histag10 said:

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The way he asked about the kid free part makes me think she didnt post the whole conversation. Sounds like she said hes the only one kid free for three weeks straight (oil field rotation maybe?),but hes pointing out that her days off have mostly been kid free, and she could have started laundry at some point.

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She is a nurse who works long days. She has not been sitting at home kid free for 3 weeks.

Tatem said:

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i hate the amount of laundry I do on a weekly basis. Wish they would bring back wash n folds!

if my SO ever talked to me like that, i def wouldn't be doing his laundry any more

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They just opened a brand new one in CS.

It's page 2 and still no cans. WTF

cr0wbar said:

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I always hear kids are 'the best thing to ever happen to my life'

but always see people with kids posting and complaining.

no thanks

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He's not wrong, ya know.

BenFiasco14 said:

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It's page 2 and still no cans. WTF

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I know right? SHOW DEM PEPPERONIS!

One is a whiner; the other a jerk. Unless something changes, there is going to be some serious spousal abuse, or a divorce, or both.

I can broadcast through my Google Home device?

I'm still confused about how an off day can be kid free if we are talking about a baby.

When I had a baby in daycare we never took the baby to daycare if either parent was off. I don't understand why you would do that unless we are talking about someone doing shift work and getting home in the morning needing to sleep and taking the baby to daycare during that time.

The better question is why share that convo at all? Nothing like pooping on your spouse for all to see.

Also, if she's a nurse how does she not know what she has is called "the flu". And it lasts a couple weeks.

I think the general problem with this whole situation is the SO (not husband) - calling her over the google home and telling her to do housework.

This is NOT okay. Maybe if you sit on your ass every day and do not do anything around the house.

The google home would be on fire in the driveway when he pulled up from work. Or dumped in the pool.

ClickClack said:

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The better question is why share that convo at all? Nothing like pooping on your spouse for all to see.

Also, if she's a nurse how does she not know what she has is called "the flu". And it lasts a couple weeks.

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What kind of flu are you getting that lasts a couple weeks?

hypeiv said:

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I feel like we are only getting one side of the story but if not it's obvious who is in the wrong

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She clearly deleted some of her texts to make him seem like the bad guy. Or else the 3 week thing makes no sense. She wants her friends to **** on her husband and take her side in a routine marital argument.

Also, why is everyone assuming he is even at home? You can broadcast to your google home from work or anywhere outside the home. And since it's dependent on weather, they need to do laundry while they can.

****ty way to ask her to do it, but this isn't one sided.

histag10 said:

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ClickClack said:

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The better question is why share that convo at all? Nothing like pooping on your spouse for all to see.

Also, if she's a nurse how does she not know what she has is called "the flu". And it lasts a couple weeks.

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What kind of flu are you getting that lasts a couple weeks?

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It hits you harder when you are HIV positive. Just a guess.

Buck Compton said:

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hypeiv said:

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I feel like we are only getting one side of the story but if not it's obvious who is in the wrong

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She clearly deleted some of her texts to make him seem like the bad guy. Or else the 3 week thing makes no sense. She wants her friends to **** on her husband and take her side in a routine marital argument.

Also, why is everyone assuming he is even at home? You can broadcast to your google home from work or anywhere outside the home. And since it's dependent on weather, they need to do laundry while they can.

****ty way to ask her to do it, but this isn't one sided.

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No one is assuming he is at home - he is at work broadcasting

histag10 said:

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ClickClack said:

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The better question is why share that convo at all? Nothing like pooping on your spouse for all to see.

Also, if she's a nurse how does she not know what she has is called "the flu". And it lasts a couple weeks.

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What kind of flu are you getting that lasts a couple weeks?

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Actual influenza (not like when a hispanic person gets a cold and calls it the flu) takes about 10-14 days to get back to 100%.

JMac03 said:

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Buck Compton said:

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hypeiv said:

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I feel like we are only getting one side of the story but if not it's obvious who is in the wrong

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She clearly deleted some of her texts to make him seem like the bad guy. Or else the 3 week thing makes no sense. She wants her friends to **** on her husband and take her side in a routine marital argument.

Also, why is everyone assuming he is even at home? You can broadcast to your google home from work or anywhere outside the home. And since it's dependent on weather, they need to do laundry while they can.

****ty way to ask her to do it, but this isn't one sided.

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No one is assuming he is at home - he is at work broadcasting

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Hmm. Well then that's a pretty valid reason he can't do it himself.....

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Talon2DSO said:

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Why doesnt the SO start the laundry himself?

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THIS is everyone's argument. He woke up her using the damn Google Home - to tell a sick woman to do laundry.

I would NEVER do his laundry again.

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Either way, ****ty tactics on his part but she deleted some of her texts out of that string.

Dude sounds like an *******.

What kind of husband worries about laundry when his wife who just had a baby is home sick??

The SO needs the laundry done because he was going out that night to get poon from his side chick

There have been a couple instances where I really needed to get ahold of my wife and her phone was on silent. After calling 10 times, I logged into the Find My iPhone app using her Apple ID and set off the lost phone alarm so she would pick up her damn phone and see that I called.

ClickClack said:

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histag10 said:

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ClickClack said:

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The better question is why share that convo at all? Nothing like pooping on your spouse for all to see.

Also, if she's a nurse how does she not know what she has is called "the flu". And it lasts a couple weeks.

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What kind of flu are you getting that lasts a couple weeks?

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Actual influenza (not like when a hispanic person gets a cold and calls it the flu) takes about 10-14 days to get back to 100%.

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My husband and son both tested positive for flu B. Son is out of school for a week, husbands doc said out of work for 3 days (had already been sick 2 days, so 5 total).

I've rarely heard of anyone with the flu for a solid 2 weeks. Maybe someone who is immunocompromised?0

seems like an odd stance to go all-in on 1 week vs 2.

Husband seems like a spoiled brat that grew up in highland park that has zero awareness or appreciation for women and moms. The type of guy that has never done laundry and when out of clean clothes just buys more on family credit card.

Ags4DaWin said:

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typical early marriage stuff.

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thats why you shouldn't have kids so early in the marriage!

Sounds like they're on a schedule of some sort and the husband is trying to keep the schedule no matter what. I can see how this can be misconstrued as "he doesn't care" so she needs to communicate what she wants.

Kanyes psychiatrist said:

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Husband seems like a spoiled brat that grew up in highland park that has zero awareness or appreciation for women and moms. The type of guy that has never done laundry and when out of clean clothes just buys more on family credit card.

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Anyone seen skrangeo lately?

mrad85 said:

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Does she have big cans?

Oh wait, she's nursing. She's got those big nursing cans.

Pics might add some perspective to her plight.

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Duh... She's NURSING!

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Jack Cheese said:

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Why do you refer to the person as "SO"? Are they married or not?

If not, well there's your answer. People who refuse to marry but still purposely have children are selfish, full stop.

"I'll knock you up because we view the child as a desirable possession sort of like a pet, but I'm not making a lifelong commitment to you because I want to keep my options open" is not an enlightened worldview. It's an inevitable breakup, and a single parent household, and a short-changed child.

Predictable response to my comments: "BUT I KNOW LOTS OF SELFISH MARRIED PEOPLE YOU IDIOT LOLOLOL". I'm not saying that wedding vows are sufficient, but they are necessary - along with a mature couple who understands what those vows entail.

Fire away. I know that runs counter to the current enlightened conventional wisdom.

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People live in a different manner than me and therefore they are wrong...

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check this out and tell me how either of them are wrong



it has little to do with morality and everything to do with what the commitment of marriage forces you to face as a person.

Sounds like OP should read Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud.