It's pretty easy to just assume a whole contingent of people are awful if you spend too much time on the internet.
And that is true also.Frok said:
It's pretty easy to just assume a whole contingent of people are awful if you spend too much time on the internet.
dermdoc said:
Unfortunately a lot of what you posted is true.
All I can say is this God created you and loves you. And this Christian loves you too.
kurt vonnegut said:dermdoc said:
Unfortunately a lot of what you posted is true.
All I can say is this God created you and loves you. And this Christian loves you too.
Love me in a "Well, I don't agree with your views, but acknowledge and appreciate that you are doing your best and that your views help you make sense of the world" kinda way. Or love me in a begrudging "Well God says love has to be the baseline so I'll oblige even though I think you are in league with Satan trying to destroy American Christian culture to make room for a shallow hedonistic dystopia." kinda way?
guilty. and when you see this in light of what i wrote above, you can see how absurd it would be for me to be.Quote:
you can't be happy for someone that doesn't believe in God.
More like love you in a: if you and I were blood feud enemies for a few hundred years and I came across you bleeding in a ditch, I would - at great personal risk - stop, bind your wounds, take you to a hospital, and pay your medical bills kind of way.kurt vonnegut said:dermdoc said:
Unfortunately a lot of what you posted is true.
All I can say is this God created you and loves you. And this Christian loves you too.
Love me in a "Well, I don't agree with your views, but acknowledge and appreciate that you are doing your best and that your views help you make sense of the world" kinda way. Or love me in a begrudging "Well God says love has to be the baseline so I'll oblige even though I think you are in league with Satan trying to destroy American Christian culture to make room for a shallow hedonistic dystopia." kinda way?
I'm left with the impression that the Christians on this website are requesting a very one sided relationship with secularists. This sounds like a relationship whereby the secular members may not be expected to accept Christianity, but are expected to respect Christianity, revere its position and influence, and accept its position of privilege. And the Christian members are not only permitted to reject secular values, but also to actively condemn those values, marginalize them, censor them, and degrade them.Zobel said:
there are two things that jump out at me here. one, some of this can only be written if you are unable to accept that some folks are serious and sincere in their beliefs. and two, you seem unwilling to accept that other people have a different definition of love and different hierarchy of values (re: happiness) from you.guilty. and when you see this in light of what i wrote above, you can see how absurd it would be for me to be.Quote:
you can't be happy for someone that doesn't believe in God.
the two worldviews are mutually exclusive and to a large extent incompatible. there's no small amount of irony in your last sentence here. how do you think Christians feel about their views on sexuality?Quote:
I'm left with the impression that the Christians on this website are requesting a very one sided relationship with secularists. This sounds like a relationship whereby the secular members may not be expected to accept Christianity, but are expected to respect Christianity, revere its position and influence, and accept its position of privilege. And the Christian members are not only permitted to reject secular values, but also to actively condemn those values, marginalize them, censor them, and degrade them.
in a discussion like this the person with the fewest requirements "wins" by nature of being the most accepting. that doesn't tell you anything about their ability to show empathy or respect, it just shows that they have the fewest things they care about.Quote:
I think that I am the one that understands that other people have different definitions of love and different values. And I think you are the one that rejects any different definitions on account of non compliance with unquestionable dogmatic truth. What room for understanding is there with your set of values? What room is there for empathy or mutual respect? I think this is why we find ourselves in this contentious spot.
we'd probably call that the virtue of humility, and it's the probably the chief of Christian virtues.Quote:
In your own set of values, where and how do you place modesty? Modesty in the sense of being humble in the estimation of your own ability and intelligence and morality.
There are people on this forum, and in real life, who take Christianity very seriously. Your general interaction with American cultural Christianity out in the wild is weak cultural window dressing. So its easy to say, "Why can't they compromise on X, they've already compromised on Y before over and over again?"kurt vonnegut said:I'm left with the impression that the Christians on this website are requesting a very one sided relationship with secularists. This sounds like a relationship whereby the secular members may not be expected to accept Christianity, but are expected to respect Christianity, revere its position and influence, and accept its position of privilege. And the Christian members are not only permitted to reject secular values, but also to actively condemn those values, marginalize them, censor them, and degrade them.Zobel said:
there are two things that jump out at me here. one, some of this can only be written if you are unable to accept that some folks are serious and sincere in their beliefs. and two, you seem unwilling to accept that other people have a different definition of love and different hierarchy of values (re: happiness) from you.guilty. and when you see this in light of what i wrote above, you can see how absurd it would be for me to be.Quote:
you can't be happy for someone that doesn't believe in God.
I think that I am the one that understands that other people have different definitions of love and different values. And I think you are the one that rejects any different definitions on account of non compliance with unquestionable dogmatic truth. What room for understanding is there with your set of values? What room is there for empathy or mutual respect? I think this is why we find ourselves in this contentious spot.
In your own set of values, where and how do you place modesty? Modesty in the sense of being humble in the estimation of your own ability and intelligence and morality.
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America's historical legal framework is seen as cumbersome to the liberal minded. Laws are now selectively applied to promote a worldview very different than the ones that created the laws.
**introduces root of the issue claims that specifically deal with normative ethics***Sapper Redux said:Quote:
America's historical legal framework is seen as cumbersome to the liberal minded. Laws are now selectively applied to promote a worldview very different than the ones that created the laws.
This is an amazing statement given how conservative judges and state legislatures have been running roughshod over state decisis and existing laws and regulations.
Link?Sapper Redux said:Quote:
America's historical legal framework is seen as cumbersome to the liberal minded. Laws are now selectively applied to promote a worldview very different than the ones that created the laws.
This is an amazing statement given how conservative judges and state legislatures have been running roughshod over state decisis and existing laws and regulations.
And then Sapper drops in with the philosophical equivalent of "how long have you been beating your wife?"Sapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
Just to clarify, the African Churches have been awesome on the international scene. In the Catholic Church, the Methodist Church, and the Lutheran Church, the African churches have been reasonable and steady hands while churches in the West are overreacting to the culture wars in one way or another. They also are some of the most active players in the ecumenical scene promoting unity across denominations. So yes, they are a shining beacon and Christianity is blessed to have themSapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
ramblin_ag02 said:
Just to be clear, the whole impetus of this discussion was public prayer at a football game. A football game that is an entirely optional event for everyone involved. A prayer that asks for everyone to enjoy the game, asks that no one gets hurt, asks that everyone gets home safely, and that there are no hard feelings over the outcome. All this followed by a brief mention of the name Jesus Christ. So I guess I just have no idea why this is offensive, and why that act makes someone feel persecuted, lesser, inferior, or upset in any way whatsoever.
If you're offended by street preachers telling you that you're going to hell, then I get it. If you're offended by pro-life activists with big posters with gruesome images, then I get it. If you're upset about the prevailing right wing rhetoric against the LGBTQ community largely driven by Christians, then I get it. Not saying I 100% agree, but I understand why someone would be upset about these things. I just can't wrap my head around someone getting triggered over a goodwill prayer at an optional community function
kurt vonnegut said:ramblin_ag02 said:
Just to be clear, the whole impetus of this discussion was public prayer at a football game. A football game that is an entirely optional event for everyone involved. A prayer that asks for everyone to enjoy the game, asks that no one gets hurt, asks that everyone gets home safely, and that there are no hard feelings over the outcome. All this followed by a brief mention of the name Jesus Christ. So I guess I just have no idea why this is offensive, and why that act makes someone feel persecuted, lesser, inferior, or upset in any way whatsoever.
If you're offended by street preachers telling you that you're going to hell, then I get it. If you're offended by pro-life activists with big posters with gruesome images, then I get it. If you're upset about the prevailing right wing rhetoric against the LGBTQ community largely driven by Christians, then I get it. Not saying I 100% agree, but I understand why someone would be upset about these things. I just can't wrap my head around someone getting triggered over a goodwill prayer at an optional community function
I think being optional is irrelevant. What I think is relevant is public versus private. Getting a driver's license is optional, that isn't justification for the DMV to play Church of Satan adds in the waiting room tv. Church of Satan adds are inappropriate in that setting. Not playing Church of Satan adds at the DMV isn't a removal of their free speech, is it?
Again, I am in no way triggered or offended by a prayer at a school game. I want that to be 100% clear. My position is that the game is not the appropriate setting for the prayer in my opinion. And if the rest of the country disagrees, then fine. . . .but, if we are going to allow Christian prayer, we have to allow 'any' prayer. Triggered Christians at the first game where the church of Satan gives the opening prayer is the inevitable result here.
What I don't understand is why the prayer has to be an official part of the event. In a previous post, I listed a bunch of ways in which Christians can and should pray both publicly and privately. Literally, no one is saying that Christians can't pray before a game. But, that isn't what Christians want. They don't want to pray before a game. They want their prayer to be publicly recognized as part of the program. A prayer to themselves, with their friends or family, or with the entire stadium isn't sufficient. It has to be led by a school employee being paid by tax dollars. It has to be officially recognized as the accepted value set. That is 100% what this is about. Power and Pride. Nothing else.
ramblin_ag02 said:Just to clarify, the African Churches have been awesome on the international scene. In the Catholic Church, the Methodist Church, and the Lutheran Church, the African churches have been reasonable and steady hands while churches in the West are overreacting to the culture wars in one way or another. They also are some of the most active players in the ecumenical scene promoting unity across denominations. So yes, they are a shining beacon and Christianity is blessed to have themSapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
ramblin_ag02 said:And then Sapper drops in with the philosophical equivalent of "how long have you been beating your wife?"Sapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
Just for fun, how do you feel about these laws? What do you think should be done about it?
dermdoc said:Link?Sapper Redux said:Quote:
America's historical legal framework is seen as cumbersome to the liberal minded. Laws are now selectively applied to promote a worldview very different than the ones that created the laws.
This is an amazing statement given how conservative judges and state legislatures have been running roughshod over state decisis and existing laws and regulations.
Zobel said:
is your assertion here that state legislatures cannot make laws that supersede existing laws?
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conservative...state legislatures have been running roughshod over...existing laws.
kurt vonnegut said:ramblin_ag02 said:
Just to be clear, the whole impetus of this discussion was public prayer at a football game. A football game that is an entirely optional event for everyone involved. A prayer that asks for everyone to enjoy the game, asks that no one gets hurt, asks that everyone gets home safely, and that there are no hard feelings over the outcome. All this followed by a brief mention of the name Jesus Christ. So I guess I just have no idea why this is offensive, and why that act makes someone feel persecuted, lesser, inferior, or upset in any way whatsoever.
If you're offended by street preachers telling you that you're going to hell, then I get it. If you're offended by pro-life activists with big posters with gruesome images, then I get it. If you're upset about the prevailing right wing rhetoric against the LGBTQ community largely driven by Christians, then I get it. Not saying I 100% agree, but I understand why someone would be upset about these things. I just can't wrap my head around someone getting triggered over a goodwill prayer at an optional community function
I think being optional is irrelevant. What I think is relevant is public versus private. Getting a driver's license is optional, that isn't justification for the DMV to play Church of Satan adds in the waiting room tv. Church of Satan adds are inappropriate in that setting. Not playing Church of Satan adds at the DMV isn't a removal of their free speech, is it?
Again, I am in no way triggered or offended by a prayer at a school game. I want that to be 100% clear. My position is that the game is not the appropriate setting for the prayer in my opinion. And if the rest of the country disagrees, then fine. . . .but, if we are going to allow Christian prayer, we have to allow 'any' prayer. Triggered Christians at the first game where the church of Satan gives the opening prayer is the inevitable result here.
What I don't understand is why the prayer has to be an official part of the event. In a previous post, I listed a bunch of ways in which Christians can and should pray both publicly and privately. Literally, no one is saying that Christians can't pray before a game. But, that isn't what Christians want. They don't want to pray before a game. They want their prayer to be publicly recognized as part of the program. A prayer to themselves, with their friends or family, or with the entire stadium isn't sufficient. It has to be led by a school employee being paid by tax dollars. It has to be officially recognized as the accepted value set. That is 100% what this is about. Power and Pride. Nothing else.
Roe v Wade was never constitutional in my opinion. And SCOTUS agrees.Sapper Redux said:dermdoc said:Link?Sapper Redux said:Quote:
America's historical legal framework is seen as cumbersome to the liberal minded. Laws are now selectively applied to promote a worldview very different than the ones that created the laws.
This is an amazing statement given how conservative judges and state legislatures have been running roughshod over state decisis and existing laws and regulations.
https://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/21pdf/19-1392_6j37.pdf
I hear things over loudspeakers at public sporting events I do not agree with all the time and it does not "offend" me.Sapper Redux said:
So why does that need to be done over the loudspeakers in a way that all attendees are forced to listen / participate?
So you feel that we know better than them, their beliefs are wrong, and it is our duty to punish them until they agree with your beliefs?Sapper Redux said:ramblin_ag02 said:And then Sapper drops in with the philosophical equivalent of "how long have you been beating your wife?"Sapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
Just for fun, how do you feel about these laws? What do you think should be done about it?
African Christian leaders have been behind or supportive of legislation like this.
Are you really asking how I feel about laws that threaten to execute people for who they are, who are not harming others? Not a fan. What should be done? Until the law is repealed, any financial support to Uganda should be placed under a microscope and cut where it makes sense.
ramblin_ag02 said:So you feel that we know better than them, their beliefs are wrong, and it is our duty to punish them until they agree with your beliefs?Sapper Redux said:ramblin_ag02 said:And then Sapper drops in with the philosophical equivalent of "how long have you been beating your wife?"Sapper Redux said:Didn't Uganda just make being gay a capital offense? Is that what you mean by a "shining beacon"?Quote:
The African Christian churches are shining beacons to the rest of the world right now if you're a conservative Christian.
Just for fun, how do you feel about these laws? What do you think should be done about it?
African Christian leaders have been behind or supportive of legislation like this.
Are you really asking how I feel about laws that threaten to execute people for who they are, who are not harming others? Not a fan. What should be done? Until the law is repealed, any financial support to Uganda should be placed under a microscope and cut where it makes sense.
kurt vonnegut said:
K - change everywhere I said church of Satan to Islam and reread the post. I think that you think technicality stops my argument, but it really doesn't. How will Christina react when we start having Muslim prayers on the loudspeakers?
ramblin_ag02 said:
I know I'm minimizing your complaint, but I really can't help it. All I hear is "people are speaking out hoping for health, safety, happiness, and brotherly love at a public event using public money and I'm upset about that"
I said it in another thread. You could take the most wretched, vile, putrid belief system imaginable. But if someone from that belief system prays for peace, happiness, and safety, then I wouldn't be offended in the least. Your Satanist example is one case. If a Satanist wishes all those things for me, then I'll say "thank you" and not think twice about it