You're really oversimplifying the situation. No one here is "torn" about their opinions of sex offenders, nor is anyone here excusing their behavior. We all obviously think that sh*t is abhorrent. We're simply saying that IF it was long enough ago, IF he is truly remorseful, and IF he has legitimately changed as a person, which it sounds like he MIGHT have done, some of us here are capable of letting the past stay in the past when it comes to interacting with him on the board. Especially if this board in some way helps him continue to stay the course, so to speak. But because we can't know those things for sure, THAT'S where our being "torn" comes in. And because those things are ultimately unknowable, yeah, like I said earlier, it's probably best he just go his own way at this point.