Divorce Question

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GrayMatter
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2:53p, 4/11/23
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You've got to ask yourself one question: how in the world did she come to a conclusion that she wants to date women while still being married?

Tear off the band-aid and move on.

Change the locks, get ur financial **** together and then look for a divorce lawyer asap. (I'm sure there's a sequential order in there somewhere)
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2:54p, 4/11/23
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I would also encourage you to go onto the website surviving infidelity, check out the forums section as well as the healing library. You will find sections devoted to exactly what you are going through. These people have how to navigate this to a science
Also seems like an awesome place for some rebound/revenge hookups.
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The Porkchop Express
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3:01p, 4/11/23
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A quick glance at the OP's topic started history lets us see that this is either fake or that he's been missing the writing on the wall for a considerable amount of time.

To wit:

August 8, 2013: "Last night drinks with friends turned weird": TLDR: He was hitting it off with a girl at the bar, went to take a piss, came back to find one of his female friends making out with the girl. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

February 12, 2015: "Going on a date with a sure thing." TLDR: He has a date with a divorced sloot, she wants the D, he's not sure where to take her on a date.

December 12, 2016: "I smell T.R.O.U.B.L.E.": TLDR. He's in a relationship with someone who has a lot in common with him. Doesn't know what to do. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

March 8, 2018: "Dating Question." TLDR: He wants to know if it's weird to date someone who is dating someone else. Jeez man, cmon.

January 3, 2019: "Polyamorous Couples": TLDR, He wants to know if anyone identifies at polyamorous and if so, how did they bring it up to their partner. Posters are not very nice, but very funny.

March 21, 2019: "Married Folks": TLDR, asks people about prenups.

May 6, 2019: "Over a year into dating": He brags about having sex 3 times a week.











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Ervin Burrell
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3:19p, 4/11/23
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Send her to a pray the gay away camp...those have a spotless track record.
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3:32p, 4/11/23
Did you used to post as Commander99? That dude turned three or four chicks into lesbians. Has to be a hit to the ego.
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In reply to The Porkchop Express • 3:34p, 4/11/23
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The Porkchop Express said:
A quick glance at the OP's topic started history lets us see that this is either fake or that he's been missing the writing on the wall for a considerable amount of time.

To wit:

August 8, 2013: "Last night drinks with friends turned weird": TLDR: He was hitting it off with a girl at the bar, went to take a piss, came back to find one of his female friends making out with the girl. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

February 12, 2015: "Going on a date with a sure thing." TLDR: He has a date with a divorced sloot, she wants the D, he's not sure where to take her on a date.

December 12, 2016: "I smell T.R.O.U.B.L.E.": TLDR. He's in a relationship with someone who has a lot in common with him. Doesn't know what to do. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

March 8, 2018: "Dating Question." TLDR: He wants to know if it's weird to date someone who is dating someone else. Jeez man, cmon.

January 3, 2019: "Polyamorous Couples": TLDR, He wants to know if anyone identifies at polyamorous and if so, how did they bring it up to their partner. Posters are not very nice, but very funny.

March 21, 2019: "Married Folks": TLDR, asks people about prenups.

May 6, 2019: "Over a year into dating": He brags about having sex 3 times a week.











Why is it that I bet this is Pirate's sock...
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In reply to MAS444 • 3:41p, 4/11/23
MAS444 said:
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I would also encourage you to go onto the website surviving infidelity, check out the forums section as well as the healing library. You will find sections devoted to exactly what you are going through. These people have how to navigate this to a science
Also seems like an awesome place for some rebound/revenge hookups.


That is discussed on the website under the Madhatters forum
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In reply to The Porkchop Express • 3:45p, 4/11/23
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The Porkchop Express said:


May 6, 2019: "Over a year into dating": He brags about having sex 3 times a week.
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3:52p, 4/11/23
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Wow you must be really bad at the sex.
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In reply to Beer Baron • 3:54p, 4/11/23
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Wow you must be really bad at the sex.

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4:12p, 4/11/23
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Know going in that if the divorce is contested at all, or if there is any sort of custody battle, legal fees will add up quickly and the lawyers on both sides will be content to let things drag on forever to run up fees. As a general rule, there are few things in life that are bigger leeches than family law attorneys.
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In reply to murphyag • 4:43p, 4/11/23
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TheDraw said:
Wife has decided that she wants to date females only and is done with men. I know this has redflags everywhere. She was 18 when we met at a party i hosted. Been together 5 years, Last night she broke the news to me but I do not want her to leave. Brought up the idea of consueling and she absolutely doesnt want to do that. She feels that she doesnt need a third party judging her. Her family loves me and are very right wing like myself. Any advice that would help me save the marriage or is this one done?



Three way is the only answer.

Is this your sneaky way of asking if you could watch?
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In reply to TheDraw • 4:44p, 4/11/23
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TheDraw said:
Wife has decided that she wants to date females only and is done with men. I know this has redflags everywhere. She was 18 when we met at a party i hosted. Been together 5 years, Last night she broke the news to me but I do not want her to leave. Brought up the idea of consueling and she absolutely doesnt want to do that. She feels that she doesnt need a third party judging her. Her family loves me and are very right wing like myself. Any advice that would help me save the marriage or is this one done?



OP, sorry this is happening. Because I think it's relevant, y'all are poly and she was dating other men and women, right? Have you been dating?

Seems like this would color the situation.
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In reply to Booma94 • 4:52p, 4/11/23
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Booma94 said:
Know going in that if the divorce is contested at all, or if there is any sort of custody battle, legal fees will add up quickly and the lawyers on both sides will be content to let things drag on forever to run up fees. As a general rule, there are few things in life that are bigger leeches than family law attorneys.
As a general rule, people going through divorces become batsht crazy and force their lawyers to do a lot of dumb sht that run up legal fees on the other side.
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In reply to The Wonderer • 5:03p, 4/11/23
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As a general rule, people going through divorces become batsht crazy and force their lawyers to do a lot of dumb sht that run up legal fees on the other side.

This is exactly what happens. "We can't be adults and agree which elementary to send Breighdynn to (both of which are fine) - let's spend thousands to have a judge pick.".

"I want to go for full custody even though there's no evidence of abuse or anything to even remotely justify it other than my hatred for my ex."

"We don't have kids and our divorce should be simple, but I won't cooperate with selling the house and would rather eat up all our equity in legal fees."

"I don't like that Texas is a community property state so my ex is entitled to half of 'my' sht even though it's legally half theirs - let's just spend it on lawyers instead!"
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5:21p, 4/11/23
When trolls leave us hangin'…
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6:12p, 4/11/23
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In reply to The Wonderer • 6:18p, 4/11/23
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The Wonderer said:
Booma94 said:
Know going in that if the divorce is contested at all, or if there is any sort of custody battle, legal fees will add up quickly and the lawyers on both sides will be content to let things drag on forever to run up fees. As a general rule, there are few things in life that are bigger leeches than family law attorneys.
As a general rule, people going through divorces become batsht crazy and force their lawyers to do a lot of dumb sht that run up legal fees on the other side.


True. And it only takes one crazy party of the two to drag things out and run up bills for both sides. No matter how reasonable one side is, if the other side is BSC your choices are to give in completely or fight. Family law sucks. .
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7:04p, 4/11/23
Do NOT listen to the people saying to hang in there.

She has said that she likes women.

What she REALLY means is that she does not want you. She might like women. She might just be using it as an excuse to get a divorce. I have heard crazier stories. Listen as she is telling you this. She is not lying or confused in the way you think. She KNOWS that she does not want you. Listen. GTFO.

Do. Not. Look. Back.

She does not want you. She thinks she can do better? Tell her good luck.

The best thing you could do is work on you. Kill it professionally, start working out if u don't already and start bagging other women.

And be glad you found this out before kids.
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I like Beer Baron as my gay poster of choice. Sorry.
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In reply to [removed post] • 7:18p, 4/11/23
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Not even a distant third behind BeerBaron, RyantheTemp, and anybody else.
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Not even a distant third behind BeerBaron, RyantheTemp, and anybody else.


BluAg is in the Top Three

Didn't know about C@LAg until just now. Or maybe I knew and didn't remember.
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In reply to The Porkchop Express • 7:40p, 4/11/23
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The Porkchop Express said:
A quick glance at the OP's topic started history lets us see that this is either fake or that he's been missing the writing on the wall for a considerable amount of time.

To wit:

August 8, 2013: "Last night drinks with friends turned weird": TLDR: He was hitting it off with a girl at the bar, went to take a piss, came back to find one of his female friends making out with the girl. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

February 12, 2015: "Going on a date with a sure thing." TLDR: He has a date with a divorced sloot, she wants the D, he's not sure where to take her on a date.

December 12, 2016: "I smell T.R.O.U.B.L.E.": TLDR. He's in a relationship with someone who has a lot in common with him. Doesn't know what to do. Threesome jokes made by multiple posters.

March 8, 2018: "Dating Question." TLDR: He wants to know if it's weird to date someone who is dating someone else. Jeez man, cmon.

January 3, 2019: "Polyamorous Couples": TLDR, He wants to know if anyone identifies at polyamorous and if so, how did they bring it up to their partner. Posters are not very nice, but very funny.

March 21, 2019: "Married Folks": TLDR, asks people about prenups.

May 6, 2019: "Over a year into dating": He brags about having sex 3 times a week.













OP, TheDraw, is laughing at this thread right now.
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In reply to maroon barchetta • 8:23p, 4/11/23
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maroon barchetta said:
normaleagle05 said:
Not even a distant third behind BeerBaron, RyantheTemp, and anybody else.


BluAg is in the Top Three

Didn't know about C@LAg until just now. Or maybe I knew and didn't remember.

BluAg
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8:49p, 4/11/23
But, does she have big cans ?
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In reply to [removed post] • 9:02p, 4/11/23
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C@LAg said:
Dr.Rumack said:
When trolls leave us hangin'…
agreed.

OP,

As Texags pre-eminent and top gay poster, if you need tips and pointers in how to go gay to get back at her, let me know.

I can provide you with a copy of the "so you decided to be gay to get back at your lesbian ex" starter kit.


Never heard of you until now but I like your posting style. Share any dick pics you get please.
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In reply to Beer Baron • 9:19p, 4/11/23
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Beer Baron said:
C@LAg said:
Dr.Rumack said:
When trolls leave us hangin'…
agreed.

OP,

As Texags pre-eminent and top gay poster, if you need tips and pointers in how to go gay to get back at her, let me know.

I can provide you with a copy of the "so you decided to be gay to get back at your lesbian ex" starter kit.


Never heard of you until now but I like your posting style. Share any dick pics you get please.


I'm honestly confused. Didn't C@L have a wife. Was she a beard? Did something turn him gay like watching the Bravo network of listening to Taylor Swift?
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In reply to Milwaukees Best Light • 9:21p, 4/11/23
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Milwaukees Best Light said:
When we say 'too young' on an engagement thread, you kids think we are joking. You don't know your elbow from your ******* when you are 23. Now you want us to be surprised she is trading in the sausage for the taco?

Score the threesome, find your pants and walk away. Try again with someone different when you hit 35.


But make sure you're 35, not her.
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In reply to TheDraw • 9:24p, 4/11/23
Any kids? If not, cut your losses.

If yes, ask her to stay living there as a roommate?
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In reply to Ol_Ag_02 • 9:27p, 4/11/23
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It's his new shtick but I have no idea where it came from. He had said it probably a dozen times. But yes, he has said he is married.
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Whoa, whoa, watching Below Deck on Bravo is not gay.
For real.
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10:57p, 4/11/23
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Why are people pretending to be gay on this thread?
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