Hunter, here is the letter I wrote:
Amy Lennen #WA0491
CIW, 143 UP-RC
16756 Chino-Corona Rd.
Corona, CA. 92880-9508
December 19, 2011,
Amy,
In an effort to be completely honest, I have to tell you that I’m dating someone, am going to stay with her, and just thought it’d be cool to write an inmate after having seen a reference to you on a sports website.
Clearly you could have gotten any number of men to support you, didn’t need to steal or buy drugs yourself, and could have either earned your own living or found someone to earn a living for you, so I’ve got to know, what the hell did you do?
I’m amazed that someone who clearly had everything going for them could fall so far as to end up in prison. Surely you’ve figured out that you had it going on the outside and won’t make that mistake again.
A word of advice: You aren’t going to find anyone worth a *****on an inmate pen-pal site. I know you know this. Just get out, get in the dating scene, and let your natural assets find you someone. Anyone you find from a deal like this is going to be too spare to find a woman in the real world, and that’s not someone you’ll want for long.
Now that I think about it, find someone on this deal, some nerd with money who can’t find a woman, and stay with him until you get on your feet and find someone on the outside after you’ve used the nerd to establish yourself back in the real world.
Best of luck to you! Write me back and let me know what happened. I’d be happy to write back after I hear from you.
Hang in there,
Bob