Is this some kind of trap question?
You said marriage is meaningless. It clearly isn't. What's your point?
You said marriage is meaningless. It clearly isn't. What's your point?
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I mean sex between a man and a woman that inherently has the potential to create life and turn the man and woman into mom and dad. Nothing else required but now there is a new life and a new obligation for both
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Why is it not legal for you to live with a female without a marriage license overseas? Could two men live together, or two women, without being required to have a marriage license? Why do they look at a male/female couple with different standards than a same-sex couple?
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I mean sex between a man and a woman that inherently has the potential to create life and turn the man and woman into mom and dad. Nothing else required but now there is a new life and a new obligation for both
All of this is true regardless of whether they're married at the time of conception or anytime after. People always think of custody fights being tied to divorce proceedings but we have a parallel system for adjudicating custody issues for unmarried parents that gets just as much, if not more, use than the divorce stuff.
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So your marriage has meaning, and my marriage has meaning, both personally and for public benefits, but it's also "meaningless as it relates to society"?
This doesn't make any sense.
This is the only part of your post that makes any sense whatsoever. It's why even in god-fearing states like Texas we have extensive statutes and case law explicitly defining how these disputes will get sorted out. Essentially you're holding gay/poly/whatever relationships up against an ideal marriage standard that even vanilla M/F relationships can't and never have lived up to.Quote:
The custody battles and what you are talking about would ideally be completely avoided as a result of marriage. Obviously this is not the case, but the hope would be these issues would be drastically fewer to deal with.
This exists now, and has for a long time. The word marriage probably has a slightly different meaning to every person that is married. That meaning can even change over time. I know it has for me.Faithful Ag said:
However, in time marriage will take on so many shapes, sizes, and configurations that the word will have no definitional or societal meaning other than the tax benefits it provides....even the health benefits and power of attorney will have complicated layers as a result.
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Correct. None of that makes any of them "meaningless," no matter how much you want that to be the case.
Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.Quote:
The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
PacifistAg said:Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.Quote:
The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
Faithful Ag said:PacifistAg said:Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.Quote:
The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
So what role should the state have in marriage according to its secular principles. What are those principles?
That's already been covered as to the state involvement in marriage. The point is that not everyone is going to define marriage the same. Faith traditions vary. They may change through time within the same tradition. The same applies to the state. Just because they define it differently, doesn't mean it is meaningless. Different meaning =/= meaningless.Faithful Ag said:PacifistAg said:Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.Quote:
The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
So what role should the state have in marriage according to its secular principles. What are those principles?
eta: this was the sentence prior to your snip..."The relationship still has meaning. The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before. ".
The problem is that this wouldn't be good enough for the seamasters of the world. They want the state to grant them a marriage license, but everyone else a civil union license.dermdoc said:Faithful Ag said:PacifistAg said:Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.Quote:
The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
So what role should the state have in marriage according to its secular principles. What are those principles?
I personally think zero. I think the state should recognize civil unions. Marriage is a religious covenant between a man and woman.
the best 4 goats and a chicken i ever spent.Quad Dog said:
My point was more that the type of marriage you are defining as having meaning has only existed in certain parts of the world for a few thousand years. There has never been a universal definition of what consists of a marriage. If you went back in time a couple thousand years ago and introduced your wife they'd probably assume you bought her from her dad.
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If that's true, why did Leviticus have to prohibit it? You don't have to prohibit something that doesn't exist. Same sex marriage has existed many times in the past, especially in Roman culture.
Fair enough, I guess Leviticus just focuses on sexual acts and not marriage. Even though everyone uses those verses to justify hatred of homosexual marriage. I guess I just associated marriage with the verses too. Either way homosexuals have been having some form of marriage for a very long time.Faithful Ag said:Quad Dog said:
If that's true, why did Leviticus have to prohibit it? You don't have to prohibit something that doesn't exist. Same sex marriage has existed many times in the past, especially in Roman culture.
Can you quote for me where in Leviticus same-sex marriage is prohibited?
Quad Dog said:
Fair enough, I guess Leviticus just focuses on sexual acts and not marriage. Even though everyone uses those verses to justify hatred of homosexual marriage. I guess I just associated marriage with the verses too. Either way homosexuals have been having some form of marriage for a very long time.
I don't think this is true, because I've read before there was marriage between same sex partners in ancient Mesopotamia.Faithful Ag said:
The point I was making in marriage historically is that it has never before been associated or used to describe a same-sex relationship. Marriage was uniquely male and female.
No we don't. Now can you be fired for creating a hostile working environment by violating company policy and purposely misgendering someone? Sure. But it's because it's violating company policy and creating a hostile working environment.Quote:
Now we live in a world where you cannot call someone a he or a she without permission first in case you misidentify their pronoun.