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I want to be clear about a few things. First, this was not a playing time issue. I have said I would have benched him as well. RC had to do what was best for this team and the freshman pitcher was struggling and needed to be replaced. Tyler 's issue with RC is that he stopped communication with him, stopped throwing pens and Tyler felt abandoned. This according to Tyler was the only reason he made the decision to move on.
Secondly, this was not intended to take shots at RC. I have no issue personally with RC. I have another son and would send him to A&M in a heartbeat. Texas A&M stands on its own regardless of who the coach is. Tyler even said that he has no issue with RC and thinks he is a fine man BUT he felt that communication style would not change therefore that was a deal breaker for him. Many of you have left organizations because of management not the company or the job. In college baseball it is a tight window to be successful and risks have to be taken. The sure thing boat does not get far from the shore.
Thirdly, another poster in the premium forum took some shots at Tyler. He characterized him as a modern day Nuke LaLoosh. LOL, that is about right. Actually his nickname was Nuke. The issue I have with him is he is from Heath and thinks he knows stuff. He said Tyler has a million dollar arm and a .10C head. Of course referencing the great Bull Durham. I guarantee you Tyler is very sharp. His grades and SAT will tell you that. He is a goof ball off the field, no doubt, maybe immature for some folks. I agree he has growing up to do BUT on the field he gets it done. He got it done at Heath for 4 years and here at A&M he would have been really good. Tyler works very hard on his body and training. So Mr. Rockwallheathaggie, I say call the coaches at Heath again and see if they really believe that. I do own the fact he is a knucklehead away from the baseball field, he will be fine as he gets older, no doubt.
Lastly, this is not an entitlement issue. Tyler's family and all involved wanted him back at Texas A&M. I will bet one day he will look back and have some regrets but we shall see. The exit interview with the staff went well and I feel he is leaving on a good note with staff. They complimented him on his freshman year, thanked him for being a good teammate and wanted him back. Tyler suffered the pain of that SR loss like the rest of his teammates and was 100% about the team. That is who he is. He is a knucklehead for sure but he is also a great teammate.
We are quick to criticize helicopter parents for being too involved these days. You are obviously letting your son stand on his own two feet and live with the consequences of his actions. Hard to do now, but I bet it will benefit him later. I applaud you!