Can we have a legitimate discussion here

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Sea Pony 07
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I think, if you meet the right person, you're willing to work with their baggage.
Jill
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What AMA said...
flipper
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Seven Costanza
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People with baggage still find other people with baggage.

ag2006gie would probably agree that she has some baggage.

MkF said that you aren't going to find a perfect guy online. I'm just saying you're not going to find a perfect guy online or in the real world.
chicken of the sea
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i saw your mom's baggage last night.
xhippieliberalx
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if you've ever been in a relationship, and broken up, you have baggage

if you've ever been through the loss of a loved one, you have baggage

if you've ever had children, you have baggage

if you've ever had an illness, you have baggage

etc...
flipper
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Being single doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. Which is seemingly how you are using the word "baggage"
tiny94
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I prefer luggage. A nice louie bag will suck me in every time.
Verne Lundquist
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i think that I will probably never get married cause I suck
MonkeyKnifeFighter
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Verne Lundquist
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i think that I will probably never get married cause I suck
tske87
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I'm the perfect guy. As long as you choose to overlook the long and extensive list of my faults.
tiny94
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hippie - if you are serious... i don't agree at all.
xhippieliberalx
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tiny, anything that you end up having emotional investment in leaves you with baggage. i'm not saying its BAD baggage, but its baggage/issues/outlooks. if it doesn't leave SOME kind of mark, it wasn't the emotional investment you thought it was
Seven Costanza
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Being single doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.



no s**t.
xhippieliberalx
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and my main point was that everyone has baggage. its all about how we handle it, and how much we're willing to deal with
Seven Costanza
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if you've ever been in a relationship, and broken up, you have baggage

if you've ever been through the loss of a loved one, you have baggage

if you've ever had children, you have baggage

if you've ever had an illness, you have baggage



This is insane.
xhippieliberalx
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no its not

anything that leaves some kind of emotional mark on you could be considered baggage
tiny94
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Those things don't have to leave a negative mark on your life and how you feel about things. I don't agree at all that those things are baggage.
flipper
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Your posts do seem to imply that there is.

edit: for Steven Costanza.

[This message has been edited by Ellie (edited 2/4/2008 12:06a).]
chicken of the sea
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most baggage comes from baby momma drama
xhippieliberalx
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Those things don't have to leave a negative mark on your life and how you feel about things.

didn't say they did. doesn't mean it won't be considered baggage to some.
Sea Pony 07
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Children are definitely baggage - or should be. They should be important enough to you (if they're yours) that you don't want to date someone they don't like or can't stand. And the person you date should realize that sometimes the children have to take priority.
chicken of the sea
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smack the kids around a few times they will start liking the SO real fast
Sea Pony 07
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Or they build a deep resentment towards the parent and spend years in therapy while contemplating murder.
tiny94
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Oh geez. This is why i don't ever have serious conversations on the GB!!!
xhippieliberalx
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why? because we don't agree?
tiny94
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No, it has nothing to do with your posts.
sharpdressedman
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Some careers are heavily baggage-laden.
MonkeyKnifeFighter
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SX-EW
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If a person is single and 25 or older, then the odds are that they have some kind of significant baggage. I'm not saying that's how it should be, but it's the way our society works.


I'd say, the odds are that you've never lived outside the South or even Texas.
tiny94
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Beyond mine maturity level as well.



tiny94
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Seven Costanza
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Exactly, SX! It's more of a criticism of our society than anything else.

[This message has been edited by Seven Costanza (edited 2/4/2008 12:15a).]
65532ag
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This thread is so ****ing ridiculous.
 
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