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Seattle can make anyone snap. In this case it's a snap followed by a "You go girl!"Sea Speed said:
It's his new shtick but I have no idea where it came from. He had said it probably a dozen times. But yes, he has said he is married.
If OP is real: don't bother with counseling. Just interview a family law attorney and get the process started, then quietly thank her for making this happen now instead of her trying to figure her s*it out until your late 30s.
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
In the end I was the one who initiated the divorce and filed and for all I know she's still sorting her crap out while her mom is still in all kinds of denial. That's what you should do, just GTFO and save yourself years of trouble with trying different kinds of counseling that buys months or maybe a year+ of peace at a time before you're back where you started.
Good luck if real, great troll if that's what you were doing here
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
In the end I was the one who initiated the divorce and filed and for all I know she's still sorting her crap out while her mom is still in all kinds of denial. That's what you should do, just GTFO and save yourself years of trouble with trying different kinds of counseling that buys months or maybe a year+ of peace at a time before you're back where you started.
Good luck if real, great troll if that's what you were doing here
Don't assume - it might be Arby'sMilwaukees Best Light said:
When we say 'too young' on an engagement thread, you kids think we are joking. You don't know your elbow from your ******* when you are 23. Now you want us to be surprised she is trading in the sausage for the taco?
Score the threesome, find your pants and walk away. Try again with someone different when you hit 35.
99% probability she is banging someone else. I wouldn't guarantee it's another chick though. She could be just trying to throw you off her scent and/or make divorce seem more inevitable.
Most likely the person she met works with her. Does she spend extra time at the office/her job? Is there an opportunity for her to be banging someone on the side there and/or when she gets off work?
Most likely the person she met works with her. Does she spend extra time at the office/her job? Is there an opportunity for her to be banging someone on the side there and/or when she gets off work?
I think your wife already has a hungry sausage on the side and is saying "woman" just to make it seem more palatable.
She's been banging this guy for a good amount of time.
She's been banging this guy for a good amount of time.
The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
murphyag said:TheDraw said:
Wife has decided that she wants to date females only and is done with men. I know this has redflags everywhere. She was 18 when we met at a party i hosted. Been together 5 years, Last night she broke the news to me but I do not want her to leave. Brought up the idea of consueling and she absolutely doesnt want to do that. She feels that she doesnt need a third party judging her. Her family loves me and are very right wing like myself. Any advice that would help me save the marriage or is this one done?
Three way is the only answer.
Hitchhikers Guide said 42, but that seems excessive and icky.
When y'all have the break up sex make sure to put it in her butt!
If I did the math right, OP has the potential to be at least 31 when he met the 18 year old at a party.
Carlo4 said:
If I did the math right, OP has the potential to be at least 31 when he met the 18 year old at a party.
31/2+7 =/= 18
I'll throw out an actual answer instead of a smart ass one, she definitely did because I have a couple of kids who look an awful lot like me to show for it. She didn't want to like women but she was also more religious back then. She never commented on the third one so who knows. She's had zero dating life since I told her it was over so the whole sex with women thing on her end is probably still a hypothetical.infinity ag said:The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
The Fife said:I'll throw out an actual answer instead of a smart ass one, she definitely did because I have a couple of kids who look an awful lot like me to show for it. She didn't want to like women but she was also more religious back then. She never commented on the third one so who knows. She's had zero dating life since I told her it was over so the whole sex with women thing on her end is probably still a hypothetical.infinity ag said:The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
Thanks, my question was a serious one too.
I always wondered how people marry like straight people, have sex, have kids and then suddenly realize that they are gay. And does that mean that when they were having sex, they felt like a straight person was having gay sex?Not sure how that works.
They didn't realize suddenly. They always knew.
It's all in the mind. When you masturbate you are having sex with yourself - are you gay (same sex), asexual, etc.? One is obviously fantasizing at the time so they are likely doing the same in the bedroom.infinity ag said:The Fife said:I'll throw out an actual answer instead of a smart ass one, she definitely did because I have a couple of kids who look an awful lot like me to show for it. She didn't want to like women but she was also more religious back then. She never commented on the third one so who knows. She's had zero dating life since I told her it was over so the whole sex with women thing on her end is probably still a hypothetical.infinity ag said:The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
Thanks, my question was a serious one too.
I always wondered how people marry like straight people, have sex, have kids and then suddenly realize that they are gay. And does that mean that when they were having sex, they felt like a straight person was having gay sex?Not sure how that works.
send me a PM if interested in how that worksinfinity ag said:The Fife said:I'll throw out an actual answer instead of a smart ass one, she definitely did because I have a couple of kids who look an awful lot like me to show for it. She didn't want to like women but she was also more religious back then. She never commented on the third one so who knows. She's had zero dating life since I told her it was over so the whole sex with women thing on her end is probably still a hypothetical.infinity ag said:The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
Thanks, my question was a serious one too.
I always wondered how people marry like straight people, have sex, have kids and then suddenly realize that they are gay. And does that mean that when they were having sex, they felt like a straight person was having gay sex?Not sure how that works.
/huge exaggerated wink
Sea Speed said:
It's his new shtick but I have no idea where it came from. He had said it probably a dozen times. But yes, he has said he is married.
The gay schtick, and the:
"Ban whatever.
Everywhere"
TMI but it was bad enough so that her coming clean about it was no surprise at all.infinity ag said:The Fife said:
I'll throw out an actual answer instead of a smart ass one, she definitely did because I have a couple of kids who look an awful lot like me to show for it. She didn't want to like women but she was also more religious back then. She never commented on the third one so who knows. She's had zero dating life since I told her it was over so the whole sex with women thing on her end is probably still a hypothetical.
Thanks, my question was a serious one too.
I always wondered how people marry like straight people, have sex, have kids and then suddenly realize that they are gay. And does that mean that when they were having sex, they felt like a straight person was having gay sex?Not sure how that works.
infinity ag said:
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
A gay woman having sex with a man or a gay man having sex with a woman can likely still enjoy it quite a bit though the emotional/attraction part may be lacking. A straight man wouldn't enjoy sex with a gay man as it's quite repulsive regardless of how much it's shoved down our throats (pun intended).
infinity ag said:The Fife said:
FWIW her parents are probably a big part of why this is happening now instead of years ago. As I found out later, Ex-Mrs Fife was under a ton of pressure from her mom to be straight before we met. She was overbearing and controlling, and the ex was still involved with a lot of church stuff before and while we were married. Probably under pressure to pray the gay away or keep it closeted deep down as far as possible so that's what she did.
So your ex wife was gay.
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
Sexual attraction is more fluid than is commonly understood, more so for women than men.
The fluid comes after.
Or sometimes not at all!! [/Austin Powers]
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Potcake said:
Whoa, whoa, watching Below Deck on Bravo is not gay.
For real.
Yes…yes it is.
maroon barchetta said:
Or sometimes not at all!! [/Austin Powers]
What are you, like 23-26?
If no kids...breathe a sigh of relief....protect some financial assets...and move on down the road.
You probably should hit the gym, eat healthier, go get some better clothes, and rethink you hair style.
Go enjoy yourself. You are a kid.
And if a troll...good work.
If no kids...breathe a sigh of relief....protect some financial assets...and move on down the road.
You probably should hit the gym, eat healthier, go get some better clothes, and rethink you hair style.
Go enjoy yourself. You are a kid.
And if a troll...good work.
Has this not gotten the "Rule #1" request yet?
A straight man could enjoy sex (the physical sensations) with a gay man if the gay man is the bottom. I don't think a ***** can differentiate between male butt and female butt and plenty of straight guys like butt stuff with their partners. Anatomical enjoyment is pretty separate from actual enjoyment though.FIDO*98* said:infinity ag said:
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
A gay woman having sex with a man or a gay man having sex with a woman can likely still enjoy it quite a bit though the emotional/attraction part may be lacking. A straight man wouldn't enjoy sex with a gay man as it's quite repulsive regardless of how much it's shoved down our throats (pun intended).
GarlandAg2012 said:A straight man could enjoy sex (the physical sensations) with a gay man if the gay man is the bottom. I don't think a ***** can differentiate between male butt and female butt and plenty of straight guys like butt stuff with their partners. Anatomical enjoyment is pretty separate from actual enjoyment though.FIDO*98* said:infinity ag said:
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
A gay woman having sex with a man or a gay man having sex with a woman can likely still enjoy it quite a bit though the emotional/attraction part may be lacking. A straight man wouldn't enjoy sex with a gay man as it's quite repulsive regardless of how much it's shoved down our throats (pun intended).
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot
Two and a half men. You're Allen Harper. Just get a dog if you don't have a kid. It'll still work out the same.
Found the guy whose wife has a hairy ass.
This thread is devolving.
Without a doubt, that's the most ****ed up thing I've read on this site.GarlandAg2012 said:A straight man could enjoy sex (the physical sensations) with a gay man if the gay man is the bottom. I don't think a ***** can differentiate between male butt and female butt and plenty of straight guys like butt stuff with their partners. Anatomical enjoyment is pretty separate from actual enjoyment though.FIDO*98* said:infinity ag said:
Did she have sex with you at all? How does a gay person feel when they have sex with the opposite gender? Do they feel the same if a straight person is forced to have sex with his/her own gender?
A gay woman having sex with a man or a gay man having sex with a woman can likely still enjoy it quite a bit though the emotional/attraction part may be lacking. A straight man wouldn't enjoy sex with a gay man as it's quite repulsive regardless of how much it's shoved down our throats (pun intended).
Or he's Tajik…Sea Speed said:
Found the guy whose wife has a hairy ass.
Gust Avrokatos: "Well, they say when a Tajik wants to make love to a woman, his first choice is always a Pashtun man."
Like most of have said, cut bait.
If I were your friend, I'd help you move out today. You just need to seriously leave. You didn't mention kids, so yea perfect get the **** out of there and never come back. She has been lying to you, cheating or both. That won't change.
If I were your friend, I'd help you move out today. You just need to seriously leave. You didn't mention kids, so yea perfect get the **** out of there and never come back. She has been lying to you, cheating or both. That won't change.
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