Catag94 said:
I'm with you. Please don't become frustrated.
From here, I ask, if one believes the gospel, professes faith in Jesus, receives the Holy Spirit and is baptized in the name of the Father, Son, and Holt Spirit and lives a life that yields fruits of the Spirit (works), further, affirms belief in the real presence of Christ's body and blood in the Eucharist, and is free of mortal sin (by his own self inspection and knowledge of what this means), on what basis would the Catholic Church not see a profound enough unity with him to allow common celebration of the Eucharist if not a few other sacraments?
Or, in other words, the fundamentals not sufficiently establish a basis for that profound Union? And perhaps everything beyond these is peripheral to the message of the gospel and what makes us brothers in Christ.
Also, is it possible to sin against the church but that not be a sin against or in the eyes of God?
No frustration whatsoever. I find this both agonizing and exhilarating. Agonizing because I hate that differences exist in the first place. Exhilarating because it's great to have brotherly/sisterly talk with other Christians so that I can better understand.
I agree with all that you listed, and realize that maybe I haven't been blunt enough, so I'll try here: if a member of a Baptist/non-denom church openly states how much praying the rosary has yielded fruit in their life, how do you think that would go? Is the Baptist/non-denom church being exclusionary when they have the reaction you know for a fact they will? Why do they react that way if not for a strong desire to preserve the faith as they see it?
It's easy to say that we should rally around the fundamentals until we realize that the fundamentals are defined by those in charge and the peripheral is defined the same way. You can say prayers to the saints, sinless Mary, the real presence, etc is peripheral, but the majority of Protestants do not. The church is split because authority is split, and it's RADICALLY misdiagnosed because most of the basics you listed stem from a sola scriptura view where "everything else is extra" when reality is the idea of scripture alone is its own "extra". This is what causes Christians to often speak past one another.
Lastly, any sin against the church is against God, since the church is the Bride of Christ. But similar to the way my 2 year old cannot sin against the family the same way my 8 year old can, or the way they can as adults once they get there, we believe that God views these sins in His own merciful way. Culpability is the term we use. This is why you won't find any eternal judgment against anyone. Not even Judas gets a formal damnation from the church. That belongs to God and God alone, not His bride.