You went out on what amounted to a group date and were asked to chip in less than he spent on you on dinner alone. You seem to have a problem with that. It may be unsexy to you, but he's not your boyfriend. Maybe he doesn't have a whole lot of money? Maybe he does, and he's frugal? Why is that any of your concern?

You offered to pay for yourself but now you get the icks that he took you up on the offer and requested less than your actual share? Did you make it clear you wanted no more drinks or did you keep going because the drinks kept coming?

bobcat90 said:

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Just having a conversation about it boo. Most men I've known would have covered it.

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So you like to take advantage of men for food and drink with ur bestie and when they ask you to chip in less than your dinner cost them you get the icks?

I take back my post in the other thread....Maybe ur the sleeze.

I love modern independent women.

They are total boss babes who tag along with their bestie and expect a man who has zero obligation to them to cover their extravagance for the night.

Lol

Just out of curiosity.

Should women be paid the same as a man?

Postits.

bobcat90 said:

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Yep but they aren't so there's that. And you're speaking to a single mom so tread lightly.

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Are you threatening me?

bobcat90 said:

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You wish!

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Lol.

Based on your responses you are fully aware of the amount of delusion that your worldview exhibits and enjoy playing the game because the rules of society give you an upper hand. Fair enough.

Equality but only when it benefits you.

Any guy who falls into that trap should know better and i pity them. Good luck playing the game.

bobcat90 said:

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Yep but they aren't so there's that.

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This has been debunked so many times even feminist Harvard economists couldn't show evidence of it.

I got the Hun!

Not to get too deep into your trauma but i think any woman who wants to be barefoot and pregnant can.

You just have to find the right man. And there are ALOT of men who would give their left nut to have a supportive, submissive wife at home who is happy and content to raise the kids, keep the house running efficiently and make a peaceful home for him.

I can tell you straight up a good man will take care of the woman he is with if she takes care of him in that situation.

Women who want that life and are willing to be submissive and a true housewife are difficult to find.

The only question I would ask is-

Are u willing to be supportive and submissive or do you just want to be able to stay home while retaining ur "independence" and not have to be the kind of submissive wife such a life requires?

Because you don't get it both ways.

If you were willing to be that and ur man ****ed it up then he's a loser.

If you were not willing to be submissive and supportive then u can't expect that kind of life.

bobcat90 said:

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Yeah pretty much. It's unbecoming for a man to ask a woman to chip in.

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Hahahhahahah this is not 1920, Auntie.

It's $50. Who gives a *****

Start your own tab and don't worry about it next time.

bobcat90 said:

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Yeah, he f ed up for sure. But I'm not bitter!
Just was a little taken aback by sending 50 dollars to a well established man in his 40's. Especially when every time my friend and i were out in the past, he'd join us later and buy us drinks anyways. It was just different this time. I immediately Zelle d him. No questions asked. I'm gen X. I think it's different now. I went out with a guy friend of mine a few weeks ago and he paid but the said you got next time and again it kind of shocked me. But I'm happy to I'm just not used to it.

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Sorry sister but you are shamelessly used to taking advantage of men and are shocked when they are not letting it happen. Maybe that explains why you are single too.

Be nice and feminine to a man and he may shell out some change on you. Compete with him with your boss girl nonsense and he will treat you like he treats any other dude.

Is this a troll? Cannot tell.

713nervy said:

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Is this a troll? Cannot tell.

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I'm not sure, but it sure took a strange turn at Albuquerque…….

infinity ag said:

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Compete with him with your boss girl nonsense and he will treat you like he treats any other dude.

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Bingo. That's what equality looks like.

Ill be honest. If a woman is hot I'll pay. If she's not I won't.

bobcat90 said:

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Yep but they aren't so there's that. And you're speaking to a single mom so tread lightly.

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No offense but I've read like 3 of your comments on this thread and I feel certain I know why you're a single mom.

wangus12 said:

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Women who want that life and are willing to be submissive and a true housewife are difficult to find.

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Honestly I don't think they are. I know a ton of women who immediately left work after getting pregnant and are now stay at home moms who run the house.

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A lot of women don't actually enjoy working. But they force themselves just because men work and most women have a little brother complex where they think men have a fun life. So they want in as well. Most women I know hate their jobs and complain all the time. But won't quit because of peer pressure. For some, being a stay at home mom is beneath them and women judge and taunt other women for staying at home all the time. So they don't want to be the one all other women are laughing at.

Women are such complex beings. They don't know what they want and are never happy when they get what they think they want.