. There is no equivalent publication to the catechism of the Roman church in the east. There was never an equivalent to a scholastic movement which sought to define the faith in a rigorous, systematic way. So the amount of affirmative, dogmatic teachings and statements in the east are few, and the way these things are handled are different.

The approach is much similar to what we see in Exodus - what is called casuistic, where principles are laid out and judgment is made. This is exactly what Moses does - and why the Lord explains divorce as something Moses did out of pastoral economy. That does not make divorce good, but it also does not make what Moses did wrong.

So here the approach is simple. What is the purpose of intercourse in marriage? Both for chastity and procreation. You can't do one without the other, it can't be purely physical gratification, it can't be abusive or selfish, etc. And St John Chrysostom actually says the unitive is the primary part - "marriage was granted for the sake of procreation, but an even greater reason was to quench the fiery passion of our nature." It is the West's reliance on St Augustine that focused them so hard on procreation (and led them down the road to the idea that virginity is superior to marriage, rather than simply different - an error which was a major part of the Reformation, as well).

And yet the RCC endorses natural family planning. You handwave this away as "abstinence" but abstinence it is not. It is contraception, because by its very nature you are doing something to be able to engage in sex while intentionally avoiding procreation. It is no different than withdrawal. This is not me here saying it is wrong, but this is me saying it is qualitatively no different from the principles the fathers use than any other non-abortifacient birth control because it intentionally seeks to decouple one from the other. Which is why the official RCC position is that to engage in NFP requires "just and grave causes."

There's no list of "just and grave causes" formally defined as far as I can tell. I suspect most people engaging in NFP simply don't want any more kids or want any more kids right now. That is just as much a separation of the two sides of union as withdrawal or hormonal birth control, and also be suspect from a patristic point of view.

So the test for hormonal birth control - or any new technology on any thing - is to understand again from principle, casuistically, how it fits in with the purpose for which humans live. Make no mistake - NFP is technology! The scientific understanding of fertility has dramatically improved on this regard, making NFP much more effective. The difference between non-abortifacient hormonal birth control and NFP is not of kind but only a question of efficacy. They have exactly the same purpose and can all both be used inappropriately.

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Now you can say people may abuse abstinence by applying too much science in order to thwart more life, but it's nowhere near the same thing as artificially sterilizing yourself or your wife for the sake of having sex without concern for a new baby

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And the above is why this is just pure rationalization. A fiction. Copium. They both are the same, one is simply a more effective method.

Now. How do we understand this? Only by a casuistic and pastoral approach! You have two competing or conflicting things, people living their lives and hopefully trying their best within their circumstances, and the fundamental purpose of the marriage act. And the pastoral conclusion here is that when they compete there is a right and wrong way to "break the tie". You have to give guidance to parishioners about what is good and bad, and yes, condescend to their weakness as Moses did. This is not perfect but it is reality. So the RCC says it is better to engage in NFP with just and grave reasons than to get a vasectomy. It is better to do NFP than withdrawal. It is better (in my opinion) to do NFP than hormonal birth control. But it is also better to do hormonal birth control than have affairs or abortions.

You can be shocked by this, but 25% of abortions in the US in the past were from self-identifying Catholics - double that of Evangelicals. Catholics are reported to use contraception more than anyone else! So we see sanction also exists in the form of pastoral tolerance, which we can only divide from teaching through sophistry. What does it matter what the church "officially" teaches if the people and the clergy ignore it en masse? The teaching is the life of the church.

Does economy exercised because of the hardness of hearts change teaching? No. But as we see with your attitudes here, it can absolutely lead to a rationalization and legalistic fiction of right and wrong, even with someone who is sincerely trying to take a right moral stand. So much for NFP vs hormonal birth control.

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*I fail to understand how the EO arrive at "official teaching" or something like it, so if these aren't definitive enough examples, I'm open to hearing what does qualify as definitive*

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Now for the teaching of bishops. As said, Moses role was to apply the teaching. When God commands sacrifice, Moses elaborates on that, saying things God did not tell him (Exodus 13). He interprets and applies.

Official teachings are few - scripture, canons. Applications are many. Just as you see your pope making a distinction between NFP and onanism (ie that of "frustrating the marriage act") he is making a judgment. For you, when it is published it becomes an "official teaching".

For us, it remains the teaching of a bishop. It may be right - hopefully so! But no person, no bishop speaks for the church. "Official teaching" is only really identified in hindsight. There have been failed or robber councils, antipopes, corrupt popes, corrupt bishops. Robber councils, too, say "it seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us".

Are some bishops in error on this? Probably. But their error does not become "teaching" because nothing can change the confession of the church re: the purpose of the marriage act. The EO does not function in a legal fashion like the RCC. It is much closer to St Vincent of Lerins - "we adhere to the consentient definitions and determinations of all, or at the least of almost all priests and doctors."

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Divorce is a reality of a sinful world. The Church does not condone divorce, but recognizes that it happens and, again, condescends as to what to do when marriages fail. Because the sad fact is that some will. Sometimes marriages fail through no fault of one person. I have seen this happen. What is best for a person who has a wife who leaves them? For a wife who has a husband abuse them? Canons are given for the care of people - sabbath for man, etc. Bishops must apply them as best they can. And so the Church condescends in economy for remarriage, but also puts hard limits on the end of economy.

Far better that, in my opinion, than a hard line that leaves no room for people and forces people to choose, for example, between a legal fiction in an annulment or leaving their church over a marriage which is long since past the point of recovery.

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It was teaching that caused schism, so I don't know why you keep driving at the liturgical changes as some sort of proof that Catholicism is wrong or a barrier to reunification.

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Yeah - no. This is because you're RCC, and as we have seen in this discussion, you work from law out. The EO church works form praxis out. When EO theologians have tried to systematize it, they have said that the first thing is dogmatic fact, which is the life of the Church. That dogmatic fact contains doctrinal teachings as a part of its essence in many forms... the scriptures, hymns, prayers, liturgics, pastoral texts. When those teachings are ratified or affirmed, they become crystalized into language as dogma. Dogmatic fact is Holy Tradition.

So I fundamentally disagree. You can go into any parish you like and know whether they are practicing the same faith. There are obviously non-material differences in how this can look - accidents, to use Aristotle. But there are also changes which can be essential change, regardless of whatever formal teaching is used to justify them or hovers over or around them, or is formally maintained untethered by what actually happens, the actual life of the church.

You cannot have the correct teaching of the faith and simultaneously not have the correct praxis. Faith, praxis, teaching, tradition, worship, they're all of a piece.

That's why I say it is sophistry to say well all this changing is happening but this teaching over here is not changing. It doesn't make any sense. One flows into the other.

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your side has more change where it matters most. If your church is potentially sanctioning sinful actions denounced by all the fathers, that is a much larger change than anything we have. Chaos? Definitely us. But this is a result of being over a billion person church locked in consistent debate with what is now almost another billion Christians for 500 years.

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so - as we have seen, the first part is not happening. and so instead, the "small regional sect" of 240 million Christians maintains an unbroken faith, praxis, liturgics, and formal teaching despite the twin scourges of communism and Islam. While the church in the West separated herself from the rest of the church over their unilateral change in confession and fractured into countless schisms, and is now changing praxis to the point that some of her own faithful do not recognize their liturgical rites any more. The claims of the papacy produce the very schisms you're using to justify the chaos.

**I shouldn't have responded so late. I was tired and come across as much more cranky here than I intended. For that, I apologize. I have found this conversation to be very enlightening despite some of the frustrations that I have and I appreciate you sharing as much as you have. I'll try to watch my tone in the future, and will leave the harsher post here as to not hide from it**

Sorry, I meant he was in whatever process yall call becoming a monk. He was at a Monastery at the time. Regardless, he amended his own work multiple time after ordination and his rise to bishop and it states very different teachings. This is easy to see.

But let's just toss the whole "change" thing out, despite the NUMEROUS church fathers condemning it. Some bishops are ignoring that tradition (while not being able to ignore other teachings and the reasoning for each is very grey) and other bishops aren't. So if I'm under an EO bishop that prohibits it, I can just realign with one who does permit it. And we're supposed to call that a united church? If they disagree on what is sin, and we agree that sin separates us from God, they are only united because they choose not to say the other teaches immorality. I don't know how this isn't a grave matter.

I'll keep the rest of it simple. Fertile sperm going into a fertile uterus prior to or after an egg descending is nothing like wasting sperm in an artificially infertile uterus. The pill makes the uterus hostile to an embryo (which is why it's listed as a potential abortifacient). A condom wastes the sperm, just like pulling out. One is open to an "oops" (our last two children came sooner than expected, so I speak with experience). The others leading to a pregnancy are a medical/manufactural failure to prevent conception (again, condemned by many church fathers). Working with the bodies and minds God gave us is radically different than introducing a foreign object/chemical/etc into our bodies to stop our bodies from doing what they were created to do. There is no doubt that NFP works with our nature and ALL OTHER methods are designed to stop our bodies from doing what God created them to do. The only way for you to equate the two is to describe abstinence as a whole as contraceptive.

I was up to 4 paragraphs of details and had so many more to go that I deleted them. You don't seem open to this at all so I'll save my time unless you indicate otherwise. I'll leave it at this: this is a new teaching in orthodoxy and a rejection of the historical norms. Multiple orthodox leaders praised Humanae Vitae when it was written. The Chrysostom quote can be traced back to exactly one book, published in 1982 by a random lady with two kids and an orthodox priest that is now a Ukrainian Catholic priest. If I thought it was worth the money, I'd buy it to check its sources, but since I couldn't find the line in question anywhere else on the internet after hours of searching, I doubt it's worth it. Even funnier is that, if this quote is true, he says the marital act is mostly about avoiding sinful sex. "Unitive" is not equal to "quenching fiery passions". Also read as "horny".

The church fathers were unanimous in sex being for procreation. It was held "everywhere always by all". Any other view was never held "everywhere always by all".

The pastoral approach is how to help the sinner come to see their sin and repent. Not to look at a sin and say "they're gonna do it anyway, so let's give them some guidelines". Saying someone is abusing NFP if not justifying a split of the unitive and procreative. It's saying that it's possible to remove the procreative out entirely, which is sinful and needs to be addressed. Saying that it's ok to intentionally remove the procreative is the opposite, not a pastoral discernment. You don't see this because you do not see the difference between artificially breaking our nature versus working with it. This is why your orthodox ancestors praised Humane Vitae, and modern EOs don't. I wish it would have stuck.

Out of fatigue and laziness I'll respond succinctly to the rest but one point I'll save for last:


- Higher than evangelical in abortions "in the past" is vague. Can you give me a time frame to reference?
- Catholics use contraception. Yes. Ideally they repent in the confessional and stop. Most likely don't understand the teaching and are taught by the culture instead. I pray for mercy for all. *
- Catholics going against teaching IS NOT a sanction or pastoral tolerance. If the sinner does not confess the sin, how is the pastor to tell them otherwise? It should be ridiculous to assert that, but likewise will save to the end *
- I don't like the use of statistics of self identified adherents as a metric of denominational teachings. Catholic and EO have the same birth rate, which is abysmal. If we want to use statistics, apparently neither of us is open to life *
- Robber councils either excluded Rome or rejected the Roman delegates that tried to attend. I remember researching all of this for a rather hostile Lutheran poster on this board. Unless you have examples you'd like me to consider otherwise, I'll leave it at that*
- Anti popes didn't do any official teaching. As you've noted, that doesn't mean much to the EO, but it's the foundation of which we base our claim of papal authority. If you want a deeper explanation, I am willing.
- So a bishop may actively teach their flock error and it's just a "meh"? How big of an error does it have to be before it becomes an issue? Y'all just had another schism, so there is obviously some line in the sand. Is it simply national politics?*
- Divorce is a sinful reality… so you certify the sin? You don't look them in the eye, tell them they have sinned and/or are the victim of another's sin but they are married as Jesus has said and to remarry is to become an adulterer? Sure, you can appeal to Moses, but we can appeal to Jesus here. Why go back further if not to find a way to make something work that the church fathers are UNANIMOUS against. This is a new teaching that just so happened to formalize right after the schism. Divorce is a sin. Remarriage is a sin. The EO seems to give sacramental rites to this sin. I see no way around this. Sacramental rites to a sin is egregious.
- Chrysostom mentioned annulment in one of the homilies I found while trying to find that elusive quote that seems to have never been.(1 Corinthians 7:15 homily)
- More importantly, The council of Trullo (accepted as ecumenical by the orthodox) mentions a marriage being null as if the reader should be well aware of its meaning.
- Divorce was mentioned in that councils documents, so the delineation was there.
- You ignored the fact that East and West have never had the same liturgy
- You ignored the fact that the Western liturgy changed at least twice in the early centuries and didn't cause schism
- You ignored the fact that there are liturgies that are identical (or 98%+) to Orthodox Churches that are in communion with our church. Do you care to break down how they have fallen into the evil clutches of "Rome" despite their praxis?
- If our liturgy truly consecrates the host, what has changed outside of how the looks? I ask again: is the liturgy why we show up or is the body, blood, soul and divinity of our lord in the Eucharist why we show up? If it's the second, you have to prove our liturgy doesn't accomplish that. Inane as it may be, either Jesus is present in the Eucharist or He isn't. Don't dance around it.
- If He is present, then liturgical reforms, good or bad, are not worthy of schism. Thankfully historical record shows this to be true.
- Ramble all you want about how the liturgy determines all else, but if you are waiving away the fact that your current bishops may or may not actively sanction sin, the liturgy must not have saved the EO in any special way
- Frankly, I'm tired of being told I'm hand waving away teachings I have spent considerable time understanding. I'm tired of what appears to be (forgive me if I'm wrong) an incredibly condescending approach to Catholicism and the west in general, when the west makes up roughly 2 billion of the 2.2 billion Christians in the world today. Keep on saying that the teachings on divorce and remarriage, as well as contraception, are pastoral issues. Until you're willing to consider anything contrary, all attempts are futile. The west is in one schism because it was determined the See of Peter was not in charge by a schismatic. That schismatic propagated his theories quite effectively, and had many sub-schisms of his movement. The only difference between the Great Schism and the Reformation was "sola scriptura" and the printing press which necessarily go together.
- As I've said to the Protestants on here, the church isn't "Roman". That's a slur invented by the Anglicans. We are the Catholic church with number of different rites, united under the See of Rome. If you want to call us Romans, it is either ignorance or to inflame. It's hard to see this as charitable unless you see geography as a legitimate line of demarcation of ultimate authority.
- Your last paragraph reads to me incoherently, so I assume I misunderstand. Having unity by being autocephalous? Becoming one by having multiple heads? So the best way to have a unified marriage is to have two heads of the family? The best way to run a company is to have two (or more) heads? Why would having an "American Church" be a path to unity of the church globally?

*Last one: I asked before, when you stated that the bishops aren't the church and the church rejected it… you talk of being subject to the bishop. If the bishops unanimously teach something that the faithful overwhelmingly reject, what happens? It sounds to me that the bishops may serve by the permission of the faithful and not by ordained right.

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Some bishops are ignoring that tradition (while not being able to ignore other teachings and the reasoning for each is very grey) and other bishops aren't. So if I'm under an EO bishop that prohibits it, I can just realign with one who does permit it. And we're supposed to call that a united church? If they disagree on what is sin, and we agree that sin separates us from God, they are only united because they choose not to say the other teaches immorality. I don't know how this isn't a grave matter.

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I don't know what bishops are ignoring that tradition, but some may be. And no, "bishop hopping" is not a thing. I mean, I'm sure someone has done it, but that's not how it works. You are under obedience to a bishop, or a spiritual father who is to a bishop.

The only difference in this between the RCC and the EO is you have a guy at the top, and when he says the answer, it is definitive. In the meantime they function identically. The do not make this definitive answer like this but instead in collective way, through local synods, and ultimately if necessary through ecumenical councils. But no councils make new teaching, they simply affirm what came before and clarify as necessary. It functions the same way in the interim period, with the only difference being the centralized vs diffuse authority.

For example - there were bishops who opposed, vocally, papal infallibility. Here's a short paper about one of them - Peter Kenrick, Archbishop of St Louis. He openly taught that papal infallibility was not part of tradition, and worked very hard to prevent the vote at Vatican I from supporting it. The vote carried the day - notably those opposed chose to not be present rather than vote against - and this thing became or was declared to be not a question of theology but a matter of faith. Does this make Peter Kenrick and the 50+ other bishops heretics? Does it break his unity? Does it represent a change in the RCC teaching?

Now, what if there is a council and the topic of hormonal birth control comes up? Let's say someone, even an archbishop, worked very hard to prevent a statement condemning birth control from being put into place, but in the end, they were wrong. Did that make them heretics? Did it break unity? Did it represent a change in the EO teaching?

I say - each EO bishop functions as your pope - and you conclude - then each EO bishop is a church unto himself. So you're right, I need to amend my statement. Each EO bishop functions as your pope should, excepting abuses of universality. Which means he has the authority your pope does, but in no way is able to unilaterally declare any teaching by virtue of their office, and his jurisdiction is limited to his episcopacy.

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One is open to an "oops"

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All are open to "oops". Again, this is a question of efficacy.

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Working with the bodies and minds God gave us is radically different than introducing a foreign object/chemical/etc into our bodies to stop our bodies from doing what they were created to do

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I mean, this is just, like, your opinion, man. Birth control is working with bodies and minds the same as NFP, only with added steps.

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There is no doubt that NFP works with our nature and ALL OTHER methods are designed to stop our bodies from doing what God created them to do.

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As you note the Orthodox were positive about Humanae Vitae. We, however, do not agree with the philosophical argument from natural law. So here is our difference.

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The only way for you to equate the two is to describe abstinence as a whole as contraceptive.

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No, because abstinence is by definition not having sex. NFP is having sex in such a way that intentionally avoids conception. It is a way of preventing pregnancy. It is a method of contraception - and is defined that way by various medical groups. You yourself say, oops are possible. That means you were actively trying to not have a kid. This is the Orthodox teaching, by the way.

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The Chrysostom quote can be traced back to exactly one book, published in 1982

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? It's from On Virginity.

"So marriage was granted for the sake of procreation, but an even greater reason was to quench the fiery passion of our nature. Paul attests to this when he says: 'But to avoid immorality, every man should have his own wife.' He does not say: for the sake of procreation. Again, he asks us to engage in marriage not to father many children, but why? So 'that Satan may not tempt you,' he says. Later he does not say: if they desire children but 'if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry."

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The church fathers were unanimous in sex being for procreation. It was held "everywhere always by all". Any other view was never held "everywhere always by all".

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Not what I said. St John did not support that intercourse was exclusively for procreation. Some fathers did. For example, St John supported married couples continuing in intercourse after pregnancy is no longer possible (example in Homily 5 on Titus "no one blamed him who cohabited with his wife according to law, even to old age, but all blamed him who hoarded money"). The west, following St Augustine tend to come to the view that it was primarily for procreation, but the east did not.

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This is why your orthodox ancestors praised Humane Vitae, and modern EOs don't.

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They agreed with the conclusions, but not the natural law philosophy that arrived there, which is why you - contra the fathers - are justifying contraception by NFP... even perhaps against the explicit guidance of the RCC which requires a just and grave reason. Are finances just and grave? Inconvenience?

- Higher than evangelical in abortions "in the past" is vague. Can you give me a time frame to reference?
I don't support or like Guttmacher, but they are the best data available. Here.

- Catholics use contraception. Yes. Ideally they repent in the confessional and stop. Most likely don't understand the teaching and are taught by the culture instead.
If it was 50/50 I'd agree. Every poll I can see indicates it is essentially all. This is a teaching issue, or tacit acceptance. (Problematic across faith in different ways).

- So a bishop may actively teach their flock error and it's just a "meh"? How big of an error does it have to be before it becomes an issue? Y'all just had another schism, so there is obviously some line in the sand. Is it simply national politics?*
It's just reality. We both believe the church can't err. You apply this through a single office. We do not. The Church is not the pope, and it isn't the bishop. We don't have a schism. A break in union is not schism - not formally. As I said before, schism is when one church sets up a parallel structure against the other.

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- Divorce is a sinful reality… so you certify the sin? You don't look them in the eye, tell them they have sinned and/or are the victim of another's sin but they are married as Jesus has said and to remarry is to become an adulterer? Sure, you can appeal to Moses, but we can appeal to Jesus here. Why go back further if not to find a way to make something work that the church fathers are UNANIMOUS against. This is a new teaching that just so happened to formalize right after the schism. Divorce is a sin. Remarriage is a sin. The EO seems to give sacramental rites to this sin. I see no way around this. Sacramental rites to a sin is egregious.

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There is a fundamental difference between the RCC and EO approaches to marriage. But suffice to say, the wedding service for a second marriage is a penitential one, and involves repentance of sins including repentance that their first marriage was broken. You don't certify the sin - you provide a path to repentance. Here's a good podcast on the topic (with a transcript). I miss Fr Thomas.

I wasn't saying annulment was bad, I was saying it is largely used as a legal fiction to find a way to say the marriage never happened, when manifestly it has. But this comes back to the differences.

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I didn't ignore it. I said there are differences in accidents and there are differences in essences, and there's a big gap between.

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If our liturgy truly consecrates the host, what has changed outside of how the looks?

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Yeah dude, I don't agree with this. You're basically saying as long as the Eucharist is consecrated nothing else matters. But this is asking me to decide how far you can go before the Eucharist is no longer valid. Is it valid in a Baptist church? They say no there's no change, who am I to argue with them? The Lutherans? What about a Lutheran or Episcopal service offered by an openly homosexual female priest wearing rainbow robes? If that is valid - we're all good here? No objections from you? That's not how it works.

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- If He is present, then liturgical reforms, good or bad, are not worthy of schism. Thankfully historical record shows this to be true.

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At the risk of repeating myself, a break in communion is not schism. Liturgical reforms for bad are absolutely a reason for a break in communion, until such time a mutual understanding can be reached. That is not schism! It does not create two churches!

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- Ramble all you want about how the liturgy determines all else, but if you are waiving away the fact that your current bishops may or may not actively sanction sin, the liturgy must not have saved the EO in any special way

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Being frank this is a dumb argument. One, because the only defense is for you to say that no Roman bishop has ever sanctioned sin. And Two, because I never said the liturgy saved the EO.

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I'm tired of what appears to be (forgive me if I'm wrong) an incredibly condescending approach to Catholicism and the west in general, when the west makes up roughly 2 billion of the 2.2 billion Christians in the world today. Keep on saying that the teachings on divorce and remarriage, as well as contraception, are pastoral issues. Until you're willing to consider anything contrary, all attempts are futile.

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I suppose you may not understand what I mean when I say pastoral issues. But again, this is a real difference in how the RCC and the EO operate. Maybe the best example is this. The purpose of the church is not to prevent sin, but to heal it. Not to condemn but to save. A priest cannot bless what is inherently sinful - no matter what the Pope says about homosexual unions! - but he can and must work to save, which always involves condescension to our weaknesses. It does not mean calling a bad thing good.

I also think you seem to read me arguing in favor of contraception. I am not. I am saying that there has been no formal teaching that we could say is a change one way or another, and I personally believe that those against birth control will be vindicated. I also think that the current state of license for NFP even as described by you goes against the teaching of the RCC. Article here discussing. Most Americans have no serious reason to avoid children. I am actually to the "right" of you on this issue.

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We are the Catholic church with number of different rites, united under the See of Rome. If you want to call us Romans, it is either ignorance or to inflame. It's hard to see this as charitable unless you see geography as a legitimate line of demarcation of ultimate authority.

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Yeah, united under the See of Rome is precisely what I think is wrong here. That isn't how it once was, and it is not how it should be. I don't see geography per se - that is not what "nation" means under the apostolic canons - but it is a historical fact and undeniable that the early church was structured along the lines of Roman Imperial provinces. In my opinion (and this is only opinion) the Church should be structured along the lines of nations of people which is much more blurred these days. But the canons are clear that there should be no overlapping jurisdictions, so we should have geographic lines.

"Ultimate authority" is the problem. The "ultimate authority" is Christ. There is no theological "rank" above bishop - only administrative and seniority, by obedience. The idea of a single bishop with universal jurisdiction is very bad.

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- Your last paragraph reads to me incoherently, so I assume I misunderstand. Having unity by being autocephalous? Becoming one by having multiple heads? So the best way to have a unified marriage is to have two heads of the family? The best way to run a company is to have two (or more) heads?

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Autocephalous means self-ruled. The Russian Church, the Greek Church, the Antiochian Church - all self-ruled. The Church only has one head - that is Christ. Not the bishop of Rome. One head of the family - Christ. Not the Bishop of Rome.

Multiplicity in leadership and administration is not anti-unity. Rome had two consuls and a senate. Sparta had two kings and the ephors and gerousia. Athens had multiple archons. Israel first had no king - and two leaders, prophet and high priest, plus the elders of the tribes. Then no single prophet. And later had a king and priest separate, still with the tribal elders. And NONE of these have the power the bishop of Rome has arrogated to himself. His power and jurisdiction is far greater than a husband in family, or a CEO of a company! The corresponding structure is that of an absolute monarch, which is exceedingly rare in history because it is so unstable, corruptible. Most often this is deemed "tyranny" in history.

We don't become one because we elect a single leader. This is the glaringly bad assumption in this argument, as if without a single human leader we cannot be one, and as if with one we are guaranteed. No. We are one because of, in, and through Christ. HE is our perfect, singular and absolute monarch - priest and king - and no one else.

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Why would having an "American Church" be a path to unity of the church globally?

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This is a great question. The simple reason is that until we do so, we will continued to be fractured and divided. With no American church - and I mean by this a church comprised of American people, united under a senior American bishop, representing the unique cultural inheritance of the American people - we have overlapping jurisdictions from various churches - both Orthodox and otherwise. This is not canonical, and should not be this way. However, the New World and immigration has created a unique challenge here. The ultimate, canonically correct solution is for no overlapping episcopal jurisdictions, lead by one senior bishop. This church would be in communion with all the others, both as a whole (all the bishops under the patriarch) and individual (each church with his bishop). This is the historical model for the church.

An overlapping jurisdiction between Orthodox and Roman churches is no different. That is still the very picture of schism.

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*Last one: I asked before, when you stated that the bishops aren't the church and the church rejected it… you talk of being subject to the bishop. If the bishops unanimously teach something that the faithful overwhelmingly reject, what happens? It sounds to me that the bishops may serve by the permission of the faithful and not by ordained right.

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This is no different than me asking you "If the Bishop of Rome teaches something the faithful overwhelmingly reject, what happens?" What you aggregate into the single office, we simply do not.

I agree that the EO does not have the same scholastic tradition that the west does, which is what frustrates this conversation. It's incredibly difficult to find good sources, and I am spending more time than I should to try and prove this point. The fact of the matter is, the EO has changed. This 1930 conference was attended by Orthodox bishops, as was the conference in 1920 that fully condemned contraception. This is written by an Anglican, but again shows how the view on contraception was changed.

https://www.touchstonemag.com/archives/article.php?id=36-01-024-f&readcode=&readtherest=true

Now we can say that this isn't official teaching, or that the Orthodox church didn't comment, etc. But the delegates condemn the findings of the 1958 Lambeth conference in 1961, after not attending Lambeth post-1930. It is clear that artificial contraception is set aside from abstinence. But now contraception is seen as pastoral. This is an undeniable fact. Moral modernity snuck into your faith and it seems not to be noticed because the liturgy was unaffected.

https://time.com/archive/6806903/religion-concerning-birth-control/

When the report comes up for approval by the council's general assembly in 1961, the Eastern Orthodox churches will almost certainly oppose its adoption. The Orthodox Church made sure its own minority dissent was appended to the study-group report, asserted that "parents do not have the right to prevent the creative process of matrimonial intercourse; God entrusted to them this responsibility for childbearing, with full confidence that His Providence would take care of material and other needs."

I know the next step is to take "prevent the creative process of matrimonial intercourse" to mean the NFP somehow falls under this umbrella, despite the fact that this is direct response to artificial contraception. Maybe you will also say that you are comfortable with the fact that the church may have taught error (contraception is always immoral was incorrect teaching, for example) in the past, but I still think this brings up the same issue you and I would use with protestants: if the church can err in matter of what a sin is or isn't, what else can they mess up on? If morality itself can change, we're all on shaky ground.

I asked earlier how you think papal infallibility works, but I think it must have gotten lost in the fray. You write as if popes are in the habit of defining new teachings on a whim. The popes have always used advisors, councils, etc to work through doctrine. This is why the bad popes didn't do any teaching. They were so focused on the temporal power they had that they never bothered with the eternal. It also has never worked like Peter Kenrick argues for. Infallibility of the church is only found when the Holy Father is manifestly in union with the body of bishops? Nicea would be negated by this, since 5 bishops dissented, and other bishops relented as to not face excommunication. This doesn't work.

I'm not afraid of a pope teaching error on matters of faith and morality without full consent of bishops because the Holy Spirit is protecting the *office* of the pope. This was seen beautifully in Humanae Vitae. He had plenty of internal pressure to change including clergy and even a prominent Cardinal. Bishops at Vatican 2 leaked documents to make it seem like the Church was changing teaching in order to use public opinion to sway the result. Didn't work. We did not change. Unfortunately, as shown above ( and with Kallistos Ware), the EO did. Infallibility is a defense mechanism of the Church, not an offensive weapon.

However, it does follow from Kenrich's argument that every bishop could/should function as a pope, so you would be consistent in that. The problem is that in this model a bishop can make an authoritative teaching, while a different authoritative bishop comes to an opposite conclusion. Yet you can't "bishop hop". If you are one, holy, catholic and apostolic church, yet teach different things and members are expected to stay under their specific bishop even if they dissent, how are you "one". People are expected to stay under their bishop and be subjected to different moral laws than their so called fellow churchmen. If the church authorities are so separated that you can't move freely between them, how is it "one"?

Now, back to birth control vs NFP: NFP is not contraception, as the article you linked states. It is abstinence, as many popes have taught and this article declares. I have a number of explanations and analogies, but if you (as you seem to say) have written off the philosophy of natural law altogether, I'll save us both time. I'll simply restate the contraception and abstinence being the same thing was contrary to the opinion of the Orthodox church, my Dude. To say otherwise is, just, like, your opinion, man.

However, if you are open to a conversation on natural law philosophy, I'm open to it. For now, I'll just say this: no one can possibly have sex in such a way that avoids conception. That's the whole point. Sex leads to conception. Don't want conception, don't have sex. You say that abstinence is "not having sex"…. You mean like the "not having sex" that NFP requires? If NFP and contraceptives are the same thing, why do so many Catholics (as you point out) use contraceptives? It's the same thing right? Or is it because one method requires the "not having of sex" while the other does not? So no, you can't have "unprotected" (an evil term in my opinion), non-onanistic P in V sex in a way that avoids conception. You refrain from sex, or you thwart the act. There are only two ways and they are not the same. To say that a couple that prayerfully avoids the unitive good out of acknowledgement that the timing seems bad for the procreative is the same as the couple who sterilizes the act with zero sacrifice at all does a terrible disservice to those who have done the sacrificing in the face of an evil culture and false teachers.

What you are saying is akin to the idea that you can eat to starve yourself. Eating is the opposite of starving. If someone calorie restricts to the point of starvation, it's not the eating that starves them but the lack of enough eating. The only way to eat enough to not starve and still starve is to thwart the natural act of eating (bulimia). Or there is proper calorie restriction which includes both eating and not eating, but never "eating to starve. Eating to starve is nonsensical, as is having sex in a way to avoid conception. If you keep eating like natural, you will not starve. If you continue to have sex like natural you will conceive (provided both parties are healthy). The only way to starve or not conceive is to refrain from the natural action or to *******ize it.

I'll be happy to go into the ways a couple can abuse NFP by not having grave reason if you'd like, but you seem to get it. You never came across as pro-contraception, but the issue above does matter if error in morality is being taught.

Can you provide me with any links to the source of this Chrysostom sermon? Just like the last quote, all my google searches provide me with are books to buy. I can find all sorts of homilies from him online but none containing these quotes. I'll admit I only spent 5-10 minutes this time. I'd also like to point out again that this does not point towards unity, but avoiding sin. It also does not separate out the procreative act.

Again, judging a teaching based on how well it is adhered to does not make for good teaching. The EO and Catholics have low birthrates. You can only use statistics to judge how well we teach it (which is admittedly poor for us). If we want to use statistics to determine who teaches truth…. I guess we both better become Mormons.

Now to divorce: Both the gospels and epistles specifically defines choosing another spouse as adultery. The fathers unanimously taught this. How can you say one repents of their sin by engaging in sin? This makes no sense to me. So the man or woman acknowledges they did wrong, yes? Then go back to your ex and try to make it right. If they say no, then you stay single. If they are dead, you are free to marry. The only case where a separation is not condemned is when talking about unequally yoked persons. This is the grounds of annulment. But to say that we acknowledge our sin and repent of it by committing adultery should be serious cause of concern. This is calling an objectively "bad thing good".

I'll also say I find your characterization of annulment to be insulting. If you'd like to travel to a small town in central Texas, I have an incredible old man with a story about his denied annulment that will lead you to take this back. Unless you have great personal examples of these being handed out like candy, I'd ask you to drop this line of reasoning. My mom left the church over this teaching, so it's rather personal. The same mother who, despite being a double digit in her family's birth order, expressed concerns that my wife and I would be willing to "keep going". The irony was palpable. I get asked if "we're done yet" by Catholics just as much as others, so it's not a shock that not all view annulment the same way. But the teaching is sound and those that stick with the Church during this process are to be commended. We have a couple in our parish that has come back together after 15 years apart. The both knew remarriage was a problem, so they didn't do it. The barrier to healing was only time, not other marriages.

This is my issue with condescending to our weaknesses. This could easily be labeled as conforming to what the membership wants. It is not pastoral to say that there is healing through additional sin. This is why I love the story you posted. Having a family member in AA has been incredible to watch. It's not the acquiescence of sin, but the call to fight it as best as we can on this earth, knowing one may fail again. Admitting that one is powerless and needs God in their life to help them fight the good fight is a thing of humble beauty. Another story that gives hope to the hopeless and gives strength to those who want to stick to the faith but struggle https://aleteia.org/2017/07/06/he-was-an-opium-addict-who-couldnt-receive-the-sacraments-but-hes-a-martyr-and-a-saint. But all of this leads me to wonder how someone who fully acknowledges their past sin can rectify it by choosing another sin. Unless these are sexless marriages, which I am assuming they aren't and may be wrong.

Now to church authority/structure: I will state clearly that Christ is head of the Church, not the pope. Christ also spoke to one apostle differently than the other. Christ also prayed for unity. It's not a crazy stretch to put these all together. Ultimate Authority (capitalizing for emphasis) belongs to Christ. And Christ in His Ultimate Authority left an ultimate authority (lower case to show its lower place) in Peter. Peter messed up. Paul was inspired/wise enough to leave us an example of how he used Peter's own teachings to reprove Peter. He didn't usurp Peter. He did not claim to teach Peter. He did not leave Peter. I know we can't arrive at papal authority through the bible alone, but neither can we arrive at the Orthodox definition of papal primacy this way.

So we move on to history. A history full of appeals to the See of Rome. A history that shows 100% of robber councils excluding Roman delegates (to my knowledge). The teaching were nullified with no schism. But the time where churches disagree with the See of Rome: schism. Teachings stayed despite the objections. A history that shows Rome reinstating eastern clerics that were displaced without cause. A history that shows Clement reinstating clergy in Greece, despite his place in Rome.

Christ is Lord of the world. Our Lord left Peter in charge of His church. His Church is now over the whole world. Uniting the whole world to the See of Rome is an act of rejecting "self-rule" on purpose. Not because we can't self-rule, as the reformers showed. But because self-rule divides. You can say one head of one family, but to say that self-rule is somehow a part of being a family is antithetical to being a family. The only rule that one can make on their own is whether or not to be a part of the family.

If Christ is the husband (which He is) and the church is the wife (which She is) then why would He want a multi-headed bride? It's like marrying a wife with schizophrenia that has to check with all her personalities before submitting. This sounds off. He explicitly states He wants us to stay united, and as I've shown others, the "divisive" teaching are actually teachings to settle a divide. To stay silent would be to allow chaos. If we wanted to be united through a sort of "live and let live", Nicea was never really necessary.

Because of this, if the "Bishop of Rome" teaches something that all of the faithful deny, then there are no faithful. Obviously this is a binary, and the reality is that any teaching going to have X% accept and Y% deny. But we can state plainly that where there is an outright rejection of definitive teaching, there is a declaration against the faith. The Church doesn't change its teaching because the people don't like it. The orthodox church apparently has. Neither does she destroy all local customs and flair. We all have our own bishops conferences that attend the needs of the church in their respective countries. For example, due to poor faith regarding the Eucharist right now, the American bishops held a 3 year long Eucharistic revival. No other country did that. The same eucharist that is valid because it is consecrated by apostolic successors, which no other denomination has outside of Catholic and EO (which is why your liturgical argument doesn't work). You seem to take some sort of maximalist view where the pope has his hands on literally every decision made. We can still say we're American Catholics under the the president of the USCCB. He just reports to one higher. And that one reports to Christ.

You and I both agreed that faith is in the doing, not just the believing. In these two ways (and possibly more) your faith is teaching you the wrong things to do. I'm sure a merciful God will judge all according to that mercy (what we would call invincible ignorance) but the leaders that teach it or at least initiated that teaching were false shepherds, in my opinion. Condescension is stooping down to the lower in effort to lift them up. What I see here is only the stooping down and staying there. The opposite of the alcoholic you shared. So I desire unity behind right teaching. Keep your liturgy. Plenty of church's that joined ranks did that. But let's get our teachings on the same page.

Last thing: I am joining up with some men from church on a program that limits social media usage to Sundays only, so please forgive any delayed responses going forward.

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The fact of the matter is, the EO has changed.

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You seem unwilling to understand that just as the RCC has "official teaching" so do the Orthodox. The church teaching has not changed.

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But now contraception is seen as pastoral. This is an undeniable fact.

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It is not. Again, you seem unwilling to engage with what I am actually saying. You ignore that even in a pastoral approach a priest cannot bless what is sinful.

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Infallibility of the church is only found when the Holy Father is manifestly in union with the body of bishops? Nicea would be negated by this, since 5 bishops dissented, and other bishops relented as to not face excommunication

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Manifestly in union doesn't mean utter unanimity.

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Unfortunately, as shown above ( and with Kallistos Ware), the EO did.

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Again. Kallistos Ware is not the Church. You say "a prominent cardinal" pressured change but that didn't make a change. Even if Kallistos Ware taught his faithful that it was acceptable to use hormonal birth control - and I do not think this is true! - that would be no different.

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how are you "one"

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In Christ.

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subjected to different moral laws

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You seem to be under the impression that the church causes morality to exist. It does not. It recognizes what is already there. A bishop teaching an error does not subject someone to different moral law. It subjects the bishop to judgment.

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NFP is not contraception

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what is the purpose of NFP? manifestly to engage in sex in such a way as to reduce the likelihood of conception.

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To say that a couple that prayerfully avoids the unitive good out of acknowledgement that the timing seems bad for the procreative

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this is such a cop out, i'm sorry. this is laughable. "timing seems bad bro" - today. let's wait a couple of days for the "timing" to be better to have sex. this timing of course has nothing to do with not wanting a kid right now.

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If someone calorie restricts to the point of starvation, it's not the eating that starves them but the lack of enough eating

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the closer analogy would be that if you ate only on some days you get fat, but on other days you don't. you don't want to get fat, so you eat all you want on the latter, and don't eat at all on the former, and then claim what you're doing is fasting.

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Can you provide me with any links to the source of this Chrysostom sermon?

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i only have the full text in Greek, sorry. link.

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If we want to use statistics to determine who teaches truth

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i never made this claim.

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Now to divorce...The only case where a separation is not condemned is when talking about unequally yoked persons.

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"til death do us part" is not part of the Orthodox ceremony. There are no vows in an Orthodox marriage. The understanding is fundamentally different. And Orthodox ecclesiastical divorces are not given for any reasons, but examples like abuse or adultery - not incompatibility or whatever.

it's ok you don't agree. another point of a difference of tradition between our faiths. here is a post with plenty of discussion about how the Orthodox view upholds the tradition of the fathers.

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characterization of annulment to be insulting...by choosing another sin

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sorry. i find the idea that a marriage was thought to be valid can be found to be invalid post facto, and therefore you can remarry, to be a kind of legal fiction. at any rate, the reasons for annulment in the RCC and divorce in the Orthodox church are similar. In fact based on this the standards for annulment seem to be lighter. The difference is that the Orthodox have no conceptual space for a marriage not being "legally binding" even though the marriage actually happened. In the end, the decision by a bishop to allow a person to be remarried essentially functions the same way as an annulment does. Even the article I noted says "there are cases where a person is justified in acting contrary to the law" and again "A hateful, abusive husband is probably a psychologically damaged human being, whether we can prove his personality disorder or not" and again "Many of them receive [Communion] anyway, believing that their second marriage is not a sin but a blessing.
This civil marriage violates the strict letter of the law, but freedom of conscience comes into play here." Your church would say that the psychologically damaged human cannot validly marry. My church says they were married, but the divorce happened. In either case the question is - ok, how do we deal with it? At the same time your church allows a tribunal to say - it is not sin for this person to remarry because the original marriage was invalid. My church allows a bishop to say - it is not sin for this person to remarry because their original marriage was ended for reasons that make it permissible for this person to remarry. Binding and loosing is a real thing.

For example, my mother divorced her first husband who was an adulterer and abusive toward her, before remarrying my father. Had she been catholic there is no certainty she would have been granted an annulment. Her marriage to my father was a blessing, and she says she knows she will have to make a defense for it at the judgment seat. So be it. He will judge. But it would be better for her (she is not Orthodox) to have that judgment been done by a bishop, who absolutely has that right.

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So we move on to history

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sorry but the argument from history is pretty clear that Rome asserted increasing rights, which were consistently and definitively rejected by the rest of the church. Examples here. Patristic quotes here.

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Our Lord left Peter in charge of His church

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The scriptures do not say this. Our Lord left the Apostles.

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self-rule divides

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The record of history shows the opposite, unfortunately. The Orthodox remain in unity. The western church has fractured into countless schisms.

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would He want a multi-headed bride

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self rule doesn't mean multi-headed or in disunity any more than cardinals make the Roman church multi-headed.

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if the "Bishop of Rome" teaches something that all of the faithful deny, then there are no faithful

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I agree with your assessment of your church. This makes the bishop of Rome the Church, because he can be right in his office, alone. However the church is not the bishop, any bishop, but the bishop united with the faithful.

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The Church doesn't change its teaching because the people don't like it. The orthodox church apparently has.

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your liturgical argument doesn't work

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the liturgical argument i never made but now you're pummeling as a strawman?

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You seem to take some sort of maximalist view where the pope has his hands on literally every decision made

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he may not, but he can, because he has universal jurisdiction. that matters.

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your faith is teaching you the wrong things to do

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no, it isn't, because you still have offered no evidence of teaching that is in any way different than one of your bishops being in error. that doesn't meant the RCC changed teaching. the same applies.