The OP used the word dated, then a scene from a movie to ask the question "how far we are from this world now?" I take that to mean the OP was stating look how different that time frame was where this kind of scene would be in a movie.
But you could also say something "dates" a movie by unintentionally affixing it firmly within a certain time period. War Games is not a period piece, but the tech involved in that movie drives the plot, and it basically carbon-dates that thing directly in the early 1980s. Clueless is not a period piece either. It was a modern retelling of a timeless classic, but it did so specifically with the fashion and slang that was modern at the time as a focal point. That same "modern" slang and fashion firmly dates that movie in the mid 1990s.
Conversely, Dazed and Confused is not a dated movie to me. Yes, they went back and tried very hard to copy the slang and styles of the mid 1970s, but that movie could have been made at any point because it was not a "modern take" at the time it was made.
Or you could say a movie is outdated because it takes you personally to a date and time in your life, and your memory of the movie doesn't meet up with what you see as an adult. Maybe the kid in you thought the CGI was awesome at the time, but you realize in 2025 it looks ridiculous. I'm looking directly at you, Matrix Reloaded.
Some movies revolve on the use of language or situations that might have been okay as plot points then but wouldn't be made today. Sixteen Candles, Weird Science, Revenge of the Nerds, etc. Hell, a significant portion of Superbad is about about our protagonist trying to get as drunk as his crush so they can have sex without it being inappropriate, and that movie wasn't made in the 80s.
And to the OP, sometimes the stylistic choices make a movie feel dated. Like having an extended, choreographed, and thoroughly unironic roller skating disco dance sequence in the middle of a movie.
Lots of different ways to call a movie dated.