Apologies, however, I don't know enough about Calvinism to respond to that claim.
My point about Jesus and Judas was that, looking back, it all seems so obvious, but that is not how our Lord operates. He looks forward. I remember a homily about the last supper and the seating of Judas in the place of honor, to the left of Jesus. Jesus knew who would betray him, yet he gave him every chance even up to the kiss.
When someone asked if dismissing Bishop Strickland was a Christian act, something Jesus would do? The answer is not so clear. On the one hand, Bishop Strickland was well beloved by many. On the other hand, he was disobedient to Rome, even by his own admission, regarding Traditiones Custodes. There were other issues regarding his diocese, but Pope Francis has been clear about getting on the same page and not looking backwards (i.e., TLM). Bishop Strickland was sticking it to Rome and he got called on it. Not so much for his so-called conservative views, but for his neglect to his flock.
All my opinion, of course.