How many workplace dalliances occur while out of town?

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Ags4DaWin
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Tanya 93 said:

infinity ag said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

How do you know that she is? None of us know but we are ready to crucify the man.
What he is doing is wrong, no doubt. And he should leave her. But to look at his actions in isolation is being disingenuous.


The person I quoted said she isn't fulfilling her wifely duties by nailing him on the regular.



He is the cheating *******.

Why have sex with someone who ****s a hooker?


I never said this.

I thought u were big on english like even a teacher?

I said I find it hard to believe that a man with a warm bed would step out. Read my post above to see what I think of men who are unfaithful to a warm, willing and accommodating wife.

I never assumed anything.

You went with the typical emotional reaction, read that I was not willing to immediately crucify the man and that there was room for two sides to the story in which the woman may have some accountability for the sad state of her marriage........

And assumed that I was saying the guy was an angel. Sorry....put ur emotions aside and stop putting words in my mouth.
jwoodmd
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Ags4DaWin said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

Fair enough. But reread my post....I did say that if the wife is ready and willing that my scenario did not apply.

If his wife is ready and willing and trying to fulfill her obligations to him in the bedroom.

And he steps out on her.

He is scum.

He is worse than scum. He is the **** that the scum expels.

And that being said....there are very few men who would step out on their wife if the bed was warm and inviting.
You sure have a very simpleton view of why people cheat
Ags4DaWin
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jwoodmd said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

Fair enough. But reread my post....I did say that if the wife is ready and willing that my scenario did not apply.

If his wife is ready and willing and trying to fulfill her obligations to him in the bedroom.

And he steps out on her.

He is scum.

He is worse than scum. He is the **** that the scum expels.

And that being said....there are very few men who would step out on their wife if the bed was warm and inviting.
You sure have a very simpleton view of why people cheat


Maybe I just know better people than you.
Ags4DaWin
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jwoodmd said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.
With every post, you just seem more of a ****** than before.


My opinion of you runs about the same.
Tanya 93
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Ags4DaWin said:

Tanya 93 said:

infinity ag said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

How do you know that she is? None of us know but we are ready to crucify the man.
What he is doing is wrong, no doubt. And he should leave her. But to look at his actions in isolation is being disingenuous.


The person I quoted said she isn't fulfilling her wifely duties by nailing him on the regular.



He is the cheating *******.

Why have sex with someone who ****s a hooker?


I never said this.

I thought u were big on english like even a teacher?

I said I find it hard to believe that a man with a warm bed would step out. Read my post above to see what I think of men who are unfaithful to a warm, willing and accommodating wife.

I never assumed anything.

You went with the typical emotional reaction, read that I was not willing to immediately crucify the man and that there was room for two sides to the story in which the woman may have some accountability for the sad state of her marriage........

And assumed that I was saying the guy was an angel. Sorry....put ur emotions aside and stop putting words in my mouth.


You are unique.


You think Miliana Trump wasn't available?
AggieArchitect04
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Cheating is fundamentally a delusional, indulgent act.

It's exciting and a fantasy and that's why people do it. A breath of fresh air from drudgery of their spouse, family, work, etc. But it's fleeting. Once the infatuation stage passes, the cheater is left with the same issues as before, maybe just with someone new. Excitement weens. Keeping up intimacy with your partner/spouse is a conscious effort.

Everyone is capable of cheating. It boils down to values and making a decision to do the right thing.
713nervy
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AggieArchitect04 said:

Cheating is fundamentally a delusional, indulgent act.

It's exciting and a fantasy and that's why people do it. A breath of fresh air from drudgery of their spouse, family, work, etc. But it's fleeting. Once the infatuation stage passes, the cheater is left with the same issues as before, maybe just with someone new. Excitement weens. Keeping up intimacy with your partner/spouse is a conscious effort.

Everyone is capable of cheating. It boils down to values and making a decision to do the right thing.

Very well said.
Sea Speed
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Ags4DaWin said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

Fair enough. But reread my post....I did say that if the wife is ready and willing that my scenario did not apply.

If his wife is ready and willing and trying to fulfill her obligations to him in the bedroom.

And he steps out on her.

He is scum.

He is worse than scum. He is the **** that the scum expels.

And that being said....there are very few men who would step out on their wife if the bed was warm and inviting.


This thread is on workplace issues. My workplace is a giant floating machine that travels all over the world. If someone married can't abstain when they pull in to port when they have a loving wife at home, then they are pure filth, ESPECIALLY if they shack up with Filipina hookers. Just thinking about getting with one of those girls gives me aids.
ThunderCougarFalconBird
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More STDs than Bond.

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xzvktk
Ags4DaWin
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Sea Speed said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Tanya 93 said:

Ags4DaWin said:

Sea Speed said:

The day I met him he had his wife as his computer background and was bragging about being with her for 10 years. About a month later he went to the Philippines for the first time and got hemmed up with a prostitute. He then began lying to his wife and finding any excuse not to go home. Meanwhile his wife was constantly posting lovey dovey things on Facebook. The dude is pure scum and even if you're unhappy with your wife, go home and be accountable and leave her ass, don't sneak some 2nd life with a hooker.

On that note, Philippines is exploding with women that want a chance at an American meal ticket. You don't need to find a prostitute to find a ready and willing LBFM. The fact that ole boy bar fined a girl daily until he could convince her or the mamasan or whatever to leave is insane and disgusting.

I'm sure your wife would be happy to hear that if she doesn't put out enough you have no problem going to find a 3rd world hooker though. You would probably just need to return to India to scratch that itch.


Yeah....i agree 1,000% once a guy puts a ring on her finger the woman loses all responsibility to take care of her husband...

How dare he refuse to be emotionally blackmailed into remaining faithful to a woman who was unwilling to fulfill his needs!

Now granted, I don't know the entire situation, but this idea that men should remain faithful to their marital commitments of fidelity when the woman refuses to fulfill his sexual needs is a very one sided take. Now maybe she was willing to entertain every single fantasy he expressed an interest in and met him at the door every night wearing seran wrap and he was just looking for some strange.

In my experience that is rarely the case. I can't think of many men, especially married men who would get it on the regular and have a ready and willing wife at home and still step out on her.

I am not advocating engaging in hookers. I am not advocating cheating.

But a man who is willing to fulfill his financial and other obligations to a woman who blatantly disregards HER marital obligations to HIM..... yeah.....that dude is scum.

Just like u said.


How do you know she isn't fulfilling her martial duties?
You just seem to assume the guy is innocent here.

Fair enough. But reread my post....I did say that if the wife is ready and willing that my scenario did not apply.

If his wife is ready and willing and trying to fulfill her obligations to him in the bedroom.

And he steps out on her.

He is scum.

He is worse than scum. He is the **** that the scum expels.

And that being said....there are very few men who would step out on their wife if the bed was warm and inviting.


This thread is on workplace issues. My workplace is a giant floating machine that travels all over the world. If someone married can't abstain when they pull in to port when they have a loving wife at home, then they are pure filth, ESPECIALLY if they shack up with Filipina hookers. Just thinking about getting with one of those girls gives me aids.


Fair enough I suppose.

I did not make the connection on the entire maritime shipping thing. For some reason i read it as a week or two overseas on a long work trip. My fault for not making the connection.

In that case.

Yep.......the worst kind of scum.
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