Had to pay for our own wedding. The first account my wife and I set up together was to make monthly payments to the flower shop that provided our wedding flowers and arrangements. They actually worked w us. Took about 5 months to pay off. Needless to say a pre nup for assets was the last thing on our mind. 44 years now.
We had an informal prenup: don't get a divorce. It's been working really well for us. We'll be married 30 years this next February. Of course, when we got married and either of us had ***** We are earned everything together.