Btw, you're comparing the use of a term referring to feces to the use of a term meant to demean and degrade one who bears God's divine image?Patriot101 said:
I don't see anything wrong here.
Consider the Apostle Paul:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/koine-greek.com/2018/05/02/obscenity-in-paul-the-question-of-skubalon/amp/
PacifistAg said:
Of course you don't. I'm sure you'd have no issue with another man calling your wife that, you know, just to make a point.
Given your avoidance of the subject, I assume you also have no issue with his covering for a pedophile and mishandling child sex abuse. Even blaming the parents of the victim.
I posted links previously. Goodness, you will do anything to not criticize a misogynist that covers for pedophiles simply because he's in your tribe.Patriot101 said:PacifistAg said:
Of course you don't. I'm sure you'd have no issue with another man calling your wife that, you know, just to make a point.
Given your avoidance of the subject, I assume you also have no issue with his covering for a pedophile and mishandling child sex abuse. Even blaming the parents of the victim.
I have no idea about the case. Probably falls into the civil authorities investigation and role.
It's puritanical to not call women the "c-word" or covering for pedophiles? And that's funny, because I often get accused of being too "liberal" theologically by some here. But hey, if believing we shouldn't demean and degrade those who bear God's image, or cover for pedophiles, is puritanical, so be it.Patriot101 said:
PacifistAg, you would make a good Puritan.
The fact that you're making this accusation with any shred of seriousness tells me you don't know anything about me. I've been called many things. A Puritan is not one of them. It's even more laughable than you trying to justify Wilson calling a woman the b-word and c-word, or using the n-word, because Paul used a word that may be the equivalent of saying *****Patriot101 said:
You should look into their beliefs.
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The fact that you're making this accusation with any shred of seriousness tells me you don't know anything about me. I've been called many things. A Puritan is not one of them.
The pedophile admitted to it. His attorney was the legal counsel to New Saint Andrews College, which is tied to Christ Church. Wilson never warned their congregation that a known pedophile was in their midst. Wilson was one of the pedophile's chief counsellors, and even threatened the family that he was going to now deny the charges and force the victims (all younger than 9) to be cross-examined by the attorney who is legal counsel for their college. After the pedophile plead guilty, Wilson wrote to the judge asking that the penalties be "measured and limited". He was sentenced to life, yet somehow got out after 20 months. 6 weeks later, the pedophile was arrested for voyeurism. And elder at Christ Church then arranged an introduction between the pedophile and a female student at New Saint Andrews College (elder is a VP there). On their 2nd date, they got engaged. Wilson then performed the wedding for a known sex offender and pedophile.Quote:
People lie. It's wrong. But ask anyone in law enforcement. Forget about forensics as well. No way the Church is to be the authority until the civil authorities find guilt.
Then they should be excommunicated and will be at Wilson's church.
I've read through it. I don't see where they cover for pedophiles and hide behind "well, we're just messy". Or where it's ever sanctioned to use grotesquely demeaning language towards others.Patriot101 said:
Read through the epistles of the New Testament one more time and tell me that the church wasn't messy.
It's hard to know what his point is because he never explicitly addresses anything mentioned, and does everything possible to avoid topics that he doesn't like. Such as the vile behavior of people like Doug Wilson.diehard03 said:Quote:
The fact that you're making this accusation with any shred of seriousness tells me you don't know anything about me. I've been called many things. A Puritan is not one of them.
The Reformers love the Puritans. That's his point.
PacifistAg said:The pedophile admitted to it. His attorney was the legal counsel to New Saint Andrews College, which is tied to Christ Church. Wilson never warned their congregation that a known pedophile was in their midst. Wilson was one of the pedophile's chief counsellors, and even threatened the family that he was going to now deny the charges and force the victims (all younger than 9) to be cross-examined by the attorney who is legal counsel for their college. After the pedophile plead guilty, Wilson wrote to the judge asking that the penalties be "measured and limited". He was sentenced to life, yet somehow got out after 20 months. 6 weeks later, the pedophile was arrested for voyeurism. And elder at Christ Church then arranged an introduction between the pedophile and a female student at New Saint Andrews College (elder is a VP there). On their 2nd date, they got engaged. Wilson then performed the wedding for a known sex offender and pedophile.Quote:
People lie. It's wrong. But ask anyone in law enforcement. Forget about forensics as well. No way the Church is to be the authority until the civil authorities find guilt.
Then they should be excommunicated and will be at Wilson's church.
You don't have to defend everything he does. Goodness. This doesn't even get into the atrocious mishandling of the Natalie Greenfield sex abuse.
Not only did Wilson not excommunicate sex offenders, he performed their freaking wedding ceremony.
All of that occurred after the pedophile initially admitted to his abuse. He then essentially asked for lenience, and officiated a pedophile's wedding, AFTER the pedophile had pled guilty to his abuse AND been busted for voyeurism after his release from prison.Patriot101 said:PacifistAg said:The pedophile admitted to it. His attorney was the legal counsel to New Saint Andrews College, which is tied to Christ Church. Wilson never warned their congregation that a known pedophile was in their midst. Wilson was one of the pedophile's chief counsellors, and even threatened the family that he was going to now deny the charges and force the victims (all younger than 9) to be cross-examined by the attorney who is legal counsel for their college. After the pedophile plead guilty, Wilson wrote to the judge asking that the penalties be "measured and limited". He was sentenced to life, yet somehow got out after 20 months. 6 weeks later, the pedophile was arrested for voyeurism. And elder at Christ Church then arranged an introduction between the pedophile and a female student at New Saint Andrews College (elder is a VP there). On their 2nd date, they got engaged. Wilson then performed the wedding for a known sex offender and pedophile.Quote:
People lie. It's wrong. But ask anyone in law enforcement. Forget about forensics as well. No way the Church is to be the authority until the civil authorities find guilt.
Then they should be excommunicated and will be at Wilson's church.
You don't have to defend everything he does. Goodness. This doesn't even get into the atrocious mishandling of the Natalie Greenfield sex abuse.
Not only did Wilson not excommunicate sex offenders, he performed their freaking wedding ceremony.
I'm pretty sure it was still an ongoing investigation.
We have this thing in our belief system in some odd book of the Bible that state "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor."
It kind of a big deal that Moses passed down. It's the foundation of this thing we call innocent until proven guilty. Sometimes it gets us in trouble because it is also applied by St. Paul as gossip. There are many warnings about gossipers existing. So there's that.
This is the problem of when we hold "pastors" to be above reproach, like he clearly does with Wilson. I grew up in a cult like that, and to criticize the "pastor" would be akin to criticizing God Himself. It's unconscionable in these bubbles.dermdoc said:
Just curious, did you feel the same way about the Catholic priests accused of sex stuff? Is it because this guy is a Calvinist?
dermdoc said:
Just curious, did you feel the same way about the Catholic priests accused of sex stuff? Is it because this guy is a Calvinist?
I'm believing the facts. How am I falling short of "believing the best"? The problem is that Wilson covered for a known pedophile. The fact is that Wilson and their church leadership has repeatedly mishandled sexual abuse cases within their church. The fact is that Wilson admits to using grotesquely demeaning and offensive language towards women, and uses the "n-word".Patriot101 said:
Also, consider reading the love chapter in the 13th chapter of 1 Corinthians. "Love believes the best..."
You may just may be guilty of not doing so here.
"Love rejoices in the truth" is found in that passage as well. If the investigation was concluded by the proper authorities, since everyone loves separation of church and state, then shame on Wilson.
Red herrings? Enemies of God's grace? Read the next damn verse:Quote:
1 Corinthians 5:1
"It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father's wife."
I guess these red herring arguments used by the enemies of God's Grace, not you PacifistAg, are really nothing new under the sun.
Hope we all do better. Woe is me.
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"You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst."
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"For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and [d]I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5 I have decided [e]to turn such a person over to Satan for the destruction of his [f]body, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the [g]Lord."
lol right? His explanations in the thread don't make it any better. And this is the elder of a church.Frok said:PacifistAg said:
More misogyny from Wilson's "church". This time, from an elder. Not surprising, given that Wilson sees no issue with calling women the "c-word" if it's to make some point:
That's a bold move cotton.
PacifistAg said:I'm believing the facts. How am I falling short of "believing the best"? The problem is that Wilson covered for a known pedophile. The fact is that Wilson and their church leadership has repeatedly mishandled sexual abuse cases within their church. The fact is that Wilson admits to using grotesquely demeaning and offensive language towards women, and uses the "n-word".Patriot101 said:
Also, consider reading the love chapter in the 13th chapter of 1 Corinthians. "Love believes the best..."
You may just may be guilty of not doing so here.
"Love rejoices in the truth" is found in that passage as well. If the investigation was concluded by the proper authorities, since everyone loves separation of church and state, then shame on Wilson.Red herrings? Enemies of God's grace? Read the next damn verse:Quote:
1 Corinthians 5:1
"It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father's wife."
I guess these red herring arguments used by the enemies of God's Grace, not you PacifistAg, are really nothing new under the sun.
Hope we all do better. Woe is me.Quote:
"You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst."
The pedophile and sex abusers were not removed from the midst at Christ Church. In fact, the "pastor" performed the rites of holy matrimony for the pedophile. And for all your harping about church shouldn't investigate these matters, see what Paul says next:Quote:
"For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and [d]I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5 I have decided [e]to turn such a person over to Satan for the destruction of his [f]body, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the [g]Lord."
Paul wasn't even there, and he has judged him as if he were present, and then decided to turn him over to Satan. He didn't say, "well, that's Caesar's job to deal with it".
Lol do you honestly believe that mattered to Paul? No. You know why? Because Paul knew that as the body of Christ, our citizenship is with the Kingdom of God. Paul didn't need the man's civil authorities to make a moral judgement of grotesque immorality within the church before he would speak on it.Quote:
Okay. But they didn't live in the same system of government.
Not all mistakes are the same. Covering for a pedophile is not the same as refusing to eat with Gentiles. Surely you can see that, right? I'm glad that you will concede that Wilson covered for a known pedophile, but there's no need to try to minimize it by pointing to the lesser mistakes of others (of which they repented). But, baby steps I guess.Patriot101 said:
Ok. Wilson made a mistake.
Peter made a mistake or three or four.
Remember when Paul withstood Peter because he wouldn't eat with Gentiles?
This thing happens.
You are right. I'll just conclude that Wilson is guilty of covering for a known pedophile, even when the authorities were involved, I guess.