Mass Town expands definition of marriage

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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_same-sex_marriage
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So you are able to find a select few instances or rumors of what might have been same-sex marriage (or at least Nero putting on a show of a marriage to another man), and a few rare or isolated examples that could be counted on one hand from 10,000BC up until the 1970's? Do you consider this a convincing argument to counter the overwhelming historical evidence that marriage was a male/female relationship? These examples are the rare exception and not the societal norms.

Homosexuality was widely practiced in Rome and really throughout all of history. Nobody is denying that fact, but the idea of same-sex marriages was a foreign concept to virtually all civilizations until only the past 40-50 years.
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Do you consider this a convincing argument to counter the overwhelming historical evidence that marriage was a male/female relationship?

Your original comment said "never". Counterexamples were provided. Perhaps you shouldn't talk in such absolutes.
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Faithful Ag said:

So you are able to find a select few instances or rumors of what might have been same-sex marriage (or at least Nero putting on a show of a marriage to another man), and a few rare or isolated examples that could be counted on one hand from 10,000BC up until the 1970's? Do you consider this a convincing argument to counter the overwhelming historical evidence that marriage was a male/female relationship? These examples are the rare exception and not the societal norms.

Homosexuality was widely practiced in Rome and really throughout all of history. Nobody is denying that fact, but the idea of same-sex marriages was a foreign concept to virtually all civilizations until only the past 40-50 years.
That list is not overwhelming in my opinion.
A few hours ago you were stating "Also, marriage until very recently has universally consisted of complimentary sexes." Now you're admitting there are exceptions. That's all I was trying to get across. Marriage has always had many meanings and uses across the world and human history. Changing it again in 2020 isn't really a shocking event.
That's enough throwing opinions back and forth for me today...Have a good one.
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dermdoc said:

Faithful Ag said:

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The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.


So what role should the state have in marriage according to its secular principles. What are those principles?


I personally think zero. I think the state should recognize civil unions. Marriage is a religious covenant between a man and woman.


I fully agree with having the government recognize civil unions and dropping the word 'marriage' . . . . But we are entering into a semantic argument. If there is no difference, legally, between a legal civil union and a legal marriage, then what are we arguing about?
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kurt vonnegut said:

dermdoc said:

Faithful Ag said:

PacifistAg said:


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The word marriage today does not hold the same meaning as it did before.
Not holding the "same meaning" is not remotely the same as being "meaningless". It's just defined differently by the state. Faith traditions can define it in accordance with their faith traditions. Just as the state can define it in accordance with its secular principles, especially given the fact that the state should not be free to discriminate.


So what role should the state have in marriage according to its secular principles. What are those principles?


I personally think zero. I think the state should recognize civil unions. Marriage is a religious covenant between a man and woman.


I fully agree with having the government recognize civil unions and dropping the word 'marriage' . . . . But we are entering into a semantic argument. If there is no difference, legally, between a legal civil union and a legal marriage, then what are we arguing about?

I think there are a lot of people who would be fine calling all non-heterosexual marriages "civil unions", but would insist that heterosexual marriages still be issued marriage licenses. It becomes a semantical "separate but equal". Since they love their slippery slopes, I'll use one here. If they are able to have this separate terminology, eventually they'll call for restrictions on civil unions that wouldn't apply to marriage. Or for benefits for marriage that wouldn't apply to civil unions. If a church-based hospital, for example, had a policy that family only could see a patient, they could claim it only applies to marriage.

Saw this on Twitter yesterday, and thought of this thread.

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craigernaught said:

Did Seamaster ghost his own thread again?
And yes, it appears so. He does this all the time. Isn't that really the definition of a troll?
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There was a time when he'd have 7-8 LGBT threads going at once. You'd think with all the doom and gloom predictions about all the terrible things that would happen once gay people could legally marry there would be more of them today. Thank god for this one town in Massachusetts or he wouldn't have anything to post about at all.
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PacifistAg said:

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Do you consider this a convincing argument to counter the overwhelming historical evidence that marriage was a male/female relationship?

Your original comment said "never". Counterexamples were provided. Perhaps you shouldn't talk in such absolutes.

This is fair. I did speak in absolutes. Lesson learned but I hold that my general point remains.

Sometimes I forget the internet is like a deposition.
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Faithful Ag said:

PacifistAg said:

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Do you consider this a convincing argument to counter the overwhelming historical evidence that marriage was a male/female relationship?

Your original comment said "never". Counterexamples were provided. Perhaps you shouldn't talk in such absolutes.

This is fair. I did speak in absolutes. Lesson learned but I hold that my general point remains.

Sometimes I forget the internet is like a deposition.
I don't think anyone is arguing what the dominant view of what constitutes marriage has been historically. But that definition has also changed throughout time and culture. Here we have two competing views: secular vs traditional Christian view. They can both exist and one does not cheapen the other.
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No worries, it's an inherent flaw of purely written communication. I can't see body language or pick up on sarcasm or exageration. Plus you never know who you'll run into on this board. I've seen Young Earth Creationists, Flat-Earthers, a guy who couldn't imagine a secular funeral, a guy who who said it had never rained before Noah, etc. I wouldn't be surprised to find someone who legitimately thought there were 0 gay marriages before 2015.
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The state has no business defining marriage.

That is all I have to say.
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erudite said:

The state has no business defining marriage.

That is all I have to say.
Agreed. Everyone gets civil unions between as many consenting adults as you want.
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If you know anyone using porn and you have a relationship with them, prayerfully consider reaching out to help them, if you yourself are in a state of grace.

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Trump will not save us, Biden will not save us, laws will not save us, complete voluntary submission to the good and holy is the only hope for our country and mankind in general.

 
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