Divining Rod said:
Wally- exactly what did you think i meant by posting my "question"? bizarre response, but okaaaaaaaay.....
Why would you even post that question?
(Not saying you are any of the guys below...)
But, the statement you made sounds like the type of guy that every time he takes his wife out to dinner, the entire time he stares at all the women that walk into the restaurant and compares them to his wife based on looks alone (i.e., you have no other variables on the other women to compare to your wife). The guy does this even though he's been married for 20 years, have four wonderful children, you've gone through some really rough times, you complement each other's strengths and weakness, you're happy, etc....
Or, you're a newly wed couple, that does the above always comparing every women to his wife... Why?
How would you feel if you found out your wife does this?
I realize the depth of history and the bond is not here yet with Bucky, but in such a short time frame, AND given the LIMITATIONS HE WAS GIVEN TO START WITH, from your statement it seems you're wanting to see if you can do better. Why??
LOOK AT WHAT HE'S DONE.
Didn't mean to pick a fight, but if you don't take in the moment(s) when the moment(s) is/are happening, then you'll never appreciate what you have until after it is gone.
And maybe when what you have, sees you looking over the fence at what's out there, they bolt on you because they know you're not truly happy and you'll never be happy.
Let's have some faith in his process and maybe reevaluate within the next three years.
Sorry.