I'm from Houston, lived in San Antonio for couple of years while in the military, and have lived in Washington DC area for past 5 years. I finally got the offer I was looking for and the wife and I are moving back to SA area in the next couple of months.
We're planning on eventually buying a house in Boerne (this is based of my two weeks of looking around). I will be working on west side of 410, my hours are extremely flexible so I'm not worried about the commute.
We have no kids but plan on starting a family within the next year. I really like the small town look/feel of Boerne and we've been looking at new homes in one of the new subdivisions popping up off of 46 just east of downtown.
We've budgeted a maximum of 400K for a home. We're not looking for a lot of land or even a huge yard, so that's not a factor. For the most part, we're open to any part of town. I like the lower property taxes outside of Bexar county, but that's not a limiting factor either.
I'd love to hear people's suggestions on Boerne or other places we should check out. TIA