The money thing sucks but they're probably just one family of many taking advantage of who knows how many programs out there. We've all heard the PPP loan horror stories. This would probably bother me on a personal level too but it is what it is - you could probably tell her just to tone this part down if this is the past that is really bothering you.
The main concern I would have is the welfare of the child if she is caring for him in a heavily intoxicated state, especially if she is dropping him and not able to meet even the most basic levels of standard of care. I don't see this as any different as finding out that the mom drinks and beats her kid.
The main concern I would have is the welfare of the child if she is caring for him in a heavily intoxicated state, especially if she is dropping him and not able to meet even the most basic levels of standard of care. I don't see this as any different as finding out that the mom drinks and beats her kid.